ever since i brokeup with my boyfrend and first love,i ave not have a steady reletionship.evry guy dat ask me out jst want to sleep with me and thats all.im a good lookin girl with d right features bt i still dnt understand,pls sumbody tell me wat 2 do cuz its givin me sleepless nyt.

Sorry sweetheart,i think you should revalue ur criteria on dating.is it money,love, security.it could be that since after the first break up you kinda attracted to people with destructive patterns but u might not be aware of it.first i think you should really first try to decypher one's character before u might want to go into a relationship.trust me you'll find the right guy.Good Girls always do.so sleep tight.and pls don't think it's ur fault cuz it ain't to get the best we served with trash first so that we'll value what want when we get it.bye babe

i meant so you'll value it when it comes.t9 is a bitch

i meant so you'll value it when it comes.t9 is a bitch

U are not cursed my dear,maybe u've not found d right person,or maybe u've passed him already when u de style for all dem guys wey de come ur way,cos u think u're way too cute

Dont worry my dear,the right person shall come your way sonnest i guarantee u,n when he does u'll c that its not been a wasted years afterall.Cheers baby

My dear, I've seen that you missed your ex so much. If you ask me, I don't think you're cursed. What I think is that you're suffering from emotional distress. It's now clear that you missed your ex so much. I would advice you to distance yourself from relationships for now until your heart heals. One doesn't have an accident today and attempts going to work tomorrow; its madnes, because he/she would need time to recover from the accident. Likewise you my dear, you need time to recover from your injury. So flash your red light whenever a guy makes a move; and be sure to leave that light on until you heal completly and I can assure you that all would be well when you attempt another guy.

Poster,

There you go! Your first ever problem. Your first claim " im a good lookin girl with d right features " shows that you are really confident (which is good) and you think that other people would think of you as such (not good partially cause thats when your over confident attitude will rise up and it always has made you to behave in a more egoistic way)- Im not judging but this is how I look at people when they think of theirseves as preety and have a good figure. Abeg oo. . . Just my point of view. No beef me.

Sometimes when you go out in public and guys tend to give the reaction of wanting to sleep with you, at times its best to check on yourself like for instance. . . .

1) Maybe the way you dress shows that you are insterested in sex

2) The way you walk might show it as well

3) The way you talk to guys might show it

I mean I dont know you and all but I was thinking that since you said all the guys are interested in sleeping with you instead, there must be a problem with you if everyone else seems to react the same way dont you think so?

I beg to differ! U are cursed! Consult 'patwitchkid' 4 deliverance. . .

Na waaa to you Czarskit

@mateelda


girl, i think that problem is IN YOU.
dont think abouit your X and get rid of the thoughts that everyone wants just sex.
relax and be free

Try me first b4 u conclude.

kokoA:

Try me first b4 u conclude.

sorry no way. you wann scam the babe abi
i no your mid oooooo

@Poster , what exactly do you want now because me i no really understand your thread o, atleast dem still dey ask you out? so why worry ? and guys sleeping with ya is just because you too fine as you said which guy no like better thing

lol, i no talk o

Im so excited to read ur opinion crazykid. It makes alot of sense.

Hmmm

@poster,
It is ok!

@poster, what do u know 'law of karma' mean?
Guess u are only payin back what u did to dat 'true' young man - your ex!
1of my ex girls once did it to me - she neva valued my love, but always pretended to love me - until she messed up, big time; i took a step 4ward, now she's begging to come back after countless set of dic.ks don 'enter de place'.
Dis has been for about a yr now and she seem not to found a real man to take my position (fill de gap i created)!
So, re-examine urself; if u cause for ur break up, ask God to forgive u, den ask him for his own forgiveness - not necessarily going back 2him.
KARMA SWEET OH - PROVIDED SAY YOU DEY INNOCENT!

dear mateelda, do you know that this world is a crazy place cos sometimes, the very thing you are looking for is the one thing that you don't see. sometimes you laugh and sometimes you cry but can anybody tell why it has to be that way? look, if only you would listen to what i wanna say to you then i believe you will overcome this for sure. call this number and pls don't thing of anything dirty cos i only wanna help, 08035221978, GOOD LUCK!

See men don de involve runs already

u need to look at yourself, no one else can help u with this one

You are not curse it is just that you have not been able to get your first love off your mind.

PC Guru, you don become Dr Phil?

@ Poster

You are not cursed, just meeting the wrong people, not every man is like your first boyfriend, just be patient and the right one will come.

you are not cursed my baby

No way! She's Cursed!

Cursed! Cursed! Cursed!

Na wa

No you are not cursed; you are 21.

Poster, ok, to know whether you are curse or not. I sugeest on your next date, you dress up like a nun and if the guy still ask for sex, than you are cursed otherwise you are not

my dear, i dont think that you're cursed. based on what i read from your comment. take heart,all will be well. for an adage says that the patience dog eats the fattest bones.

I think NL Dr Phil Is right and Gab(abeg i no fit laugh jo)