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If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by yorubagidi: 6:48am On May 22

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Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by Onyiiobi7735(m): 7:46am On May 22
True statement of fact.
Any woman who feels she can't be obedient to any man should remain in her father's house till Post Menopause.
Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by Hathor5(f): 8:00am On May 22
The guy says in the beginning that it is "a women to women talk". Is he a woman now? cheesy I stopped watching right there. These are the kind of dumbos who upload such videos and think they sound smart.

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Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by Mindlog: 8:32am On May 22
Onyiiobi7735:
True statement of fact.
Any woman who feels she can't be obedient to any man should remain in her father's house till Post Menopause.

But if you stand before a Caucasian woman, you go begin to dey stammer and can't repeat what you posted here. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by Onyiiobi7735(m): 8:58am On May 22
Mindlog:


But if you stand before a Caucasian woman, you go begin to dey stammer and can't repeat what you posted here. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Ooooh! What mental home did you escape from?
From your ramblings, you must be one of those violent loonies who rant, and drool saliva and even bite and scratch.
Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by Mindlog: 9:33am On May 22
Onyiiobi7735:

Ooooh! What mental home did you escape from?
From your ramblings, you must be one of those violent loonies who rant, and drool saliva and even bite and scratch.

I am trained and paid to listen to your type, then I filter and place you in the right cluster of personality disorders that fits your markers, then formulate treatment plans. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by Onyiiobi7735(m): 9:42am On May 22
Mindlog:


I am trained and paid to listen to your type, then I filter and place you in the right cluster of personality disorders that fits your markers, then formulate treatment plans. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Oh! How sweet?
But don't you think you deserve a place among people with the disorders you mentioned?
I wasn't mentioning you and you started barking.
Who's the lunatic?
Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by lululovesblue(f): 10:16am On May 22
A lot of people have a twisted view of marriage and view it as a military dictatorship. I believe the husband is the head of the home, that's obvious. And the prime decisionmaker. But a marriage isn't all about "go and do this" "yes boss". It's supposed to be a loving partnership. Which means everyone's thoughts and feelings should be taken into account. As a man, it's good to hear your wife's point of view. Unless you went ahead to marry a duIIard you should be able to get some points from her. The decision-making remains on you, but still get her opinion. If your marriage is based on love this wouldn't be a problem. And a good woman will feel valued if she was listened to, even if her advice wasn't followed. Do you get?

When I marry, my husband's opinion will take precedence over anyone else. But if I'm always shouted down and viewed as insignificant, I'd start to feel stifled. And then that's how marriages become loveless. I'm always grateful my dad values my mom to ask for her point of view on stuff. And my mom will bring any issue she has to him to hear what he has to say. It makes everything flow so smoothly. I hope my marriage is like that. Actual love.

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Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by Mindlog: 10:19am On May 22
Onyiiobi7735:
Oh! How sweet?
But don't you think you deserve a place among people with the disorders you mentioned?
I wasn't mentioning you and you started barking.
Who's the lunatic?

I didn't slide into your DM, this is a public forum.....uncle no dey take lunatic, mental home etc to take yab me, na the soft work whey dey pay me hourly be that o! cheesy cheesy cool cool

Now, back to the koko of the matter....as a Black man, can you say that same thing to a Caucasian woman. na fellow Black women una go dey form messiah around!

Uncle whey e mouth dey shake for the video, dey this same UK where e no get mouth near British Caucasian women rather he would be obeying them to feel validated! cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by sleekflow(m): 10:47am On May 22
lululovesblue:
A lot of people have a twisted view of marriage and view it as a military dictatorship. I believe the husband is the head of the home, that's obvious. And the prime decisionmaker. But a marriage isn't all about "go and do this" "yes boss". It's supposed to be a loving partnership. Which means everyone's thoughts and feelings should be taken into account. As a man, it's good to hear your wife's point of view. Unless you went ahead to marry a duIIard you should be able to get some points from her. The decision-making remains on you, but still get her opinion. If your marriage is based on love this wouldn't be a problem. And a good woman will feel valued if she was listened to, even if her advice wasn't followed. Do you get?

When I marry, my husband's opinion will take precedence over anyone else. But if I'm always shouted down and viewed as insignificant, I'd start to feel stifled. And then that's how marriages become loveless. I'm always grateful my dad values my mom to ask for her point of view on stuff. And my mom will bring any issue she has to him to hear what he has to say. It makes everything flow so smoothly. I hope my marriage is like that. Actual love.


Straight and simple... Love is give and take.
I feel you baby girl

Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by pretydiva(f): 10:51am On May 22
lululovesblue:
A lot of people have a twisted view of marriage and view it as a military dictatorship. I believe the husband is the head of the home, that's obvious. And the prime decisionmaker. But a marriage isn't all about "go and do this" "yes boss". It's supposed to be a loving partnership. Which means everyone's thoughts and feelings should be taken into account. As a man, it's good to hear your wife's point of view. Unless you went ahead to marry a duIIard you should be able to get some points from her. The decision-making remains on you, but still get her opinion. If your marriage is based on love this wouldn't be a problem. And a good woman will feel valued if she was listened to, even if her advice wasn't followed. Do you get?

When I marry, my husband's opinion will take precedence over anyone else. But if I'm always shouted down and viewed as insignificant, I'd start to feel stifled. And then that's how marriages become loveless. I'm always grateful my dad values my mom to ask for her point of view on stuff. And my mom will bring any issue she has to him to hear what he has to say. It makes everything flow so smoothly. I hope my marriage is like that. Actual love.

How do I like this post a million times? You spoke my mind👍
Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by Puss360(f): 12:02pm On May 22
Telling you what to do, and controlling you are two different things ..
A woman can tell her husband what to do, a man also can tell his wife...
But to control, to lord over, to ascertain unnecessary dominance over someone or me, is a no no to a man... I won't agree to such person...
I am a person before I became a wife...
Me sef be somebody..

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Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by Anunakeeh: 4:51pm On May 22
Mindlog:


I didn't slide into your DM, this is a public forum.....uncle no dey take lunatic, mental home etc to take yab me, na the soft work whey dey pay me hourly be that o! cheesy cheesy cool cool

Now, back to the koko of the matter....as a Black man, can you say that same thing to a Caucasian woman. na fellow Black women una go dey form messiah around!

Uncle whey e mouth dey shake for the video, dey this same UK where e no get mouth near British Caucasian women rather he would be obeying them to feel validated! cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

grin grin grin
Re: If A Man Cant Tell You What To Do U Better Remain In Your Father's House by BlackRainDrops: 7:42pm On May 22
Mindlog:


I didn't slide into your DM, this is a public forum.....uncle no dey take lunatic, mental home etc to take yab me, na the soft work whey dey pay me hourly be that o! cheesy cheesy cool cool

Now, back to the koko of the matter....as a Black man, can you say that same thing to a Caucasian woman. na fellow Black women una go dey form messiah around!

Uncle whey e mouth dey shake for the video, dey this same UK where e no get mouth near British Caucasian women rather he would be obeying them to feel validated! cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
You sound really intelligent.

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