So, after being a bit of a player for years, I detailed everything here on Nairaland, you can read it on my profile, I was a professional play boy.

Back to the story, I decided to change my ways when I met this amazing girl last December. I ditched all the other girls and focused only on her. We got together that same month, and I'm head over heels for her, and I know she feels the same.

I've had some stupid attitudes like thinking I'm entitled, being petty, proud, arrogant, and careless since I was young, which has caused me to mess up with a lot of girls, even though I wasn't serious with them.

I made this girl obsessed with me and then I changed. If she didn't call or text, neither did I. I could go days without hearing from her and be fine with it because she was always the one reaching out.

I kept my feelings hidden and acted like she was the only one in love, like she was forcing herself on me. I was acting like a jerk.

This has been going on since the beginning of the year, and she put up with it until today when she finally had enough and broke up with me.

I even thought she was joking when she sent the breakup texts, but she blocked me right after without letting me reply. I thought she'd unblock me because I thought she couldn't live without me, but it hit me when I didn't see her message until this evening, and I realized she was serious.

I texted her from another number and begged her, saying I'll change, but she said no despite all my begging.

I swear, I'm really in love with this girl. She's super beautiful, loyal, caring, and independent. She's everything I want in a woman. I can't believe I messed things up because I was being a jerk. I'll never forgive myself.

I really need you guys to cheer me up and tell me how to win her back. I don't want to lose her. She do visit Nairaland as a guest, I’m sure she’ll see this.

I truly love her.

My Journey From Player To Heartbroken then taking the RED PILL becoming....Alpha male.

It’s quite rare for adults these days to spend quality time for the goodwill of others; talk more of growing affections.

Given your past, it seems karma forgot what your door looked like (probably passed it). Fate gifted you an amazing soul and you immediately began subsidizing emotions that weren’t supposed to be handed to you in the first place.

It is what it is sha. The world spins madly on.


The fact that people still develop affection for others these days baffles me somewhat.

Tejumola856:
So, after being a bit of a player for years, I detailed everything here on Nairaland, you can read it on my profile, I was a professional play boy.

Back to the story, I decided to change my ways when I met this amazing girl last December. I ditched all the other girls and focused only on her. We got together that same month, and I'm head over heels for her, and I know she feels the same.

I've had some stupid attitudes like thinking I'm entitled, being petty, proud, arrogant, and careless since I was young, which has caused me to mess up with a lot of girls, even though I wasn't serious with them.

I made this girl obsessed with me and then I changed. If she didn't call or text, neither did I. I could go days without hearing from her and be fine with it because she was always the one reaching out.

I kept my feelings hidden and acted like she was the only one in love, like she was forcing herself on me. I was acting like a jerk.

This has been going on since the beginning of the year, and she put up with it until today when she finally had enough and broke up with me.

I even thought she was joking when she sent the breakup texts, but she blocked me right after without letting me reply. I thought she'd unblock me because I thought she couldn't live without me, but it hit me when I didn't see her message until this evening, and I realized she was serious.

I texted her from another number and begged her, saying I'll change, but she said no despite all my begging.

I swear, I'm really in love with this girl. She's super beautiful, loyal, caring, and independent. She's everything I want in a woman. I can't believe I messed things up because I was being a jerk. I'll never forgive myself.

I really need you guys to cheer me up and tell me how to win her back. I don't want to lose her. She do visit Nairaland as a guest, I’m sure she’ll see this.

I truly love her.

And now

you have made a bad woman^{If she wanted to be a good girl gone bad}because of what she experienced from you

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This is how many men missed their time because of stupid ideology, and will be criticizing Women for it.
Well go back to your old ways.
Take a dose of redpill, and you will be OK.

I love the way some ladies are flushing so many poos to where they belong without wasting time now .

If he likes, let him drink Red Syrup

E concern am. Not that we both truly care.(in my case, wetin Dey my head plenty).

To the dumpster lady who took out the trash, I wish you well.

I hope the trash gets recycled for proper use in the nearest future.

Dazzol

Jeon:
This is how many men missed their time because of stupid ideology, and will be criticizing Women for it.
Well go back to your old ways.
Take a dose of redpill, and you will be OK.

I love the way some ladies are flushing so many poo to where they belong.

