I have a friend who dating this girl for over 3yrs and I have always been meeting up to my responsibility, though he is still a job applicant and he is really do his bets for this lady. But one problem is that the lady is too demanding and at same time refusing him sex since they started going out for the past 3-4yrs, claming till after marriage, and she is not a virgin, yet her demand are always often. Nlanders wat do tink ?? is he fooling himself or wasting his tym or she is taking him for a ride.
I need some advice here

what is ur friend actually looking for in the relationship, sex or love? does the girl love him despite her demands. if ur friend is not getting what he wants, he should let her know.effective communication breaks barriers.

Thats realy sad, some girls can be wicked.

^^^ By saying no to premarital sex? I dont see any wickedness in that!

@ Poster, I think everybody deserves the right to choose. Nobody's forcing him on the girl and nobody's forcing him to give her anything. The girl has made her choice, I think he should make his.

If you are not cool with a no-sex relationship, then why enter into it in the first place