We have seen what imitation costs christian girls and we see that wether it is from the family, school or church or other influence which are self drawn desires or lusts of the eyes which lure them to copy evil things, the consequences are always destructive!

Imitation is not of God , following multitudes to do evil and joining evil company will have a very bad effect.
Its unfortunate that dinah suffered because of imitation of the daughters of Canaan and mingling with them opened a door for her to be raped!

Also the bad example Aholah imitated from Aholibah sexcapades!
While the internet is now the third parent of the children of this generation, evil things can easily be learnt from the media.

Evil lifestyles , acts and activities that has spurred danger to the life of a christian girl.
Let us go to the second point and it is called SELF CONCEIT!!!
what is self conceit It is an overweening opinion of onesself!

In such cases we see that a woman is loyal to how she feels than obedient to Gods word.

She would think more of herself than what God says or commands.
Man generally is naturally disobedient to
God's word or naturally inclined to rebellion.
So self conceit would allow a lot of girls to remain in bondage by striving against God their creator!!
The perceptions or opinions of oneself under the word of God will not be one that she would be willing to accept because all things before God are naked before him and in his sight!

Hebrews 4:13 Neither is there any creature that is not manifest in his sight: but all things are naked and opened unto the eyes of him with whom we have to do.

Psalms 51:6 Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.

However, many christian girls hide under the guise of being ashamed or fright to cover up who they really are before God.
They may continue to self aggrandize or boost their self esteem unto a state of haughtiness than be selfless and being free from bondages.
Let us see some bible verses to see how this rebellious nature reflects in them.

Proverbs 7:10 And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart.

7:14 I have peace offerings with me; this day have I payed my vows.

7:15 Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.
7:16 I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt.
7:17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
7:18 Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.

7:19 For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey:

We see here that this woman is known already but she is filled up with self conceit and this has to do with all she has done than obeying God's word

Today's christian girls don't see accountability as part pf their own responsibility towards God .

Some say 'its their lives and they can live it to the fullest and everyone should mind their business , they dont give a damn!
But God will bring all we do into Judgement!
Ecclesiastes 11:9 Rejoice, O young man, in thy youth; and let thy heart cheer thee in the days of thy youth, and walk in the ways of thine heart, and in the sight of thine eyes: but know thou, that for all these things God will bring thee into judgment.
Many become angry because they once did things that were godly but there was no gain in it physically or materially or financially, so they frown at everything called Godly!
The mind to explore vain things would lead them easily into bondages which they face and enter into alone !!!

Proverbs 7:25 Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths.

7:26 For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her.

7:27 Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.
Many of such christian girls may not be sluts in nature but their actions may represent sluts or Harlotry.

The double edged lifestyle will plunge them easily into a trouble that is hard to come out from .

Ezekiel 16:49 Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.

Every girls pride is their virginity, but there are some sins that also accompany virgins and one of such is stubbornness because of self conceit.

They want the world to perceive them in a certain way than the Word of God to shape them in an eternal way so they also look up at vain things!

They also want the world to revolve around them and also see others in the society who measure to their self standards.
Racheal the daughter of laban died because of lies through self conceit.
She stole her fathers idols sat on it and didnt want to own up for it.


She said that it was the customs and manner of women upon her that didn't allow her to get up for her spot to be searched.
Genesis 31:34 Now Rachel had taken the images, and put them in the camel's furniture, and sat upon them. And Laban searched all the tent, but found them not.
Genesis 35:17 And it came to pass, when she was in hard labour, that the midwife said unto her, Fear not; thou shalt have this son also.
35:18 And it came to pass, as her soul was in departing, (for she died) that she called his name Benoni: but his father called him Benjamin.
35:19 And Rachel died, and was buried in the way to Ephrath, which is Bethlehem.
35:20 And Jacob set a pillar upon her grave: that is the pillar of Rachel's grave unto this day.
What she sat upon was like her own decision which under a guise was not to be meddled or challenged and so it is today.!

