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Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 2:15pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
I was having a conversation with a lady and two guys a couple of days ago, and in the course of the conversation I told them I rarely drink alcohol (just a bottle of Heineken in a month or two), I don't smoke, I don't womanize and I don't crave for money. I was told that I wasn't normal, that an average man must indulge in one or two of those vices. I will people to share their opinions on this. 25 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by chatinent: 2:17pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
I don't smoke, drink, womanise, too dey crave for money, watch football, club ...and when sb tells me I ain't normal, I am glad. It doesn't mean I don't have fun, I do in my own special way with fam! We go out too, of course! Why am I glad? That's what I always want to hear. Because when I am becoming “normal” then there is a problem. But when I am not “normal,” it makes me know I am still very very normal... I even celebrate the news. What I do when I hear such: I remove squares out of my circles. Case solved. 109 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by jaymichael(m): 2:30pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
paulavon:Be proud of your "abnormality" if that brings you peace and happiness. As long as what brings you joy, peace and happiness is not illegal. 50 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by mariahAngel(f): 2:33pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
When you say I don’t crave for money, what does that mean? How is that a vice? 13 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Sonnobax15(m): 2:46pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
Normally,as a guy man,you supposed to dey package one of those things na.. Personally cha,I don't smoke,I don't drink ,I don't club and I don't womanize....But when it comes to gist about football,count me in....But majority of my nighas dey package all of them...... in fact,I can't make a Nigha who doesn't like watching or gisting about football my friend... Moreover,I near say smokers can easily make friends . Like one or two of my nigha's wey dey smoke don confirm am to me cha.. 11 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by AmazonTopaz(f): 2:50pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Maybe he meant those people desperate for it that they indulge in illicit acts and Yahoo to get money because these are vices maybe that is what he was referring to. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by AmazonTopaz(f): 2:53pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
paulavon: That is a beer parlour gist,you are very normal many of the people that say this are close minded and use this as an excuse or reason for them to do what they do. I have seen men who don't fall in any of those categories and they are not abnormal if that is an abnormality to them it is time we start normalising it. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Righteousness2(m): 3:00pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
That's the Crazy, Decaying, Abominable and Sinking World we Live in today. A World where Good is Called Evil and Evil is Called Good. That's the Spirit of the Endtimes that has Engulfed the World Inhabitants. The Fact that Majority or Everyone decides to do evil does not make Evil right. Wherever you are, Stand out From the Crowd. Stand For Righteousness! Stand For Holiness! Stand For JESUS Christ! JESUS is Coming! And HE will take those who stand boldly for HIM. 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by bukatyne(f): 3:01pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
paulavon: Well, tell them you are not average In the world of today, called 'abnormal' is becoming a virtue. 6 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 4:10pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
What I meant was that, I am not really moved or influenced by money, I am contented with the little I have. It is not a do or die matter for me. Some people will tell you that " money matter I no dey use am play oh" mariahAngel: 6 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 4:11pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
Thanks for your words of encouragement Righteousness2: 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 4:16pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
I was even attacked the most by the lady. She said I should go and check myself, that something was wrong with me. I am not a righteous person, I have friends who drink, smoke and womanise but I just don't get involved. I have been reflecting on her comments and I felt the need to seek for other opinions to know if I am normal. AmazonTopaz: 3 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 4:23pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
My brother, I am a football and music lover. I am a die-hard Chelsea fan, I have been supporting them since 2003. The fact is that I live my life in such a way I am not subdued by anything. Sonnobax15: 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Sonnobax15(m): 4:26pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
paulavon:blue blood forever bro 20 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by MufasaLion: 4:52pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
Bro, you aint abnormal. I have a guy that has never womanised, nor drink, nor smoke, nor do any vices. Actually, I'm cool with anybidy as long as your personality matches mine. 4 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Bolarineliza202: 5:04pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
You are normal and believe me you will later become happy for threading on the right part by not doing all those worthless things. NOTE:never change the good things you are doing in the future for any reason.Those girls who mock you today will later regret their actions tomorrow and will end up respecting your idea. Ciao! paulavon: 8 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by mariahAngel(f): 5:06pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
MufasaLion: The bolded is what life is about, and once you’ve figured that out, you become happier. We don’t have be friends with everybody, and we don’t have to relate with people we don’t vibe with. 6 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by MufasaLion: 5:10pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Exactly! Once you understand yourself. I don't even like unnecessary friendships or acquaintances. I choose the people I want. People don't choose me. 7 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by mariahAngel(f): 5:25pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
MufasaLion: Are you in my mind? Gerrout Mufasa! 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Richy4(m): 5:26pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
A lot of people have already said what was on my mind, What a lovely feedback for you OP....I can't count the number of them up there... So I just have to say Seconded 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by MufasaLion: 5:28pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
mariahAngel: e jikọtara anyị ọnụ. |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:29pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
You can avoid such friends, you don't even need to hear what they have to say. The said lady has associated with drunks, womanizers and greedy guys all her life, such that decency seems abnormal to her. She doesn't know that there are plenty women who pray to have men like you. paulavon post=106316818[b: 11 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by mariahAngel(f): 5:31pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
paulavon: Don’t let it bother you. Your personalities (yours and hers) simply don’t match and that’s it. You don’t have to roll with people that do not make you feel good (you’ll recognize the vibe). Just minimize relating with them, or you cut them off for the sake of your happiness. Identify the people your vibe matches with theirs and roll with them. Be more intentional with your happiness. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by mariahAngel(f): 5:33pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
MufasaLion: Gerrarahia! |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by MufasaLion: 5:37pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Ị nweghị ike ịgbapụ n'ihi na m ga -akpọrọ gị pụọ. |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:05pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
paulavon:It seems in her circle she hasn't seen better or anyone deviate from their norm hence her statement. 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 6:16pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
I am glad there are still good people like you who appreciates decency. LilMissFavvy: 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 6:18pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
You have spoken well, thanks mariahAngel: 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by mariahAngel(f): 6:21pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
paulavon: You’re welcome. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by debbydams(f): 7:27pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
paulavon:op u are normal.. |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 10:32am On Oct 01, 2021 |
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Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Konjiboi: 11:20am On Oct 01, 2021 |
You're in a wrong setting. Change circle. 5 Likes |
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