DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Madam, one toto no dey belleful man

One prick no dey belleful woman too since we are all animals

Taiwojon:

OK thank you

Continue fighting for the equal right

Your lack of comprehension is of a kind.


Go back and read what you first quoted and this time slowly.

Maybe I should use an analogy.

It’s just like people use dowry to mean bride price, but bride price and dowry aren’t the same thing.

Dowry is money paid by a woman or woman’s family to the groom’s families when getting married.
bride price on the other hand is paid by the groom/groom’s family to the bride’s family.

If you don’t get it now, I won’t even bother anymore because it will show that your level of understanding is more shallow than I even thought.

I won’t be surprised if you are a muslim. its ok not to let women drive, go to school, have a white collar job, go out in public etc…

these are the kind if rights, not the husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend rubbish you people have come to believe feminism is about.

BareFacedLies:
If you like leave your marriage because of what Nairaland chief feminist Kobojunkie said.

When you do you will realise that the only real options available to you in the dating pool in Nigeria are widowers and possibly divorcees.

You're not likely to find a single guy in Nigeria who will readily marry a divorced woman with kids instead they will be taking turns to fuçk you.

If you must know the husbands of most of your friends also have sidechicks but they are more discrete about it so stop envying them.

This is the 21st century, no one is holding marriage to a dumb high regard except you people still stuck in the 15th century and will want women to take crap all in the name of a stupid marriage

BareFacedLies:


Calvary247 I still stand by what I said earlier, most of your friends are also in the same boat.

So long as there is no domestic violence involved just ignore advise from Kobojunkie and her fellow feminists.

If you leave your husband because of this just know that your pússy will become free-for-all except if you have plenty of money to attract a lazy gold digger who will agree to marry you.

The odds are seriously stacked a female divocee in Nigeria

She already has kids so marriage is already useless to her, na una still dey hold am in high regard to give you some sort of ego boost when the world is obviously moving on lol

saasala:

You be weyrey I swear

my guy abeg i lie?

Flamemignon1:

The way you people think baffles me. What if she was your daughter or your sister? Men like you and your cohorts give other men a bad name, why won't woman see us as dogs? What if she was your daughter and he infects her with an STI or HIV HPV or even hepatitis? Will you still tell her to bear the rubbish marriage?

If you are not the dog, point out anything bad in my comment.

If you are not the dog, point out any falsehood or injustice in my comment.

immortalcrown:
If you are not the dog, point out anything bad in my comment.

If you are not the dog, point out any falsehood or injustice in my comment.

You are obviously the bolded who can't keep his dick in his pants and want to sample every Sally,dick and Harry he sees. Until he gives her an incurable STI,then you will see the error of your advice

Flamemignon1:

You are obviously the bolded who can't keep his dick in his pants and want to sample every Sally,dick and Harry he sees. Until he gives her an incurable STI,then you will see the error of your advice

If you are not the dog, point out anything bad in my comment.

If you are not the dog, point out any falsehood or injustice in my comment.

Until you do these, remain the dog.

THE SAME WAY YOUR BOYFRIEND WAS COPING WITH YOU, WHEN YOU HAD MULTIPLE BOYFRIENDS.

Calvary247:
My husband cheats alot.
I tried communicating with him to consider my emotional and psychological well-being but he didn't really take kin interest. I have wanted to cheat back but thinking of it disgusts me. Just help with a piece of advice that will help me.


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Divorce or find a way to cope. To cope means anything you deem fit, no judging or emotional blackmail here . If it will make you feel better, many happily married husbands cheat too, not only your husband

Flamemignon1:

She already has kids so marriage is already useless to her, na una still dey hold am in high regard to give you some sort of ego boost when the world is obviously moving on lol

Dumbo, he's talking about finance!

99thEnemy:

Your lack of comprehension is of a kind.


Go back and read what you first quoted and this time slowly.

Maybe I should use an analogy.

It’s just like people use dowry to mean bride price, but bride price and dowry aren’t the same thing.

Dowry is money paid by a woman or woman’s family to the groom’s families when getting married.
bride price on the other hand is paid by the groom/groom’s family to the bride’s family.

If you don’t get it now, I won’t even bother anymore because it will show that your level of understanding is more shallow than I even thought.

