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My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Whatsapp9(m): 8:09am On May 03
I recently picked my wife's phone to make a call, because had a low battery. She comfortably handed me the phone. Upon receiving the phone I saw an unread message from what I later found out was a guy since My wife had saved his name with a lady's name.

I wasn't going to open it but because of the nature of the message, I was forced to read the entire conversation. The unread message on her screen was "I will do anything for you sweetie".
I know a woman can send that message but my instincts were telling me to confirm the gender from their chat.

They had a long history chat. And calls. I discovered something that shocked me.
It was from their interactions last year when my daughter was born.

When my wife was in the labor ward, I was leading a presentation for our company.
In fact, when my wife forwarded the picture of my daughter to me on WhatsApp, was about to give a speech at the meeting. I was so excited, i had to announce to everyone l had a daughter. I used FORWARDED because she originally had uploaded the picture to this man and captioned it, "Our baby girl"

I took my phone to scroll to see the time she forwarded and found out My daughter’s name that we now call her was suggested in their chat by this man.

I feel so embarrassed, ashamed and betrayed.
I don’t know what to do next.

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Chukwuka319(m): 8:23am On May 03
Brother, there's so much more than meets the eye.Why should an ex of your wife suggest a name for your daughter?
Something is smelling foul.
Not even your brothers, sisters, father, mother or cousins suggested a name,but your wife's ex did.
Go for a DNA test as quickly as possible, without hesitation to be a hundred percent sure that your daughter is biologically yours.
Paternity fraud is REAL!

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by kelvin1191(m): 8:27am On May 03
If that your so Called daughter Is Your only Child Then you Are Childless

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by 2aces(m): 8:29am On May 03
Wahalooooor!!!

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by fyzaila: 8:31am On May 03
First confirm if she's truly your biological child before you even start anything. That tag *our child* hmmm undecided

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by amnesty7: 8:32am On May 03
From some of your threads you're not yet married. Just be tagging your threads as 'Fiction' at the beginning.

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Obiedun(m): 8:55am On May 03
kelvin1191:
If that your so Called daughter Is Your only Child Then you Are Childless
Too harsh.
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by franchasofficia: 9:33am On May 03
I love this skit, it will go viral.


Meanwhile, tell Obidients to stop causing fuel scarcity just to discredit Tinubu. Obidients are the cause of the current fuel scarcity, they will buy fuel from filling station and pour it away and go back to filling station to buy more to pour away.


How can IPOB/Obidients hate Nigeria so much and still want Obi to become President?



Peter Obi will never be President, he is Gbajue, he failed to develop Anambra state angry

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by libertyfather(m): 9:33am On May 03
no worry thats life, it favour some and neglect some

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by ezegenigbonine: 9:53am On May 03
franchasofficia:
I love this skit, it will go viral.


Meanwhile, tell Obidients to stop causing fuel scarcity just to discredit Tinubu. Obidients are the cause of the current fuel scarcity, they will buy fuel from filling station and pour it away and go back to filling station to buy more to pour away.

How can IPOB/Obidients hate Nigeria so much and still want Obi to become President?




This one is a brainwashed zombie already. May God heal him amen


Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by ezegenigbonine: 9:54am On May 03
franchasofficia:
I love this skit, it will go viral.


Meanwhile, tell Obidients to stop causing fuel scarcity just to discredit Tinubu. Obidients are the cause of the current fuel scarcity, they will buy fuel from filling station and pour it away and go back to filling station to buy more to pour away.


How can IPOB/Obidients hate Nigeria so much and still want Obi to become President?





This one is a brainwashed zombie already. May God heal him amen

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by iichidodo: 9:58am On May 03
You married an alpha widow...Sorry.
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by dominique(f): 10:09am On May 03
Una no dey ture to dey recycle fake stories?

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by BeardedMeat(m): 10:15am On May 03
Tell us your daughter's name first and foremost. grin
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Jones90: 10:23am On May 03
Why on earth will you allow your wife to name your child? Personally I don't do that cos I know some of them can use their Ex name to name the innocent child.

This I know even before I became a father.

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Judd007: 10:51am On May 03
The caption would have been “My wife’s daughter’s name was suggested by her boyfriend “ guy as it stands you don’t have a wife, come talk of daughter. Use brain.

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by flokii: 10:55am On May 03
If you don't marry a virgin, forget it.. chances are high that one of her ex boyfriends or numerous male friends will impregnate her. This OP's case is a typical example.
That she saved a guy's name as female to conceal his identity shows she has no regard for the husband, the ex suggesting name of their daughter shows the ex might have fathered the girl.

When I see some guys feeling too confident of their wives, I just laugh and go my way.
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by kelvin1191(m): 11:07am On May 03
Obiedun:
Too harsh.

Should we tell him that he Is Bankrolling a Jobless guy who in Trun Uses the Proceed To bankroll other Whores
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by IamDora(f): 11:19am On May 03
The moment I saw the meme picture u attached to ur story, I already knew it is fake and u must be one of those jobless boys/men we have in this forum

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Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Obiedun(m): 11:42am On May 03
kelvin1191:


Should we tell him that he Is Bankrolling a Jobless guy who in Trun Uses the Proceed To bankroll other Whores
The man no get wife self.
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Kobicove(m): 1:23pm On May 03
Tales by moonlight
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by KingNom(m): 1:26pm On May 03
This is serious
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by papyjaypaul: 1:31pm On May 03
If it bothers you so much, change the name. It's not too late. In Africa, many family members give banes but not all ofbthem are govt names
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Gbadugbakun(m): 1:33pm On May 03
That's because the child isn't yours. Better do a DNA. If she turns out to be yours change her name. She's still a baby so it won't have complex consequences
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by IbrahimSkiba(f): 2:08pm On May 03
lipsrsealed
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by FitCorper: 2:24pm On May 03
This reeks of lies. But Wetin una de gain to Dey continue fuel the gender war already in the country. Worse is that some morons will read this and will be quick to believe it. As a Man, until u absorb that feminine energy u are just wasting ur time. So best stay away from posts that corrupt ur mind about women, Abi una no get sisters? Na so them de behave? U get mama to na. Haba Seun needs to do something about this misogynistic agenda on nairaland.
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by LordIsaac(m): 3:09pm On May 03
If you had followed good counsel and married a virgin, another man wouldn’t have named their daughter in your house and you wouldn’t have opened this thread! Thus, to all single men out there: “marry a virgin today!!!😊

Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by NEUDUDE: 3:14pm On May 03
fyzaila:
First confirm if she's truly your biological child before you even start anything. That tag *our child* hmmm undecided

when you read cant you comprehend? Didnt you see where op said she originally uploaded the photo to her ex with the caption "Our baby girl" before forwarding it to the idiot that pay the bills for her promiscuity in full time grin.

DNA/Biology for what? Common sense would tell you the op has been played for a fool if this is true
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Cizarr(m): 3:23pm On May 03
Change your daughter name and stand by it... simple
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Alphamentips: 7:01pm On May 03
This guy na big ass liar. I done read this same story b4 for NL
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by elmagnifico411(m): 7:39pm On May 03
No need to go for DNA.. it's a total waste of time and money. It's so glaring, that girl isnt yours. You're the side husband. The main husband is the one u referred to as EX. if were u, that marriage is over! She should go to him. Sorry man, you've got to look for a way to start all over again. That woman isn't yours.
Re: My Daughter's Name Was Suggested By My Wife's Ex by Nonexisting1: 7:44pm On May 03
Truly I say to you, yes you that are reading this. I'm sick and tired of simps and their tales.

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