As February presidential election approaches, please let's vote wisely.
Things are really hard. We cannot continue living like this.

Where's the father of the children?

Ouchbabe:

He is around jobless waiting to land a "big" job in a good company.
According to him, working in all these small companies is a waste of time.
I have encouraged him to take up any small job for now but he refused. He uses any small money he gets to play bet. So I have resorted to my fate

That's the issue. You can't have a husband and other men will train his children for him.

Tell him to wake up.