Well, it was on a sunday but bro tosin didnt know what exactly is wrong with sister bolu!
Every worship day seemed like one drama or the other.

Bro tosin was the youth pastor in charge of the church but he took long to discover what was really going on with sister bolu!

The thought of his discovery was shocking but it looked as common to a mature minister who had more experience than what was new to him entirely!

What really concerned him with sister bolu? It was not like he had anything to do with her, but things seemed to be the other way round entirely.

Sister bolu was always the one approaching men with her hospitality and it seemed to have endeared her to many favours any place she found herself .
Everyone seemed to like her , but slowly the Holyspirit began to expose this sister to the youth pastor after he took his time to pray and discern sister bolu.


A PARTICULAR CYCLICAL OCCURENCE
Sister bolu was not the same in church as she was at home! She was a trouble maker and always jealous and envious and mistrustful of anyone who came directly in approach to her.
She would rather she approaches them and this attitude became a problem and this was some sort of imbalance!

Any other person would feel it was a bit weird for a sister to always be the one approaching men !
She was always bold in her approach but one red flag bro tosin noticed was when she was always uncomfortable with men approaching her .
These men most of them were not bad , some were not even after marriage, some were just waiting to know her but she always womanifested the same character of not being comfortable in their approach.

It was then it became clear that it was a problem in her life.
Many times, she began to fight her sisters whom these men approached because they didnt do like her.

One day , sister bolu was talking to bro tosin. He was looking at her and telling her some serious things, but she was looking like someone lost.
Bro tosin called her back to reality sister bolu!!! iam talking serious things to you and you are looking absent minded?
What is wrong with you? are you ok where are you thinking too?
She responded that she wanted to go and urinate!!!!
When this scenario continued to repeat on most occasions, bro tosin became fed up and left her alone.
He thought he was the only one she was doing this to, but he noticed, it was all men and mostly new men she kept doing this thing too.
After much prayers, it became clear to bro tosin that sister bolu was lusting in her hearts with these men and this was the reason she was misbehaving and acting all uncomfortable with them.
He noticed that she had a sexual perverting spirit that loves to experiment in her mind with pictures of these men eg some just mere brothers and some anointed.
Sister bolu was thinking in her heart how having sexual intercourse would be and these thoughts made her absent minded while keeping silent as if in humility and paying attention to the minister or any brother!!!

Bro tosin wanted to be annoyed but decided to fight a spiritual warfare for her deliverance.

It only depended on sister bolu of she wanted to be free from such spiritual bondage of sexual perversion!!!

Sister bolu always lusted in her heart with imaginations of many brothers and men. It was like a spirit always made her obsessed at heart with these men.

It was also an ancestral bondage from her mother who was abused at a young age .
Her mother was touched inappropriately by a doctor whom her father took her too when she was having some issues!
Her father, mishandled the whole situation and this caused her mother to undergo such trauma.
Her mother hadn't healed from that experience till date so she was always scared of the opposite sex or always a monitoring spirit towards her daughter whenever they approach the opposite sex.

She became a suspicious devil and passed this trait to her daughters who never wanted to talk further in open with any man but always did many things in secret with themselves and where the type that only felt that any man who they can control is their perfect man.
It was some sort of depressed love or obsession or unnatural affection routine that made them never to be comfortable around men.
Some called it Geno Phobia and without without sister bolu opening up to it,she could never be free but keep being under such oppression.
Such is it today,there are many sisters who keep saying they dont want to have anything to do with the opposite sex approaching them but want to approach the oppositesex in their own way not knowing they have been traumatized!!!
If you are such sister,its best to seek medical help or spiritual feeling.
Phobia of sex
Phobia of Sex: Understanding and Coping

The phobia of sex, also known as genophobia or coitophobia, is a type of specific phobia that involves an excessive or irrational fear of sexual relations or sexual intercourse. This phobia can manifest in different ways, ranging from mild discomfort to intense anxiety or panic.
Causes and Triggers

The causes of genophobia can vary, but common triggers include:

Trauma: Sexual trauma, such as rape or molestation, can lead to the development of genophobia.
Cultural or religious beliefs: Certain cultural or religious beliefs can create negative associations with sex, leading to fear or avoidance.
Anxiety or stress: High levels of anxiety or stress can contribute to the development of genophobia.
Sexual performance anxiety: Fear of not being able to “perform” sexually can lead to genophobia.
Symptoms

People with genophobia may experience:

Intense fear or anxiety: Fear of sexual relations or sexual intercourse.
Avoidance: Avoidance of sexual situations or intimate relationships.
Physical symptoms: Physical symptoms such as rapid heartbeat, sweating, or trembling.

Emotional distress: Feelings of panic, shame, or guilt.
Treatment and Coping

Coping with genophobia requires a combination of self-help strategies and professional help. Here are some ways to manage the phobia:

Seek professional help: Consult a mental health professional for guidance and support.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy: Learn to reframe negative thoughts and behaviors associated with genophobia.
Relaxation techniques: Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or meditation to manage anxiety.
Support groups: Join a support group to connect with others who share similar experiences.
Education: Learn about sex and sexual intimacy to reduce anxiety and fear.
Remember, genophobia is a treatable condition, and with the right support and strategies, it is possible to manage and overcome the phobia.
Jesus christ is the healer that can make all phobia go away.
Whatever is odd is not of God