She is a girl have really loved all my life.Caring, beautiful, respectful those were are virtues, we planned everything including marriage, sometimes we even talk about no of children we are gonna have but as God will have it we went apart. even her mom called me and asked me wat was going on, she called us together. telling her: "U know he has done alot in your life (though not financially)" dont pay him back this way" What i told her mum is : "mama dont worry, maybe she dont love me anymore". i went home feeling like dying that day, mum asked me wats wrong. i couldnt utter a word, 2years gone by, Just 6days ago she called telling me how are you and all those stuff and since then she would call me and i call back.the problem is i av 4gotten about everything before now, but when she called me the whole memory just ran into my brain. should i ask her out again, may be it could work out this time. pls reply. i still love her

There is no harm in trying.

What are yall ages?

Suppose you put your hand in a hole, and a snake bites you. Tell me, when next you come close to that hole, would you put your hand there? Two years is a lot of gap. If she really loved you, she would have made up with you a long time ago. Her sudden appearance to you simply shows that she's not in love. You're just the available option to her at the moment. I would advice you to be very careful in dealing with her so you won't make another mistake which you might live to regret.

Please dont even try it, The babe knew how much you loved her but apparently (maybe)there was someone in the corner she was gunning for, Now the person's left her or bleeped her up and she's remembering you.We ladies have a problem.We never want to be alone, but then we act foolishly,instead of going for someone who's got genuine feelings for us, we go for the smooth talker who'll come brain wash us and take his leave after jis done.

What makes you think if someone else comes she wont leave u again, or that situation cant repeat it self, Y did she have to wait 2 whole years to start calling you back?U need need am my brother, this is an advise I'd give my younger bro, dont stop receiving her calls,dont call her back all the time, but then dont be a dog that'll go back to its rotten vomit after 2 years,ABEG!!!

pls don't ask o. watch her from a distance. remain friends. don't pry too deep into wanting to ask her out again so u will be able to investigate her & find out her motives. when a cat strays away from home for a long time and suddenly shows up, u keep a keen eye on it because u never can tell if it had transformed into a wild cat during those days it went missing.

spikedcylinder:

Why did you actually break up?

Thats something you need to analyze before you take any steps.

simplysmat:

Thats something you need to analyze before you take any steps.

exactly.

@poster, What tore you guyz apart

@poster
tough one though
pele oooooooo.