Many Christian girls who are self conceited have forgotten about the deceitfulness of their hearts when it comes to exposing sins, iniquity or trespasses or transgressions that put them into bondages!

They rather stick to their guns thinking that they are better off in their own eyes than surrendering or submitting to God for their deliverance from such troubles.
Some go to seek advice from the wrong people who are also birds of the same feather!
Some would never own up to their mistakes when identified nor would they surrender to rebukes !!!

We have a generation that curses its parents because of their own opinion of themselves in their own eyes !
Proverbs 30:11 There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.
30:12 There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness.

The christian girl would love to see sin via book knowledge than Judge herself or examine herself through the word of God!!
This would always make her to murmur and complain about exposing sin.
It would also make her to resist and reject Gods will about her and for her life hence she remains in bondages.

They would keep playing victim in the face of sin, neglecting the part they played and speaking of the perpetrators only !

They would want to attract sympathy and compassion but fail to confess their own parts of sins and their ways and doings that made them become a victim of such sin!

They would want to be complimented or pitied whereas they were quick to mock God and do their own selfish deeds in their own way and now call on God when they are suffering the consequence.
God in his mercy answers them and praise be to God for this or many would have already been destroyed!
When people dont want to own up or accept things they clamour, complain and murmur of being under a strict or harsh condition!

The children of Isreal wanted physical freedom but it meant going back into spiritual bondages.
They remembered how they ate food in Egypt.
They loved to go into bondage than into spiritual freedom and even lashed out at God for being better off in bondage than in freedom just because of a little circumstance.
Many of the things we do outside of God and parental supervision would always backfire with its consequences!
Numbers 11:5 We remember the fish, which we did eat in Egypt freely; the cucumbers, and the melons, and the leeks, and the onions, and the garlick:
They forgot that if God should give them up to their lusts or self conceits, their souls would be lean
These people preferred to be in bondage than in freedom because they didn't see fit things as God sees it.

So it is when we are full of self conceit rather than obeying Gods will.
We see the story of two single mothers during the time of king solomon.

One of their child died due to suffocation from overlaying.
She lied that she was instead she was the mother of thr living child than the dead .
King Solomon's wizdom was able to expose her.

1 Kings 3:24 And the king said, Bring me a sword. And they brought a sword before the king

3:25 And the king said, Divide the living child in two, and give half to the one, and half to the other.

3:26 Then spake the woman whose the living child was unto the king, for her bowels yearned upon her son, and she said, O my lord, give her the living child, and in no wise slay it. But the other said, Let it be neither mine nor thine, but divide it.

3:27 Then the king answered and said, Give her the living child, and in no wise slay it: she is the mother thereof.
Some girls would become envious or jealous of others because of self conceit and they would destroy a good relationship.

Self conceit would lead to keeping secrets that destroy oneself because of the constant thought of being better than the other girl

Self conceit has destroyed a lot of sincere Christian sisters, making them now enemies of the truth and enemies of the way of the truth!!!

Self conceit would make them also secretive and no longer willing to be OPEN!

Lets now go to the third reason christian women enter into bondages easily.

3)PARTIAL CONFESSION OF SINS: The bible tells us if we walk in the light, we would have fellowship with him and the blood of his son Jesus Christ cleanses us from all our sins.