I won’t be surprised if you are a muslim. its ok not to let women drive, go to school, have a white collar job, go out in public etc…

these are the kind if rights, not the husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend rubbish you people have come to believe feminism is about.

Are you referring to the Muslims in Afghanistan or Muslims in Nigeria? From under which rock did you crawl out?

Flamemignon1:

One prick no dey belleful woman too since we are all animals

Who cares? She can even go to the market get the biggest cucumber out there!

maasoap:


Are you referring to the Muslims in Afghanistan or Muslims in Nigeria? From under which rock did you crawl out?

instance ma the hard you.



oh Lawd mi Gawd

MrBrownJay1:


you can ...
A) divorce the animal before he infects you with some deadly disease
B) shut up, stay married to the animal and live with the consequences... as its obvious this man doesnt care about what you think OR has any respect for you and the marriage you guys have.

BTW cheating back is by far the worst possible thing you can do. why turn into the animal that he is? how is that gonna solve the problem (remember, he doesnt really care about you)?

Stop referring to people as animals just because you don't like what they do or because they are doing what you don't like, not even to you directly. You are referring to her husband, have some respect! When we don't even know if you are worse than the Op husband. Mtcheeew!

franchasofficia:
Divorce him and marry another husband.

Lol. Marry another one that you reserved for her, right?

Or divorce him and stay single and just have boyfriends to quench your sex urge when needed.

And what will be her gain? She will become free puzssy for multiple boyfriends just like that? You're wicked o!

fyzaila:
In your last post you said you were enjoying your marriage to the fullest, now watta gwan??

That was 2022 post
Time passes
People change

maasoap:
Stop referring to people as animals just because you don't like what they do or because they are doing what you don't like, not even to you directly. You are referring to her husband, have some respect! When we don't even know if you are worse than the Op husband. Mtcheeew!

i call every cheating person "animals", whether male or female. thats just me. if you dont like it, then so be it, but thats just how i see such people who enter any r/ship and cheat like untamed animals.

cjudy:

Are you married?
Do you have a serious girlfriend?

I guess my answer is NO.
People like you rush into matters that doesn’t concern them.

you have the right to believe whatever you desire... just because you dont understand what respect in marriage (or any union) means, doesnt mean we are all like you.

99thEnemy:

Your lack of comprehension is of a kind.


Go back and read what you first quoted and this time slowly.

Maybe I should use an analogy.

It’s just like people use dowry to mean bride price, but bride price and dowry aren’t the same thing.

Dowry is money paid by a woman or woman’s family to the groom’s families when getting married.
bride price on the other hand is paid by the groom/groom’s family to the bride’s family.

If you don’t get it now, I won’t even bother anymore because it will show that your level of understanding is more shallow than I even thought.

I won’t be surprised if you are a muslim. its ok not to let women drive, go to school, have a white collar job, go out in public etc…

these are the kind if rights, not the husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend rubbish you people have come to believe feminism is about.

What is your problem na.

Abeg let me be

advanceDNA:


Sigh.....

Pain?? because?? U women are fvnny here..always dropping comment like uve got PTSD


Anyways....wateva makes u sleep well at night

Don't waste your precious time responding to that fuulish woman.

Hmmm

immortalcrown:
How you have been coping with him is how to cope with such a spouse.

Don't listen to those who advise you to divorce him. They have no guarantee that your next husband will be better. Cheating on you is very bad. But I advise you to bear it since you don't suffer domestic violence and starvation in the marriage. If you divorce him, men will likely take sexual turns on you until you fade and regret your life.

Don't listen to those who advise you to cheat on him. Two wrongs do not make a right. You don't use fire to quench fire. If you cheat as a payback, you will likely suffer more emotional damages.

But, how did you confirm that he cheats on you?

Typical Nigerian man advice.

What if she gets an std? Then what?

She needs ro divorce him! There are lots of good men available. Stop making it sound like good single men are some sort of endangered specie, them bòku!

Live is too short to spend it in an unhappy marriage. If she can't get a good man, she can remain single and happy. Lots of people are choosing that option.

Alone but not lonely. People can definitely have fulfilled lives without a spouse.

Calvary247:
My husband cheats alot.
I tried communicating with him to consider my emotional and psychological well-being but he didn't really take kin interest. I have wanted to cheat back but thinking of it disgusts me. Just help with a piece of advice that will help me.


