Mom007:

It looks like foolishness to you but try to listen and heed when your parents advice you. By the time your potential mother in law gives you such an obvious indication of what your life would be like should you persist, my dear, save yourself the heartache and look elsewhere. My sister married a yoruba as well, I married outside my tribe as well so I obviously have nothing against inter tribal marriage in general. Edo people are just not it. Leave them for themselves as the elders used to say, if cunny man die, na cunny man go Bury am.

my mom can't advice to marry from one particular tribe because both her and my dad are from different tribes. She can only tell u don't marry this particular set of people but she won't decide the tribe I marry from. I also want to believe not everybody from edo are bad. Even my mom that is from ogun as warned my sister's from marrying a man from that side. Anyone can marry from their tribe and it ends up bad for them.

phorget:
So you work in power sector? Hope say no be people swear catch you so?🤷‍♂️

My swear dey dia like 75%........

Wow
I can't believe I read everything here . .
Op such is life Pele, thank God you've moved on.
You wouldn't want to hear about other people's own.

Kobojunkie:
WOW! So, after what you have said so far, how sure are you the pregnancy is yours? and what do you intend to do at this point? Force her to conduct a DNA test so you can have and share custody with her even with her supposedly married to someone else?

Wait a minute.... it was aborted? Well, be glad you didn't have to share custody of your child with a woman who probably made up her mind to move on long before you discovered.

Am telling you d guy didn't know what God has.done for him for such things to happen because he will train a child that is not his and it might be too late when he will realize maybe when the child must have finish secondary school 🙁

Irreplaceable01:
I did seek their consent. Carried drink to the family and visited the mother also. Nobody told me they are not in support of our union. They were just giving one silly excuses or the other. Delaying the whole process without a definite Yes or No. Try to understand.

Sorry to ask,but are u from the other side of delta state?

ogashman:



Sorry to ask,but are u from the other side of delta state?

I'm Edo

tuzle:
my mom can't advice to marry from one particular tribe because both her and my dad are from different tribes. She can only tell u don't marry this particular set of people but she won't decide the tribe I marry from. I also want to believe not everybody from edo are bad. Even my mom that is from ogun as warned my sister's from marrying a man from that side. Anyone can marry from their tribe and it ends up bad for them.

That's your business oga. I wasn't talking about what your mom could and couldn't do. I was talking about my own mum and dad and how I try to heed their words. Go under the main post and drop your comment and don't quote me.

Mom007:

That's your business oga. I wasn't talking about what your mom could and couldn't do. I was talking about my own mum and dad and how I try to heed their words. Go under the main post and drop your comment and don't quote me.

no be fight. Since u didnt want me to quote u, u could have just ignored all I said. Anyway like I said take a chill pill, we are not fighting. Since what I original quoted was a general comment from you advising someone to marry only from his tribe because he is Edo.

[quote author=phorget post=129141878]So you work in power sector? Hope say no be people swear catch you so?

Na NEPA staff
so hilarious

This is serious o. The way i dey fear that gender now. Sorry bro move on.

Irreplaceable01:
Read and understand before you reply. I already proposed marriage to her which she accepted and started meeting with her family long before the pregnancy came up.

There's a part of your story that is not clear

5months is difficult to hide. 7montha is almost impossible.
So if you saw her in your house just a few days in yo the said introduction . How wouldn't you know she is no longer pregnant? Unless you are not sure of what a 5month or 7month pregnancy looks like. Most doctors won't abort that late and recovery is not quick. How will her belly go down in a few days to do introduction

worksmart:
You implied she was 7 moths pregnant or did you mean to say 7weeks?

If 7 months how can she use the excuse that she mistakenly thought she was pregnant but she wasn't especially since you claimed that you had sex with her just days before the Introduction?

Also if you regularly spoke to her aunt, why do you think the aunt did not inform you that the family did not approve of the marriage?

I thought I was the only one confuses about this 7month pregnancy.
How do you have sex with 7month pregnant woman days before her introduction and she says she want pregnant. Pregnant belle no dey hide when you remove cloth na

Irreplaceable01:
The pregnancy was real, the symptoms were there. She's a very slim girl so the pregnancy was not very obvious.

