I have been thinking about something for a while.What is it you may ask.People keep talking about men not wanting to marry,I mean why would they when in some part of this country you are made to pay huge some of money just because you want to marry.And as if that is not enough you'd be asked to train one of the wife's sibling.I mean should such tradition be sustained?Please I'm not trying to be tribalistic here.

train who? Let them train themselves just as my parents taught me. I wont be training anyone.

hey my guy you are not tribalisitc am 21 years old am young and i am not encouraged by these marriage prices,that what i will call it.maybe i will carry one of these girl and elope think of it why buy the package when you can gbe(sneak) it. sorry sneak her.eloping is cheaper girls complain that men don,t want to marry if a girl agrees to elope with any guy. marriage don register be dat. haha

Omo when u use all ur money for the wedding - what will you start your marriage life with?
Cause u sure gonna be in debt. Except you have money set aside for the wedding that you have been saving.

About the training a sibling, thats a long thing o. Cause as the person above me said, i was schooled by my parents and they should too.

It is not wise. It is unwise. In fact, it is foolish. Stay away from any such financial arrangements. Nothing good can come out of it. Not even your children!

Its really unwise, there is more to life than the wedding day.