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Have you done a self-audit... Sometimes the cause may be you.
Do you treat him like a man?
Or you want to act a modern woman.... you know una feminist agenda na.

Abeg I no fit talk o

AND YOU SUCH A PRETTY WOMAN

SWEETHEART THERE'S ONLY ONE LIFE SO GO DO YOUR OWN CHEATING AND TRUST ME IT WILL MAKE YOU CARE LESS ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND'S CHEATING.....MOST IMPORTANTLY NEVER LET HIM FIND OUT

HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF THE WIVES OF THE ELITES .. POLITICIANS....BIG MEN COMPLAIN ABOUT THEIR HUSBAND CHEATING?...YET THEIR HUSBANDS ARE THE GREATEST WOMANIZERS....THAT IS BECAUSE THEY DO THEIR OWN CHEATING AS WELL


IF YOU ARE DOWN FOR IT... I WILL REALLY LIKE TO FVCK YOU

MrBrownJay1:


i call every cheating person "animals", whether male or female. thats just me. if you dont like it, then so be it, but thats just how i see such people who enter any r/ship and cheat like untamed animals.



you have the right to believe whatever you desire... just because you dont understand what respect in marriage (or any union) means, doesnt mean we are all like you.

Learn to remove your mouth from people marital life. It will help you a lot. Not only marital life but also their family and general lives. It’s not your concern. You’re giving an advice to a married woman as the father or mother or kinsmen? Be like them never disappoint you before.

fyzaila:
In your last post you said you were enjoying your marriage to the fullest, now watta gwan??

the thing tire me o. She's jobless

Kobojunkie:
Are you certain you are OK at all? Person tell you say the man cheats on her and does not even care what she thinks, you come dey ask if him dey born-again? Which kain yeye question be that one? Religion has seriously damaged the way a lot of you reason.

Anty tell her to divorce the husband and go and marry a saint that doesn't cheat. Simple

freeborn02:
■ Anty tell her to divorce the husband and go and marry a saint that doesn't cheat. Simple

At least you admit say none of your Christians qualify in that case!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
At least you admit say none of your Christians qualify in that case!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yeah. I am not a saint.

Let her divorce her husband and go and marry a saint that won't have side chicks.

Or let her divorce her husband, remain unmarried and become side chick to married men.

Her choice.

Since u women are too stupid to have sense, continue in ur senselessness

freeborn02:
■ Yeah. I am not a saint. Let her divorce her husband and go and marry a saint that won't have side chicks. Or let her divorce her husband, remain unmarried and become side chick to married men. Her choice. Since u women are too stupid to have sense, continue in ur senselessness

I am afraid the senseless one here is you! Her husband is cheating on her, she is crying out that she is already emotionally and psychologically beaten up in marriage, yet your comeback is to demean any possible choice she intends to make to resolve her condition that does not include a future with the same man who hurt her.

Many of you are plain wicked and I don't blame you all as I instead blame your Nigerian upbringing, religion included, for the most part.

Calvary247:
My husband cheats alot.
I tried communicating with him to consider my emotional and psychological well-being but he didn't really take kin interest. I have wanted to cheat back but thinking of it disgusts me. Just help with a piece of advice that will help me.


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You just have to cope with his cheating habits now, same way you've always coped with his cheating habits before marriage and hoping he'll change. Of which I know that cheating is a habit that can't be controlled or changed.

I was advised by my Mum not to think of settling with a man who cheats. I'm glad I adhered to it and it worked perfectly for me in marriage. While single, I don't forgive or pamper cheating act, as soon as I find out you cheated, i break up with you right away.

I'll always advice the single ladies never to believe that lie that all men cheat, go for a man that doesn't cheat and save yourself the stress in marriage. Any habit that is shown while you both are dating, will be enhanced during marriage.

If he slapped you while you guys were getting to know yourselves, he'll beat you in marriage.
If you caught him cheating on you during courtship, he'll double cheat on you in marriage.
Know this and know peace.
Single ladies should know this and choose rightly, if you don't want to go in and out of marriage.

MrBrownJay1:


i call every cheating person "animals", whether male or female. thats just me. if you dont like it, then so be it, but thats just how i see such people who enter any r/ship and cheat like untamed animals.

I blame the Op who gave people like you the opportunity to call her husband names.