hey folks,
i have been searching for a wife material for 2 good years now but can't any good/ virtous one.
pls give me advice on what to do?

stop looking for a wife and start looking for a friend , I mean stop looking as if each woman you meet is your next wife , just get to know several women (in a none sexual nature) it wont take long for you to find the one that meets your criteria.

stop looking for a wife and start looking for a friend , I mean stop looking as if each woman you meet is your next wife , just get to know several women (in a none sexual nature) it wont take long for you to find the one that meets your criteria.

this is bla bla. this man meant he hasnt yet found the wife material out of the friends he has. he didnt tell you hes looking for friends.

~ Let ur instincts guide u or beta still, use the trial & error method ~

@ Enia

If you dont agree with my post pls keep it to yourself, or politely disagree ,  if he does not like his current friends look for new ones , they don't sell wife in any market that I know of, you make a friend a wife , and besides I dont see you offering any advise

@poster

Quick Question:
ask ur sef if ur virtuous.
den u wil know weda u deserve a virtuous woman or not.
remember, birds of the same feathers . . . . . . . . .

Just relax, it took me one year to serch and I had lost hope of any luck till I met her, the very first look at her and I concluded that this girl will live in my house forever. She smiled and I knew it back then that this will be the first smile out of the millions of smiles she will be smiling in my house. I concluded there and then that it will be me that is to blame if anything goes wrong in this relationship. If she had committed any wrongs in the past, it is now deleted, wiped clean, forgiven. She will be the luckiest girl in the whole wide world, to enjoy and to preside over my house. Everything she dont know will be thought to her by me.

If you have this mindset, you will attract like minded girls who will be too surprised by your attitude that she will give in and treat you like the king. Another thing, look for some physical attibutes you like in women, if you like them tall, then stop speaking with short babes, and if you want to marry graduates, then leave all your uneducated babes so you will concentrate.

guys,
thanks for your posts.
@czarskits .pls enlighten me about the trial and error.
@ladybam,pittbaby and invisible
there is a girlfriend i have. she is been shying away from me. sometimes, when i call her line she busy my calls.she has meets 65% of what i want from a woman, but am confused.

~ It simply implies that u go ahead & see what becomes of it ~ As many girls as u can lay ur hands on ~ i.e Try & Fail until u find 'the' right one. ~

man thanks for your advice.
am gon' g't a whole lot of 'em

~ AIDS is real oh! I wonda y u ppl lyk bad advice! ~

ahhhhhhhhhhhahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
man you make me laugh.
see, i don't mean gettin 4 sex.nupe
but havin them for casuals.i love them gurls but am careful cos they are potential time bomb.
choooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwww!

Czarskit:

~ AIDS is real oh! I wonda y u ppl lyk bad advice! ~

rotflmao

@post
Even if she was dancing on a pole in front of you, you wouldn't know

Only a Virgin is Virtuous, every other one is an abomination that isnt married but has fornicated and the bible proscribes terrible punishments for fornicators before marriage!

@jack tweed
are tryna condemn them fornicators?
give 'em over to God, he's the judge

sadly it is extremely hard to find a cute wifey material this days due to the fact that the

women of nowadays have been used up to the point of no repair, in their high school n uni days

when those abs were still flat, booty was nicely shaped n juicy, they ve been ran through by ton of guys

and after that what you get is a definition of a "hot mess" not 4getting all the emotional baggage  they bring from

all the bad relationships they ve been in, in d past.

reason no 2, civilization has f**ked everything up, you cant tell women **** these days without them throwing their fav

phrase " i'm an independent, strong black woman" in your face  smdh

jalether:

sadly it is extremely hard to find a cute wifey material this days due to the fact that the

women of nowadays have been used up to the point of no repair, in their high school n uni days

when those abs were still flat, booty was nicely shaped n juicy, they ve been ran through by ton of guys

and after that what you get is a definition of a "hot mess" not 4getting all the emotional baggage they bring from

all the bad relationships they ve been in, in d past.

reason no 2, civilization has f**ked everything up, you cant tell women **** these days without them throwing their fav

phrase " i'm an independent, strong black woman" in your face smdh

Lmfao

@ Poster approach the girl you like casually, and slowily let her get to know you , forget the old concept of toasting and wooing her , if you can befriend her you will truly know if she is the one for you and what you chances are with her

@ jalether
thanks but i still think the better ones are still out there.
but i believe that my wifey is damn virtous,love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@pittybaby
thanks 4 showing me a way to follow

@ de cash


Thank you jare , you will think that all the males out there dont have sistas and female family members , according to them all females are gold digging  bed jumping whores , Dont forget that your sista is female O!!!

the beautiful ones are not yet born.

EASY: SIMPLY KEEP AN OPEN MIND AND SEE ALL THE LADIES AROUND YOU AS MERE HUMANS THEN YOU'LL GET TO SEE THE COMPARTIBILITIES.
A VIRTUOUS WIFE IS NOT NECESSARILY THE ONE WHO PLEASES YOU BUT THE ONE WHO LOOKS OUT FOR THE BEST IN YOU.

iice:

How do you see a potential wife?

abi ooo!

How do you see a potential wife? Huh

abi ooo!


SEEING A WIFE MEANS FINDING ONE FOR UHURU'S SAKE!

DOUBLE-O-H:

How do you see a potential wife? Huh

abi ooo!


SEEING A WIFE MEANS FINDING ONE FOR UHURU'S SAKE!

Well in that case, he should be patient and not actively look, i'm sure when the time is right she will come when he least expects it,

Since he did not pay me, my advice is limited!!

Poster why not find out if Pittbaby is single she seem so nice from her advice. Why are you looking far when the solution seems to be within.

Poster approach the girl you like casually, and slowily let her get to know you , forget the old concept of toasting and wooing her , if you can befriend her you will truly know if she is the one for you and what you chances are with her

This is priceless from her whalahi.

@ Presido - Thanks for the compliment

Pittbaby is Engaged

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de cash:

hey folks,
i have been searching for a wife material for 2 good years now but can't any good/ virtous one.
pls give me advice on what to do?

Hey de cash! seems your mold is not working for you, please try be little bit flexible. btw, are you too religious? if the answer is yes ,hook up with one of the sisters in your church else birds of the same feather color flock together.

Pittbaby:

@ Presido - Thanks for the compliment

Pittbaby is Engaged

Awwwww whoz the lucky dude? was even thinking of taking ma own advice to the poster. Anyway gudluck babe.

Thanks the lucky dude is not a nairalander ,  every body finds his or her queen/king in Gods good time