This time of year… The pressure tends to be put on HIGH.

Whether you’ve been with your partner for a few months or a couple of decades… It can be hard to find the perfect gift.

I've got you covered. And to set the stage of what goes into a perfect or great gift, we turn to this sensual lyric:

"I miss you like the desert misses the rain"

I pulled it from the hit song "Missing" by the duo group: Everything but a girl. Old song but with a lasting meaning

We don't need to go into details on what happens when you stay weeks or days without rain. You probably know all the wahala that could happen

Now, Imagine what that would look like in a desert.

Without rain, you'd be thirsty af… lips dry. And for the poor desert, no plants to beautify it or animals to enrich it. Things feel off

Likewise, a great man is felt most keenly from his absence.

And a great way to make your absence even more felt is with a gift.

But not just any gift. A kind that shows how much you understand her. And draws her emotionally closer to you

You see, you want your gift to feel memorable. That way, your absence carries ten times the weight.

Before we do that, let's dive deeper into a girl's mindset when it comes to gifts...


----What kind of gifts a girlfriend values most

Girls will tell you they'd like a diamond ring, jewellery or iPhone or wig. And if you do get it, they'd probably like it. But 3 - 4 months later she has forgotten much about it

Because these are not heartfelt, deeply emotional requests. They're more logical. And worst of all, it's something you can give to any other girl which removes that air of making her feel "desired" "understood" or "special"

In fact, a woman will never be able to TELL you what kind of gift she'll truly value most.

Because the gifts she'll truly value most are almost never the ones she expects.

And that's because the most impactful gifts are the ones that tell a girl "I know you better than you realize I do - and maybe even better than you know yourself"

You see, it isn't the gift that means most to her per se. But the meaning or message behind them

A piece of jewelry? Almost no thought went into it. Might be damn expensive for sure but you could easily have bought the same for any other girl. And women can tell.

Having said that, let's get a bit more practical and see how you can gift her...


----Planning The Right Gift For Her

The best kind of gifts in my opinion are the ones that she can use over and over again. And that are both thoughtful plusnmeaningful.

Here are few ways you can use to shape your gift giving ideas:



● Pay attention to her favorite activities and hobbies.

Nothing opens your eyes into what pulls at a woman's heart strings than activities she enjoys doing

You can bet your left leg if she continues those activities with something you got for her, your absence will remain felt in a good, positive way.


● Observe her habits

Habits shape our lives. They are deeply ingrained into how we navigate through this world

By digging deep into her habits, you can spot gifts that'll improve how she does certain things. Or makes them easier for her


● What does she like, want or need

As humans we tend to make off hand comments about things we really find interesting.

Take a mental note of hers… especially if you catch her saying it more than once. Even Better if she says it several times over time.

● Customized items

This one is straightforward. Getting her items with her picture or name on it

Try to avoid being basic like everyone does. And find creative ways or items that would most likely surprise her.


Anyways, that's wrap. These tips will definitely inspire you to come up with fun, creative ideas that would make her want you more emotionally….

Thereby tripling the weight of your absence. Remember women are emotional people, the better you can activate her feelings, the stronger your impact on her

Until my next post, happy holidays.

I forgot to add one more thing...

Wild passionate fùck

Rizzputin:
I forgot to add one more thing...
Wild passionate fùck

Well said