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I really don't know what the best way is, maybe letting her know its time to "have the talk" and letting her down gently. Sum guys just stop picking up their phone whenever the chick calls, never return calls or text and hope she'll just go away, that's childish and it hurts. Heartbreaks are never easy at least give the other party sum closure, don't suddenly go cold. Its not nice!

@poster
tell her the truth, as simple as that!
no need to sugar coat sh-it as she needs to understand what she did wrong so that she can improve in her next relationship. . . . . . . telling her exactly the reason is also beneficial so that she will understand men a lil better.

if you try to have a good mature conversation with her,she will be hurt very bad;she will cry her eyes out until you feel like you have commited a crime.
it may be different if its a white girl,most white girls can break up with you and still remain friends with you, but our black sisters feel like the world has stopped when they are dumped by their lover.
when I ended my 2 years relationship with a black girl,she cried for months and almost lost her mind. I tell you I felt like I was lucifer. she hates me to this day like muslims hate ham.

my advice would be to take it easy.act as childish as possible.make her feel like you are a dumbasss.start complaining about life and become ludacris when she is around you.cry if you have to. lie as much as possible.keep telling her that you've been sleping with a certain prostitute and you feel confused about it because she claims to be in love you and you dont know what to do about it.
tell her that you have bi-sexual feelings;tell her that there is a sugar mummy that has been all over you lately,you feel like if you stick around her your life may change for the better;
complain about her not being good in bed; also tell her that she's been smelling funky lately;tell her that you lied about your past because you are an unserious guy,in fact you pregnanted 3 girls a few years back and forced them to abort. tell her that you had dream and saw her cheating on you.tell her anything a black woman hates.be creative.

but if you go to her and try to have a talk,you will be sorry.

just my opinion.

no insult please.