Also to confess something means to give up or tell something one did, or has done or will still do!
The curse for not confessing at all means spiritual poverty of the soul which would lead to sickness and death!!!
Proverbs 28:13 He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.
What does it mean to prosper or what does prosperity of the soul mean?
Because the body profits nothing and was destroyed because of the corruption of sin, therefore the body would return back to the dust!
Our soul then is what makes us alive in this lifetime and when our body dies, our spirit returns back to God and the body to dust.
Our soul appears before Judgment -Hebrews 9:27.
If one doesnt confess all their sins while on earth and fails to accept Jesus Christ as lord and savior or accepts Jesus Christ as lord and saviour yet doesnt repent pf a certain sin nor doesnt confess then such sin may take one to hell !
Our soul can only prosper when we are born again
Good health is something money cannot buy but the soul of the righteous has in themselves!
3 John 1:2 Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.
We see the parable of the rich fool, who was not saved but was physically wealthy and rich but souly poor and wretched!
He laid his barns and expanded his business and was complementing his soul for what he never had instead of giving God the glory.
Luke 12:19 And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry.
This man had no eternal life while in his body and he was dead to God already that is why he never had a heart to thank God or acknowledge God for the prosperity of his soul!
Luke 12:20 But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided?
Who will own all the things he has gathered up when his body dies?
Where will his soul go to without eternal life.?
This is what many people dont know and the thing is clear, if they dont give their lives to Jesus christ in hose hand os the breath of every living soul, who else would claim their soul!
Job 12:10 In whose hand is the soul of every living thing, and the breath of all mankind.
When the breath of life departs from their bodies, where does their soul unsaved go to??
Its better not to hold back but confess all sins and be saved , delivered and set free totally from sins.
John 8:36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
To confess such sin would bring mercy than condemnation which is the attitude of men!
When the adulterous woman was caught in the act, she didnt hold back but confessed it all and was free!
John 8:10 When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
8:11 She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
Many christian women, ladies or girls would never confess it all.
Some would hold back 5/10 or only confess 8/10 and that is why their freedom is not complete.
That is why satan stands to still resist them because he comes and finds something remaining of his in their lives.
John 14:30 Hereafter I will not talk much with you: for the prince of this world cometh, and hath nothing in me.
Sometimes , its not only confession of sins, but sincerity in opening up or sharing the whole problems.
There is a problem in the body of christ where a lot of women are over loaded with problems and cannot tell their male pastors because they are emotional about it and would not be able to see them walk the process of confession until the end.
Sometimes its painful relieving such process because of the emotional burdens the affected ones have been carrying all the while!
Still yet, God says we should confess our faults one to another, there was no gender basis specifically for it but one should confess means confess.
James 5:16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
Many christian women will NEVER BE HEALED and their wounds will become spiritually chronic leading to a state of bitterness whereby everyone is now defiled.
This means failure to confess a little thing eg hatred, malice, grudges would lead to a bigger case of bitterness and unforgiveness and vengeance makes them a hurtful person instead of being a healing person!
They must be healed!!!
Without confession no healing, the soul cannot prosper in good health!
It is more of a spiritual act than a physical
The source of pain and hurt must be confessed to be free from emotional blackmail, trauma, stigma or stress!
Many ministers who are not experienced will mishandle the female folk.
When Sapphira didnt confess all the money from her sold lands but held back part and brought some to the Apostles feet, it lead to instant death!

That they held back part whilst it was in their possession was a sin.

So also women who possess certain sins, bad characters, attitudes, behavior must confess to the source of it all and be accountable or they would never be healed, turn chronic and die spiritually!

They would be alienated from the life of God and not receive mercy.
Some matters that should have been ironed out in sincerity, honesty and unfeigned assurance becomes chronic and detrimental yo their SPIRITUAL growth .

Its better to confess all!

These are the problems of some Christian women.

When Jesus Christ visited abram and Sarah laughed , she was asked if she laughed , but she denied it and didnt own up to laughing but lied!
Some women are like that they wont tell all!
It is just what makes them continue to hide the truth, their true feelings, their minds and hearts until they become internally destroyed!
Satan hides under this guise to use women against true men of God or to draw men back.
Eve didn't tell adam that the fruit was of the tree of knowledge of good and evil, but she knew the truth.
She gave adam and adam knew that it was the truth, but eve didnt tell adam what happened to her that made her change and eat of that fruit of death.
Adam could have not been cursed if he refused to eat of that fruit but he listened to eve who wasnt created before him than God, so God was angry with eve.
God was not happy too with eve for listening to the creature(satan) more than the Creator (GOD).
Eve became a slave of sin by yielding to sin and so it is , many women will remain in bondage by confessing partially than totally!!