am 21 yrs of age and i somebody am dating but unfortunately my sister's friend saw me and he said he want to marry me as soon as possible.

what should i do?/

is he serious? if he is, go ahead and marry.

At 21 what do u know abt marriage?Are u sure he is not using that to deceive you in order to be sleeping with you?If he is serious he shld for like 1-2 more for u to hv some trainings on marriage.Please dont rush into marriage with anyone.And if i may ask,hw old is he?

nikkykay:

At 21 what do u know abt marriage?Are u sure he is not using that to deceive you in order to be sleeping with you?If he is serious he shld for like 1-2 more for u to hv some trainings on marriage.Please dont rush into marriage with anyone.And if i may ask,hw old is he?

good question
how old is he?if he's truly serious about, pray and fast for God's divine intervention
u are atleast old enuf to know ur left from ur right(to know wats good for u)
age to me is nothing but a number
marriage is not by age but by His Grace
how old was Omotola Jalade when she got married and look at what Eucharia Anunobi's marriage(just using this as an example)
though there is no marriage that doesnt have his good and bad sides
becareful, and pls do not rush

foyeks2001:


good question
how old is he?if he's truly serious about, pray and fast for God's divine intervention
u are atleast old enuf to know your left from your right(to know wats good for u)
age to me is nothing but a number
marriage is not by age but by His Grace
how old was Omotola Jalade when she got married and look at what Eucharia Anunobi's marriage(just using this as an example)
though there is no marriage that doesnt have his good and bad sides
becareful, and pls do not rush

sHE NEVER PLANNED OR DREAMT TO GET MARRIED AT THAT EARLY AGE WHICH I BELIEVE IS AFFECTING HER LIFE STYLE, it was against her wish but she didnt hv choice but to go into it.For a girl of 21 to be asking here,she is not matured and she doesnot know what she wants.And not everybody will hv a man like omotala's husby who culd tolerate all the issues with her.I know age is just a # and not maturity but my sister,this baby ;poster is confused and she doesnt need to rush into any marriage now.