Yamiriflathead:
Paternity fraud is a grave sin to humanity like Rape
Any woman who commits paternity fraud has committed Rape to the male gender.
Any woman who refuses or gets angry at the mention of DNA is a potential Rapist
And any woman who supports paternity fraud is a Rape Apologist.
Together we can all make Nigeria a safe place by kicking out RAPE and PATERNITY FRAUD. One causes trauma to the female gender while the other does untold damage to the male gender.
Just as we purnish rapist by making them serve jail times, paternity fraudsters should be made to pay up substantial sums as refunds for resources, time, energy wasted on their bastards or Serve jail time.
Say no to paternity Fraud

knowhowk:
. Nairaland still have Members that are impartial in Judgement .God Bless U .Say No to Rape ,Say No to Paternity Fraud .But unfortunately some Women would still come up on here to Attack your Comment ,Such women/ Wife would Pour their Anger Venom on male Rapist but on there Fellow Women engaged in Paternity Fraud they would Defend them that Men that goes for DNA test does not Trust/ Love their wife .Na really Na waooooo

Barbsamiin:
E be like say DNA test is now a new trend in naija, LOLS!
Well, imagine staying together happily for morethan 11years as a husband and wife then one day your husband ask you he want to go and do DNA test for your kids, How would you feel? you'll think all the time you've spent together there's no trust. Forget that.
Even if the kids are yours or not, as long as they treat you as their father, respect you and do all the thing they are suppose to as a children, seems there's no worries when scaled on common sense.
At last, when people leaves God and follow their hearts, they'll suffer in life. Believe and have peace of mind.

Barbsamiin:
E be like say DNA test is now a new trend in naija, LOLS!
Well, imagine staying together happily for morethan 11years as a husband and wife then one day your husband ask you he want to go and do DNA test for your kids, How would you feel? you'll think all the time you've spent together there's no trust. Forget that.
Even if the kids are yours or not, as long as they treat you as their father, respect you and do all the thing they are suppose to as a children, seems there's no worries when scaled on common sense.
At last, when people leaves God and follow their hearts, they'll suffer in life. Believe and have peace of mind.

Barbsamiin:
E be like say DNA test is now a new trend in naija, LOLS!
Well, imagine staying together happily for morethan 11years as a husband and wife then one day your husband ask you he want to go and do DNA test for your kids, How would you feel? you'll think all the time you've spent together there's no trust. Forget that.
Even if the kids are yours or not, as long as they treat you as their father, respect you and do all the thing they are suppose to as a children, seems there's no worries when scaled on common sense.
At last, when people leaves God and follow their hearts, they'll suffer in life. Believe and have peace of mind.

Yamiriflathead:


If women can find a way to justify and shield paternity Fraud from being revealed to the open, tell me why men shouldn't do same to rapist?
Paternity FRAUD is as dangerous as rape and should be condemned by all humans.
Anyone who is against DNA'S is evil and a Rapist

Barbsamiin:
Calm down OGA.
I'm not justifying paternity fraud or against DNA test i just imagine, And remember if everything has to be exposed a lot of couples might not be together.

Yamiriflathead:


You're a paternity fraud sympathiser

Gerarahere woman, I don't have any pity for rape victims again, especially those once that are not virgins.
Learn to dress descently y'all

Barbsamiin:
E be like say DNA test is now a new trend in naija, LOLS!
Well, imagine staying together happily for morethan 11years as a husband and wife then one day your husband ask you he want to go and do DNA test for your kids, How would you feel? you'll think all the time you've spent together there's no trust. Forget that.
Even if the kids are yours or not, as long as they treat you as their father, respect you and do all the thing they are suppose to as a children, seems there's no worries when scaled on common sense.
At last, when people leaves God and follow their hearts, they'll suffer in life. Believe and have peace of mind.

Yamiriflathead:


You're a paternity fraud sympathiser

Gerarahere woman, I don't have any pity for rape victims again, especially those once that are not virgins.
Learn to dress descently y'all

Yamiriflathead:
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Women understand each other and they don't trust each other. They know that it is rational and okay for a man to take a DNA test, but they deliberately paint it as a bad thing for wicked and selfish reasons using the following:

(1) trust and love ("don't you trust me? What is love without trust? Where is the love?" ).

(2) picking offense and unjustly getting angry ("are you implying that I am a hoe?"wink

(3) silly threats ("I will leave with the kids", "you have lost my love and loyalty" (like women have these), "you will never see me again"wink

(4) some will have the temerity to harm the husband in some way even though they know he did nothing wrong by getting a DNA test. They feel getting a DNA test is "crime" and they want it to be so, therefore it is to them.



They even cover up, justify and downplay the crime of paternity fraud by using the following:

(1) start reciting the constitution that any child born in the marriage belongs to the husband. grin

(2) start saying "men do it too" or "men have been doing it too." ❌❌❌

(3) start saying "if the children know you as their father, you are their father", "Real men step up to take care of...", "remember the love you have for these children" (using your emotions to manipulate you) etc.

(4) refusing to hold women accountable.