Secondly, the guy that did the introduction doesn't stay in the same state as her, so it was a long distance arrangement, possible why I didn't suspect it. But the symptoms were there. Why will someone not pregnant be attending antenatal, won't the nurses and doctors detect it? Aside from antenatal I registered her for a lady that does native medicine for pregnant women...that lady specializes in massaging the stomach making sure the baby was well positioned.

Bros it's even slim girls that pregnancy shows more. 7montha na haba. Majority of females I know are slim .

She probably lied to you about pregnancy and the time.
Anyways she's deceptive, e go meet her for front

Kobojunkie:
I do understand what you are saying. But, you didn't wait for consent before impregnating her. Then you went back to waiting for consent afterward. If my child was in a similar situation, I wouldn't hold it against her if she decided moving on was best.

I think it is best you accept what has happened and look for a way to move on instead.

This night as you are typing this to beat you to death dey hungry me. You are just calling my child my child like a retard. If it were to be your child didn't you comprehend the story well to know its you dragging the marriage and still blaming the guy claiming your child moved on. Are you that dumb or you just pretending to be. You wouldn't hold it against her if the child decided to move on you say when it's the child that's supposed to hold it against you for stalling her life. You thinking is just confusing and annoying at the same time.

Klass99:


Quit explaining yourself to people who want to be deliberately dunce. Your original post is simple and easy enough to understand.

If you see my mention to kobojunkie ehn. I didn't know pretending to be an idiot was that easy.

Ajione:
This is serious o. The way i dey fear that gender now. Sorry bro move on.

I don join the "fear woman" WhatsApp group.

Taal17:

Bros it's even slim girls that pregnancy shows more. 7montha na haba. Majority of females I know are slim .

She probably lied to you about pregnancy and the time.
Anyways she's deceptive, e go meet her for front

The pregnancy was real. I have evidences, but chose not to post. All pregnancy symptoms were visible. There was changes in her body system, shape and colour. Even up to appetite,smell, craving (I was buying cat fish pepper soup like mad). There was a time she was having sleepless time, will be on call with her late into the night.

Registered her for antenatal at a general hospital and also for native treatment for massaging of the stomach. The woman she registered with confirmed and is available to confirm that she was pregnant.

We visited my mum when the pregnancy was around 4/5 months in. My mum confirmed the pregnancy (my mum can spot a pregnant woman from far and she will be right).

I have enough legal ground and evidences to take up the pregnancy issue with her and her family. Even up to when she told me she was pregnant for me.

People that are calling me a SIMP might not be able to repeat that if we meet offline.

Those that are sending private messages....I'm not sure I have more info to give that is not on this thread already.

This story is obviously a fictional story. How can you say you had sex with a 7months old pregnant woman and didn't know if she was still pregnant or not. And few days later she did her introduction, shey the belle varnish?

Do you even know what is 7months old pregnancy? Like the baby has already been formed Ooo.
Just tell us you made a mistake while typing your fictional story, and mistakenly wrote 7months instead of 7weeks. Please, always proof-read next time.

Thanks!

Irreplaceable01:
Are you sure you read the writeup? It was written with English language. I already visited the family since 2022 to make my intention know to them long before the pregnancy came into play. They were the one dragging their feet. Pls read again. Slowly and comprehend.

Stop responding to the dude. He/she is a troll.

Now, how sure are you that the pregnancy belongs to you?

Rickmann:



Pls where is she from?

Go back to the first page and read slowly.

Irreplaceable01:
Are you sure you read the writeup? It was written with English language. I already visited the family since 2022 to make my intention know to them long before the pregnancy came into play. They were the one dragging their feet. Pls read again. Slowly and comprehend.

.... That's our one and only NL kobojunkie!😂 May be she woke up from the wrong side of the bed today. .. 😆😆

Irreplaceable01:
That the mum informed you herself without you wasting your time is a sign that they were good to you. You know how much I spent on that girl. On hospital bill for her mum. And on her mum burial arrangements. Not to talk of antenatal, provisions and all the essentials for a pregnant woman. Should we talk about the time wasted.

I was faithful to her to the point of staying off female friends. One of the girls that had a crush on me came to inform me last year that are boyfriend is planning to propose if there was any hope for us. I told her I was already in something serious and today she's married.

