₦airaland Forum

Ironfaceman:
What is this nonsense again.Is like the name Nigeria means nothing again.

Why are other nations quick to humiliate Nigerians but back home we worship foreigners a lot

Even the ones from Chad and Niger.

CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little? Just think twice personally.


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.

Juliette5803:
Why is so much negativity attached to any president

franchasofficia:
They should open discussion with NDC and other parties too and confuse the iragbiji desperado. Nigerians are ready waiting to follow you people to any party even if na Witches Party of Nigeria. The wave of decamping and movement to any new party opposition announce as their new party will generate will shutdown Nigeria and may possibly send the divisive tribal President to coma


People say them no want you because you be failure, you still wan force yourself on them as per say you be who na?


If no be Buhari, El Rufai, Yakubu Mahmoud and Nyesome Wike, you for smell Aso Rock?