Why all these? Because they support paternity fraud: either they are guilty of it or they are supporting and shielding those guilty of it, or they are doing both. The sisterhood comes first. Even if the OP's wife knows the kids are his, she will still have to act like it's an offence to get a DNA test because such idea helps the sisterhood to protect women guilty of paternity fraud and it prevents men from digging deep on this issue. They all want all men to remain at a position of giving them blind trust or to be afraid of questioning so paternity fraud can go unchecked. The easiest people to manipulate are those that blindly trust you and those afraid to stand up to you.

dan761:
. Oga are you a Professional in Marriage issues ,Haaa ,U really touched every aspect ,U understand women very well thumbs up for U.

Barbsamiin:
E be like say DNA test is now a new trend in naija, LOLS!
Well, imagine staying together happily for morethan 11years as a husband and wife then one day your husband ask you he want to go and do DNA test for your kids, How would you feel? you'll think all the time you've spent together there's no trust. Forget that.
Even if the kids are yours or not, as long as they treat you as their father, respect you and do all the thing they are suppose to as a children, seems there's no worries when scaled on common sense.
At last, when people leaves God and follow their hearts, they'll suffer in life. Believe and have peace of mind.

Martinez39s:
A paternity fraud sympathizer is mentioning God. You are so full of crap.

Barbsamiin:
E be like say DNA test is now a new trend in naija, LOLS!
Well, imagine staying together happily for morethan 11years as a husband and wife then one day your husband ask you he want to go and do DNA test for your kids, How would you feel? you'll think all the time you've spent together there's no trust. Forget that.
Even if the kids are yours or not, as long as they treat you as their father, respect you and do all the thing they are suppose to as a children, seems there's no worries when scaled on common sense.
At last, when people leaves God and follow their hearts, they'll suffer in life. Believe and have peace of mind.

dan761:
Hmmm! op ,This is too deep ooo ,it's really food for thought ...Meanwhile I read in your signature and visited your site www.gardennaturalhealth.com ,Do you still treats Staphylococus aureus ?

knowhowk:
The issue of one Mr.Tunde who sadly Died of assumed heart attack after his Discovery about His wife and the Kids she had for the FCMB Head has really opened the eyes of Men to the Reality and need for DNA Test .

Well Expensive or not ,that is not the point for Discusion here .....Let us be realistic ,Why would a wife be angered/ Annoyed and threatened Her Husband to Divorce him if Eventually he goes for a DNA test ? Apart from Mr.Tunde issue back then in 1992 at Agege Oko-Oba area Precisely in Lagos ,I heard of a woman who look point blank into the face of her Husband and told him " Oga ,Am leaving with the two children ,The man Vehemently mentioned No " Like a bolt from the blue She told him ,You dare not stop me because you are not the father of the Children ...


This matter was taken to the Police station .Matter Charged to Court , Investigation begins ,Further Medical test showed this man Sperm has no Cells to Produce a Baby ,the man Lawyer argued he could have developed the sperm issue recently but a DNA test showed the Children truly are not His .The woman knew all these so She went sleeping with another man and brought bastards ,Bear in mind ,For 11 Years this man have been the one Feeding ,Paying School fees and been responsible for the Children up keeps .
In that Area ,Infact you will be so Jealous of there Relationship ,they were very close ,You hardly see them querelling or Fighting ,Never but Imagine what Happened ...A True Loving woman should support any man She Claims to truly love to clear His doubt about Children Paternity once and for all ,Spare men of that excuse of " Trust and Love " Imagine ,Why should a woman say No to DNA test ,Why ,You go out to work ,Get money from your Sweet ,Then spend the same money on another man's Children ," Haba " You wife truly knows your husband is not there father ...pay School fees ,
They call the man Daddy ,Baba , your husband is happy because the Children are doing well in School ,making plans to send them to good University ,Having in mind also that one day the Daughter will get married ,The boys will be independent ,The innocent man is planning big for the Children unknowingly that they are not His .You as a wife knows ,The MuMu man is not growing younger and yet you want him to keep living in Ignorance .You are a wicked wife / Woman .Why would a wife desperately want her husband never to think of DNA Test when women like her sleeps with another man and brings in Bastards to be trained by there Husband ....


Trust and Love has no Moral place under this Context Abeg ...if truly the Children belongs to your husband don't just Say it ,Let's DNA say it .Any man that gets Jittery because your wife threatens you with Divorce is nothing but a Simp and a Woman Wrapper . Whether we like it or not ,whether we believe it or not ,No matter how much we love ourselves in Marriage ,We can't rise above some things ,Doubt sometimes would set in ,We may find it difficult to erase some doubt in our heart with Love and trust ,Some doubts needs to be cleared with Reality .Many Marriages have crashed by pretensions .

Remember that man that locked his fiancee up in a room used Plyier to remove her hair ,Stabbed her and drank sniper too just because he discovered she had a child with another man and presented the child as His .DNA test has come to stay ,if as a wife your hands are Clean common support your husband to get it done . Conclusively ,Wise men go ahead with DNA test without your wife Knowledge as most wives won't like it . Don't waste your life ,Money time on Bastards.

zexy2030:

It will shock that in 2yrs time, DNA will still be manipulated by women and the game continues.

Women opened eyes before men. Just pray to have a God fearing woman. Otherwise the man is doomed. M