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| Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by dgratrock: 12:01am On Sep 05, 2008 |
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] my man is highly temperamental, so much that when he is angry he shouts at me and even slaps me - in the presence of our friends and strangers! but we love each other so much so that we cant stay a day without seeing each other, Nairalanders, i'm tired of the insults but cant leave him. what do i do now? |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by onyinye2(f): 12:03am On Sep 05, 2008 |
First off, Are you Gay? Second off, If you think love is finding yourself in a body bag. . . . go right on ahead. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by vivaladiva(f): 12:10am On Sep 05, 2008 |
then u might find solace in my little gay postin then |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by Akinagirl(f): 12:12am On Sep 05, 2008 |
I don't think this person is gay because on their other posts they indicated that they were female. Honestly poster, I do not think that you need to stay with someone that is abusive in any way. That is not healthy for you. I don't understand why women like to stay in relationships that are hazardous to their health??  |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by onyinye2(f): 12:15am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Akinagirl:Because of memories and false sense of hope. Hoping that things will some how change for the better, but they never do. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by arramyjay: 12:17am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Ok from my own point of view sweetie u have nt reached ur elastic limit just keep taking it one day and very soon u will be tired of it and u will nt only leave him u will indeed give him a taste of his own poison.Sweetie by then u will not need an advise. u will see. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by Akinagirl(f): 12:18am On Sep 05, 2008 |
But seriously O, women never learn? You see this pattern over and over, one should be able to spot it easily. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by Sisikill: 12:20am On Sep 05, 2008 |
onyinye2: Oyinye, what are you talking about? Don't you know one has never really loved until they end up six feet under? Come on now, many of the tender moments in a loving relationship is geared towards that very goal. 1) Walking hand to hand to the funeral house to go pick her headstone. 2) The squeals and smooching after they get her body bag. . . in aqua, her favorite color 3) The joy in her face when she convinces him to get her a coffin, instead of just dumping her lifeless body in a shallow grave. Some men balk at embalming coz they think it is expensive but the very good ones, don't mind. . . hopefully, OP's man is one of 'em. Please, let them enjoy themselves, jare.  |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by onyinye2(f): 12:22am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Sisikill:YOU ARE SOOOOO WRONG FOR THIS SISI!!!!!!!!  Akinagirl:That is why they call it falling MADLY in love. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by mide312(m): 12:35am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Just say the TRUTH YU LOVE THE WAY HE BANGS YOU  |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by Sisikill: 12:46am On Sep 05, 2008 |
mide312: Of course now, what did you think before? Banging her head into the walls Banging her stomach with his large fist. Banging her hand against the door Banging her legs with his belt. . . . . It's all about the BANGING baby and there ain't no love like a BANGING love! |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by Akinagirl(f): 12:49am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Wait a minute, had to go back. Are you not that womanizing dude? |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by bigboyslim(m): 12:51am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Sisikill: Can you blame the guy. After all you ladies are the ones that claim to have banging bodies. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by Sisikill: 12:53am On Sep 05, 2008 |
bigboyslim: Well they gotta say something when he shows them his banging car. Of course I'd recommend a girl runs from a guy with a slamming ride. But not from a guy with a spanking new car. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by onyinye2(f): 12:53am On Sep 05, 2008 |
bigboyslim:Are you drunk or high? |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by bigboyslim(m): 12:56am On Sep 05, 2008 |
onyinye2: Darling no need to get defensive now. its either you have a banging body or not. and from your sudden outrage, i'm begining to guess which class you might belong to. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by onyinye2(f): 12:58am On Sep 05, 2008 |
bigboyslim:Seriously, are you drunk or high? So having a so called "banging body" gives a man the right to lay a violent hand on you? |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by idupaul: 1:02am On Sep 05, 2008 |
Stay , i think he cares, just get some protective gear for your head and teeth, i thunk u could find some at the sports store,. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by bigboyslim(m): 1:05am On Sep 05, 2008 |
onyinye2: Come on now. I was just being sarcastic in response to sisikill and mide312's comments. And for the records, I dont get high on weekdays |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by Nobody: 6:44am On Sep 05, 2008 |
If u must stay in the relationship cause your Love is so great, fine! But at least Learn to SLAP him back when he SLAPS u! just as he uses his palms to slap u across your face, then u also respond by back-handing him! |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by arramyjay: 10:16am On Sep 05, 2008 |
engineerd: |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by arramyjay: 10:17am On Sep 05, 2008 |
engineerd: I agree wit you 100% |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by tope2000(f): 10:21am On Sep 05, 2008 |
engineerd: hehehehe @poster body no be punching bag oo leave him b4 u die |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by TOYOSI20(f): 10:51am On Sep 05, 2008 |
@ Topic, Sure u can leave,. . . . . . . u aren't even married yet, U have to be willing to take that step yourself though, no one else can force u outta the relationship, U might want to essentially seek some helpfirst though, cos no offence. . . . . . clearly there are some personal issues u need to take care of. . . . , Best of luck!!!!!!!!!! |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by Udyro(f): 10:59am On Sep 05, 2008 |
if u cant leave him, stay with him, we will come ur funeral soon! |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by AmakaOne(f): 11:03am On Sep 05, 2008 |
I seriously don't understand why you are still here asking that question. I suggest you have a look through these threads for some useful info and advice https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-157904.0.html https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-157198.0.html https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-154287.0.html and lastly you don't want to end up like her. https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-155401.0.html a word is enough for the wise |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by paulmamud(m): 11:18am On Sep 05, 2008 |
go watch "sleeping with the enemy"( not the dumb nollywood version) and decide if that what u want. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by ssheryl(f): 12:02pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
@poster:first of all no man has any right to hit any woman,its cowardly n wrong, u hv to find a way to talk to him,u know tell him how this makes u feel,i know its easier said than done bt my dear u just hv to find the courage to do it, or he's gonna hurt u bad one of thios days, pliz do something b4 its too late. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by nana(f): 12:34pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
Hmm,me i will forget about love and hit him back o. |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by spikedcylinder: 12:54pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
@ Op, You know what you need to do, you are just asking stupid questions.  |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by Easybaby(f): 1:56pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
i'm tired of the insults but can't leave him ok continue recieving slap |
| Re: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by Nobody: 2:03pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
Easybaby:lol @poster I do not think you are tired yet seriously why can't not you leave him? I mean with behaviour like that, getting rid of him suppose to be easy. what do you see in his personality anyway? |
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