RushManni:


Bro, you dey cap nonsense here especially at the part you stated that we are humans and aren't perfect, in this case.

Pleaseeee let's call a spade a spade.

U think she can return that money ? You're joking

Or you think they won't have sex again ?

Well, I leave you with that mirage you see as reality

Imperfection has limit

Just like a man using his child for rituallll and you say he is imperfect ?

Imperfection has limit

Some things are deliberately..... If a woman DOESN'T want to sleep with you, there is nothing you do that'll let her do that.

He didn't rape her

It was the same "one thing led to another..." ;DLol..... Abeg allow yourself to wake up; but that's if you really want.

Well said and well analyzed, reality should always be said.... not deceiving one's self......how can a married woman say one thing lead to the other and gbam....total rubbish

sylve11:

Boss for quicky sweet the adrenaline no be here many things I talk say I no go do i don dey do am

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Did he said u should come to his house n thank him? Why didn't you go with one of your children or even husband to thank him?
Just for 50k you betrayed your husband of 16yrs.
Omo, money dey yab man!

onumadu:
Firstly, understand that you are a human being, and human beings are not perfect (including the hypocrites here calling you all types of names and accusing you).
As a human being, you fell for hardship (that is why poverty is very dangerous).
Understand this and forgive yourself.
Secondly, tell your husband everything now. Return the man's money, too. ALL OF IT.
I presume you are married to a mature man (not a kid like those ranting here).
I also assume that you are telling the truth about this being a one time mistake and not your character flaw.
If your husband has always known you as a normal trustworthy woman, and he is not the deeply insecure type (BTW I warn women to never marry insecure man no matter what), he is likely to forgive and let bygone be bygone.
Just like Jesus told the woman caught in adultery, GO AND SIN NO MORE.

You dey craze o! E be like say na you be the man.

Greenfusion:
Well said and well analyzed, reality should always be said.... not deceiving one's self......how can a married woman say one thing lead to the other and gbam....total rubbish

I dey tell you.

Where I even gave up was where she stated "the man has been disturbing her for 5 years ....."

That line gave her out that it was deliberate. Imagine married woman saying such

Even gf sef to say that, means she's already falling for the person but looking for excuse

Na im married woman dey yarn o .....

Already giving public reason why "she has tried and needs accolades to have resisted for 5 years. Whole 5 years. So it's time to remove pant na for the man"

That's all about it. Dumb woman thinking she can deceive people.

Where are the mistakes she is talking about? Did he forced her to make love together? She gave in her consent. She complied based on her storyline. She was expecting it and she has enjoyed it deeply to her satisfaction. And suddenly she came back to her senses that she had family.

Her brother she confined in has suggested to her what to do. All what she is assuming are her thoughts. What if the brother himself becomes a snitch?

Madam, invest the money properly and let your last visit to your boyfriend be the last visit. If he decides to continue to credit your aza. Make proper use of it.

Go and sin no more.

Mistakenly...do you mean the d** slipped into her ** while the guy was tying to penetrate another p**?

RushManni:


I dey tell you.

Where I even gave up was where she stated "the man has been disturbing her for 5 years ....."

That line gave her out that it was deliberate. Imagine married woman saying such

Even gf sef to say that, means she's already falling for the person but looking for excuse

Na im married woman dey yarn o .....

Already giving public reason why "she has tried and needs accolades to have resisted for 5 years. Whole 5 years. So it's time to remove pant na for the man"

That's all about it. Dumb woman thinking she can deceive people.

Exactly, very annoying

I don't like to hear " mistake" when it comes to having sex, since you're not force always remove that word.

onumadu:
Firstly, understand that you are a human being, and human beings are not perfect (including the hypocrites here calling you all types of names and accusing you).
As a human being, you fell for hardship (that is why poverty is very dangerous).
Understand this and forgive yourself.
Secondly, tell your husband everything now. Return the man's money, too. ALL OF IT.
I presume you are married to a mature man (not a kid like those ranting here).
If your husband has always known you as a normal trustworthy woman, and he is not the deeply insecure type (BTW I warn women to never marry insecure man no matter what), he is likely to forgive and let bygone be bygone.
Just like Jesus told the woman caught in adultery, GO AND SIN NO MORE.

Wot are u saying?
U're speaking as a married man or wana be? ...u tel ur husband u slept wit som1 explaining d circumstances surrounding it, he would now hug u and give some french kiss to reassure his love 4 u??

Stop joking plz

Story for the gods

Fineman2:
Women are too cunning and dishonest

They are only humans! Men do mess up too! Infact, anyone can...

You made a mistake. When he sent you 50k, you should have told your husband if you don't have ulterior motives.
May our food not be in enemy hands.
If you can sleep with man under the pretense of thanking him ... You have it in mind long ago.

omoredia:
Nairaland and lies. Every post here is all lies

I tell you.
Man sending married woman 500k, 200k etc
na so money dey easy?
200k that will serve you 20 young fresh babes u wan give married woman with 5 kids.

She is laying, she want to paint it like the rich man while if investigate it na only 5k the man gave her not 50k

This woman is greedy and does not fear God. Continue with your adultery and stop deceiving yourself by asking for advise. Tell me on what basis have you been collecting money from this man? why was he sending you money in different amounts? on his own? You are afraid of loosing your marriage but you committed adultery.

Fineman2:
Women are too cunning and dishonest

Yeye specie..
Very dishonest set of being..

How do they mistakenly sleep with people?

Madam, you have collected the money, the deed has been done. Ignore the man and move on. You should not have told you brother.