If you had married the girl with a crush on you, she will still be nacking her bf part-time

trollx:
This story is obviously a fictional story. How can you say you had sex with a 7months old pregnant woman and didn't know if she was still pregnant or not. And few days later she did her introduction, shey the belle varnish?

Do you even know what is 7months old pregnancy? Like the baby has already been formed Ooo.
Just tell us you made a mistake while typing your fictional story, and mistakenly wrote 7months instead of 7weeks. Please, always proof-read next time.

Thanks!

Believe whatever you want.

Irreplaceable01:
Thank God there are still intelligent minds here. I kept going back to the post to see if there was a mistake with the writeup.

😆😆😆... Are you new to this NL platform? ..E be like say you no know say e get persons wey dey think and comment here with the left side of their head. E.g.. like that kobojun.. 😆😆😆

Sapasenator:


Stop responding to the dude. He/she is a troll.

Now, how sure are you that the pregnancy belongs to you?

Only a woman knows that. I can only say sex was involved in our five yrs relationship (as at last yr) and she missed her period in the process. Told me about it and I advised her to go do a test. The test came back positive.

Irreplaceable01:
Only a woman knows that. I can only say sex was involved in our five yrs relationship (as at last yr) and she missed her period in the process. Told me about it and I advised her to go do a test. The test came back positive.

I am glad you recovered. The only loss is the money you spent. You will meet someone who will love and appreciate you in the future.

Klass99:


Can you please learn to STFU and stop displaying your stupidity all over the forum. The guy's story is clear and easy to understand.

There is no greater simp than a man who does nothing for a living except to run his mouth waaaa on a public forum, always rushing to comment foolishly and asking if he can send or drop aza for hand outs. That simp is no other person but you.

Unlike you the OP has a job in the power sector and does something worthwhile for a living. What exactly do you do for a living besides being foolish on NL.

And when they gave birth to you some people probably gathered round to celebrate and give thanks. They didn't know what a complete waste of sperm and egg you would turn out to be.

..Yeeh kpa!!!! ... @klass99. Its o.k, no wound am finish, abeg.

Leave am abeg.

This kind e-respond wey you give this guy ehn, e no get part two.

Irreplaceable01:
Only a woman knows that. I can only say sex was involved in our five yrs relationship (as at last yr) and she missed her period in the process. Told me about it and I advised her to go do a test. The test came back positive.

Take heart bro. I know it's hard to bear and fore go just like that, after all the sacrifices and emotional contributions. Take heart.

You deserve a woman with a good heart.
Worry less, na the babe lose a good man.

Take solace in that phrase that say ' Every disappointment is a blessing ' ...and this one is a big blessing coming ahead of you.

Please, Let it go. Time will heal your heart.

Irreplaceable01:
Nairalanders...na so una dey do for here.

😁😁😁😁😁😁😁🤩🤩🤩😃😃😃😃😃

Kolo people full here. Them no de read, them go just assume from the topic, read a few lines, then jump into conclusion.

TheGreatIYANU:



Man I read your story with shock and wonderment. First of all, you don't know how unintelligent a majority of the populace is until you begin to interact. #SMH

To your story, I wish you love, light and strength. As a man, you are expected to brave through it with stoicism and valour, but I say, take time to cry, express yourself like you've done then move on.

It is unfortunate there are still people in that country poised to make our national unity impossible. If we are honest, there is always one tribe that plays the tribal card always. Unfortunately, you fell into their pit.

You would rise above it with your head held high. Keep grinding, keep pushing. Focus on yourself... not for them, but for yourself.

i don't get why u are making it about tribe here since the girl is from delta state. If u are from that part, u will under that the family of the girl mostly decides what and what goes on during the marriage. Trying to make it look like the girl being from a particular tribe is the reason why it all went like this is very wrong. Delta and Edo where once same state so u can see our wrong u are. So because her late mom is Igbo isn't the reason why this happened.

Taal17:

Bros it's even slim girls that pregnancy shows more. 7montha na haba. Majority of females I know are slim .

She probably lied to you about pregnancy and the time.
Anyways she's deceptive, e go meet her for front

wrong, it depends. I know someone that is pregnant now, she is slim and if she wear all this flowing gown, I swear u can't know she is pregnant. This particular person was still discussing with my sister that she hopes to give birth by july