I've heard so many people say "how can you discourage premarital sex?" "How will I know how compatible we are? Infact I came across the funniest question just yesterday where a guy asked “Is No Sex Before Marriage A Possibility With The Present Economic Hardship in Our Country?"

It appears that people believe you have to "test drive" your potential spouse in order to ascertain your level of sexual compatibility before saying "I do" they further assert that practice makes perfect. If this is true why would God put us in such a fix?
In an article titled "Sex Without Marriage Often Ruins People's Health and Wellbeing," physician John R. Diggs Jr. outlined the specific and often devastating consequences of unmarried sex, including promiscuity, abortion, unstable family life, displacement of men, and exposure of women and children to high risks.

Clearly, sex outside of marriage is not "practice" without potential pitfalls. Perhaps that's why research proves that married people are having the best sex. An article titled "Aha! Call It the Revenge of the Church Ladies" published in USA Today concluded that Christian women (and the men who sleep with them, aka their husbands) are among the most sexually satisfied people on the planet.

This is a neutral, non-Christian magazine, saying that Christian, married couples are having the best sex.Why? Because sexual enjoyment flourishes in the context of a committed relationship. Why? Because that is what it was designed for? In contrast, in contrast the notion that you need to practice is false because only gives you more people to measure your future spouse against.. The end result is baggage and baggage is never cute.
Read the rest here: http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2013/08/who-is-having-greatest-sex.html#sthash.VKtSwCDt.dpuf

wait first, so na me disvirgin this topic? & i'm just two weeks old on nairaland.. thank u lord!
@ topic, op, u need to change the title, who nor read the content nor go know say na beta advice u dey give

Busting a good nut.

Considerin d rate of divorce,i highly doubt its d married people dat r having al d fun oh...

Mrs.Chima:
Busting a good nut.

squirrel tins

Rawpidgin: wait first, so na me disvirgin this topic? & i'm just two weeks old on nairaland.. thank u lord!
@ topic, op, u need to change the title, who nor read the content nor go know say na beta advice u dey give

The title cant be that bad for u to have clicked on it. I guess you might have been expecting something else though. *wink*wink*

Armstrong57: Considerin d rate of divorce,i highly doubt its d married people dat r having al d fun oh...

marriages breakand relationships end everyday...Cest la meme chose

However, sex outside of marriage and within the confines of a committed marriage between christians is what the article is refering to and that is a different thing entirely.

OP, come back when you have a point to make.