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Whats mistakenly?
she knew what she did.

Mistakenly 😂

onumadu:
Firstly, understand that you are a human being, and human beings are not perfect (including the hypocrites here calling you all types of names and accusing you).
As a human being, you fell for hardship (that is why poverty is very dangerous).
Understand this and forgive yourself.
Secondly, tell your husband everything now. Return the man's money, too. ALL OF IT.
I presume you are married to a mature man (not a kid like those ranting here).
I also assume that you are telling the truth about this being a one time mistake and not your character flaw.
If your husband has always known you as a normal trustworthy woman, and he is not the deeply insecure type (BTW I warn women to never marry insecure man no matter what), he is likely to forgive and let bygone be bygone.
Just like Jesus told the woman caught in adultery, GO AND SIN NO MORE.

mumu talk.

You ACCIDENTALLY slept with someone?

You ACCIDENTALLY came to his house

You ACCIDENTALLY followed him to his room

You ACCIDENTALLY pulled off all your clothes

You ACCIDENTALLY got on his bed

You ACCIDENTALLY opened your legs wide open yakata and allowed him to ACCIDENTALLY insert his dick into you

Women can be very funny sha. Pathetic.

Your husband has 4 shops, and because you no sell market for a day you remember to call the man that has been disturbing you since 5years.

The most heartbreaking is that you took your bath, dress well go to his house. I guess when he was trying to UnCloth you, you use your hands to pull off your pant and bra.

When he was pounding you his dick slipped out and you quickly grabbed it and put it back in your yansh.

He banged you several minutes and ejaculates and then you also cum and become very tired.

You are an evil woman and a disgrace to womanhood.

If i am your husband I will use you for money ritual.

Olosho dey learn work where you dey.

You're a fool for saying " mistakenly..what". Fear women. In quote...But all

My sister just enjoy the money and keep quiet. You knew exactly what to do and how to do it. There’s no need acting all innocent and helpless now. Invest that money and pull yourself out of poverty because your husband isn’t husbanding at all. When you need more money you know where to go. Case closed.

JerryJude:

My Dad usually sound it in I and my brothers ears, that one of the easiest way for man's death is sleeping with a married woman, nothing kill a man faster than that.

No be say i dey support bad thing o. But how many men have died.... by sleeping with married women? The only thing is for us to do what is right and follow the moral standards.

The only way to nyash married women is by enticing them with money especially when their husbands are passing through difficult times. And the set of women who fall for this are those ones who lack self control.

Jokkarm2:
invest the money in the business but mind you your husband will never forget it if you tell him. but invest the money . be wise

Can you as a man forgive your wife if she fuckkks another man and later confesses to you?

Greenfusion:

My question to you is, if you are a man and your wife tells you thus story, how would you react?

I chose to respond to you firstly because you didn't insult me (like the rest of the brainless oafs here).
Secondly, I like how you premised your question on the concept of the golden rule (do unto others as you'll want others to do to you).

To the issue and my comment.
Please re-read my comment again because most of you missed the key premises of my views:

Premise #1: ALL humans are not infallible or without sin (including you). NOBODY CAN EVER SWEAR THAT THEY CAN'T SIN, one way or another. You may not commit adultery, but you may steal, cheat others, envy/covet others, kill others one way or another, etc.

Premise #2: She MUST confess NOW and return ALL the money. This way she ensures that the man has no remaining claims on her in any way. She would also be free of his blackmail.

Premise #3: This is a ONE TIME thing and not a habitual character issue. Her husband knows her as a NORMAL TRUSTWORTHY WOMAN (not a LovePeddler).

Premise #4: The man in question is a MATURE man (all mature men know that NOTHING can be guaranteed in life except death).
Mature persons understands that life is a deep dark thing, and only the light that comes from within can help one navigate it.
Deep stuff which I don't have time to elaborate on here...

Whatever I say here is EXACTLY WHAT I WOULD DO IF IT WERE ME.
But then again, I don't expect everyone to agree with me, after-all we are not all at the same levels of spiritual vibration.

The fact that the woman bothered to share her story and has been pained enough to seek help is enough validation that she REALLY hates what happened. Did she have to share anything here? NOPE.
As a matter of fact, most of the men ranting here calling me all sorts of names are the types that their women screw the whole town secretly, while they are here rapping rubbish.
Women who REALLY cheat (true whores) NEVER SHARE THEIR STORY. THEY OPERATE IN STEALTH MODE PERMANENTLY.
The OP doesn't seem to match that, because she is already willing to return the money she received.
Anyway, there you have it.
You are entitled to your view, and I mine.

Double0h7:
My sister just enjoy the money and keep quiet. You knew exactly what to do and how to do it. There’s no need acting all innocent and helpless now. Invest that money and pull yourself out of poverty because your husband isn’t husbanding at all. When you need more money you know where to go. Case closed.

Your brain isn't braining at all... Foolish talk

Henrhyme4u:
Don't forget that condition can change SHOW YOUR TRUE character.

FIXED
these women dont suddenly change because of an issue in their lives, they just turn into who they REALLY were all along (while pretending to be good women). time/condition is what makes them lose the fake act and BE THEMSELVES.

- many good women would never wh0re themselves even if they lack money/food/shelter, and will instead find a job/biz to do.
- many undercover oloshoes would quickly start wh0ring themselves, if a small issue come to their lives, because these lazy shameless greedy women see no value in hardwork and rather open their legs and lay on their backs for a quick buck.