swiz123:
True talk joro


However, not everyone will appreciate this advice, especially my nl friend who works in a buscuit factory

janellemonae:


Everyone ALWAYS has an advice for the girl child.

No one ever advices the boy child.

For this reason, the problems will never end.
F**ked up world.

Jodha:
Joro talks thrash sometimes....


The woman is not suppose to be the bread winner of the family... Provided she's not idle and she doing something to contribute her own little quota to the family ...it's awk...

He doesn't have to put a price tag to it...

P.s we're in Naija.. Most men hardly earn half to that amount not to talk of women...

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
He's not serious. So ladies should say no to suitors because they don't earn 150k?

Tessyama1:
Relationship expert, Joro Olumofin has advised single ladies who don't earn at least N150k a month to forget about marriage for now.

He wrote on Instagram;

"If you’re a single lady and you’re not earning at least N150,000 a month you shouldn’t be thinking about marriage yet. This is for your own security & sanity in marriage. Based on hundreds of mails I receive daily from posters. I’ve noticed a trend in behavior : Commitment before finances. Most ladies go into marriage with the hopes that the man will take care of everything . Some even see marriage as their way out of responsibilities such as paying bills, etc. A lot of married women are unhappy in their homes but can’t leave because they are not independent, some don’t even have transport money to go back to their parents house. Secure the bag first"

https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/04/lady-earning-n150k-month-shouldnt-marriage-joro-olumofin.html

Herrmes:
Why should a woman be submissive?

Jodha:
Joro talks thrash sometimes....

The woman is not suppose to be the bread winner of the family... Provided she's not idle and she doing something to contribute her own little quota to the family ...it's awk...

He doesn't have to put a price tag to it...

P.s we're in Naija.. Most men hardly earn half to that amount not to talk of women...

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MEN HAS BEEN BREAD-WINNING FOR CENTURIES, IT'S YOUR TURN NOW.

HOW YOU WANT EQUALITY WITHOUT MAKING ANY CONTRIBUTIONS IS FURTHER PROOF THAT EQUALITY IS MANY LIGHT-YEARS AWAY.

SnowJay92:


Lol, is 150k bread winning? Don't be angry, even though his view is subject to personal perceptions and the living standards anyone chooses to live by, what he's saying is not very wrong, considering the standards you ladies set for the guys.

chigoziri2403:
a wife or a woman?

Jodha:



Lool...the bible stated that the man is the head of the family...as Jesus is to the church ...
The bible also said the man should love, care and provide for his household...


But that does not mean d women folk should be segregated ...

pedrilo:
you obviously missed the core message. He is simply saying that marriage is not an escape from responsibilities.

Ladyhippolyta88:
He has a point
But stipulating a particular amount is not it.
Our wants and needs are different
A lady may be earning 20k and she is comfortable and independent and another who may be earning 50k may not.

efficiencie:
Why should anybody, man or woman, go into a marriage with the hopes of getting prepared to leave at the slightest provocation? Is it not better not to be married at all? Why are couples insincere to each other? Why must couples who at one point were loving each other crazily get to the point where they hate each other so much that they cannot bear to see each other? Why must you marry if you are not ready to sacrifice, be committed and love no matter the circumstance? Because of the self-centeredness of many, marriage has become hoax to be avoided!

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MEN HAS BEEN BREAD-WINNING FOR CENTURIES, IT'S YOUR TURN NOW.

HOW YOU WANT EQUALITY WITHOUT MAKING ANY CONTRIBUTIONS IS FURTHER PROOF THAT EQUALITY IS MANY LIGHT-YEARS AWAY.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Who said it is? Getting married doesn't stop a lady from climbing the ladder to success. You guys fail to factor that in.

pedrilo:
typical naija girl. U know the truth yet continue to deny and argue. You ladies go into relationships and marriages just to avoid paying your bills! U become too much of a burden and liability to a man instead of an asset.
That's the message!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Im still sticking to my guns! Marriage is not a prison for ladies. Doesn't stop a lady from being rich. Who was omotola when she got married? Did she relax after marriage? Please widen your thinking cap!

Herrmes:
Female.

pedrilo:
talk is cheap! You are constantly deviating from the core issue. You ladies don't practise wat u preach.
For example, u ladies knw how to take very good care of ur body/ appearance wen single, but after marriage and child birth, u go to sleep and become fat and ugly. You just become lazy and less concerned abt ur responsibilities because of course, u hav ur own slave now.

pedrilo:
talk is cheap! You are constantly deviating from the core issue. You ladies don't practise wat u preach.
For example, u ladies knw how to take very good care of ur body/ appearance wen single, but after marriage and child birth, u go to sleep and become fat and ugly. You just become lazy and less concerned abt ur responsibilities because of course, u hav ur own slave now.

dominique:
I totally agree. Her income doesn't necessarily have to be up to 150k but she should be financially independent to an extent. Over 70% of women wailing on social media about their miserable marriages are ones who can't leave because they can't survive on their own. Going into a marriage with the hopes of becoming a man's responsibility is the biggest mistake any woman can make

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DEUTERONOMY 22

" If it is discovered that a young damsel is not a virgin on her wedding night, then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die".


IS A BOOK WE SHOULD FOLLOW, AND OBTAIN MORALITY FROM?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Motherhood takes it toll on women. A woman who's not in the spotlight or a workout freak might not deem it fit to put in the effort. But what's your argument exactly?

tunjilana:
He shouldn't put a price tag. My own view for every female around me including those of my household and daughters I have and will have are

---Whatever lifestyle you aspire to live in marriage, work towards being able to afford that lifestyle. When your work has taken you to a point where you can comfortably and sustainably (except life happens) afford close to 60% of that lifestyle, then seek/listen to men who are on the same page with you.

---Don't sit lazy and believe some prince charming will appear from nowhere and make all your dreams come true, it is mutual effort and that way you will have no reason to be bitter or sad. If you both don't hit it, it will be clear you both worked hard to get there and you will likely land in a relatively good place.

This is exactly how to raise a girl child.

No that in marriage, you wish to you wish to travel round the world on vacation, have top-notch healthcare for your kids, wear nice things, feed very well, live in upscale neighborhood and all your aspiration ends at being a school teacher on 30k salary!, when they send you to school your mates are actively hustling 2.1 or firstclass, acquiring skills, trying out businesses but you sit lazy cos the host of heaven have promised you a tears-cleaner husband. You will be dissapointed

If it is beauty, you are not the only beautiful one, if it is bobby or arse, no be only you, good character sef no be only you. And for those kinda guys you have your eyes on, their options are not in any way limited, so there are women with all those physical things you have plus brain, sense of responsibility for ones life and hardwork and the man will pick those before you, If such a man in his delusion of error in judgement mistakingly picks you and you continue with that same mentality, it is only a matter of time before he realizes his mistake then the cheating and resentment starts, he might end up throwing you out for someone who is on same page with him...

Women be wise, fathers & brothers educate the women in your lives

pedrilo:
I give up. You continuously struggle with comprehension.