HAHA

guyboss:
If he likes, let him drink Red Syrup

E concern am. Not that we both truly care.(in my case, wetin Dey my head plenty).

To the dumpster lady who took out the trash, I wish you well.

I hope the trash gets recycled for proper use in the nearest future.

Dazzol

@bolded, it will never happen. Instead of becoming a better version, most of his types turn bad to hurt any woman that cross their paths. And will still blame the previous and the present lady for the messy situations.


Well, his fellas are coming to cheer him up for dodging a bullet, as they always said. Nah him cup of Jasmine tea.

Here is the best answer

Sweet Interesting Lies
But one interesting phenomenon always happen, players most times get played themselves

Jeon:
HAHA




@bolded, it will never happen. Instead of becoming a better version, most of his types turn bad to hurt any woman that cross their paths. And will still blame the previous and the present lady for the messy situations.


Well, his fellas are coming to cheer him up for dodging a bullet, as they always said. Nah him cup of Jasmine tea.

Mistakes are meant to be lessons. If I don't end up with her later, I'll count it as a loss and move on. At the end of the day, everyone meets for a reason, it's either a blessing or a lesson.

Tejumola856:



Mistakes are meant to be lessons. If I don't end up with her later, I'll count it as a loss and move on. At the end of the day, everyone meets for a reason, it's either a blessing or a lesson.

Your problem started when you ditched other girls. You shouldn't have ditched them, you should have kept exploring their pussies along with the new girl.

Show care, be romantic, let your yes be yes and your no be no, no send no poo!

Forget her and move on, girls full everywhere. However you should stop forming hard and mean all the time. The goal is not to fall for a woman's manipulations!

G0odharddick:


Your problem started when you ditched other girls. You shouldn't have ditched them, you should have kept exploring their pussies along with the new girl.

Show care, be romantic, let your yes be yes and your no be no, no send no poo!

Forget her and move on, girls full everywhere. However you should stop forming hard and mean all the time. The goal is not to fall for a woman's manipulations!

I wouldn’t say ditching other women is where my problem started because all I wanted is a loyal woman who brings peace to me. Fortunately, my wish was granted, she’s everything I was looking for in a woman.

I messed it up by being mean and acting tough all the time.
Getting a woman is very easy for me, but finding a loyal one is where the hard work comes in. We all know how hard it is to find a loyal and trustworthy woman among Nigerian women

Tejumola856:
So, after being a bit of a player for years, I detailed everything here on Nairaland, you can read it on my profile, I was a professional play boy.

Back to the story, I decided to change my ways when I met this amazing girl last December. I ditched all the other girls and focused only on her. We got together that same month, and I'm head over heels for her, and I know she feels the same.

I've had some stupid attitudes like thinking I'm entitled, being petty, proud, arrogant, and careless since I was young, which has caused me to mess up with a lot of girls, even though I wasn't serious with them.

I made this girl obsessed with me and then I changed. If she didn't call or text, neither did I. I could go days without hearing from her and be fine with it because she was always the one reaching out.

I kept my feelings hidden and acted like she was the only one in love, like she was forcing herself on me. I was acting like a jerk.

This has been going on since the beginning of the year, and she put up with it until today when she finally had enough and broke up with me.

I even thought she was joking when she sent the breakup texts, but she blocked me right after without letting me reply. I thought she'd unblock me because I thought she couldn't live without me, but it hit me when I didn't see her message until this evening, and I realized she was serious.

I texted her from another number and begged her, saying I'll change, but she said no despite all my begging.

I swear, I'm really in love with this girl. She's super beautiful, loyal, caring, and independent. She's everything I want in a woman. I can't believe I messed things up because I was being a jerk. I'll never forgive myself.

I really need you guys to cheer me up and tell me how to win her back. I don't want to lose her. She do visit Nairaland as a guest, I’m sure she’ll see this.

I truly love her.

Show her this your post

Tejumola856:



I wouldn’t say ditching other women is where my problem started because all I wanted is a loyal woman who brings peace to me. Fortunately, my wish was granted, she’s everything I was looking for in a woman.

I messed it up by being mean and acting tough all the time.
Getting a woman is very easy for me, but finding a loyal one is where the hard work comes in. We all know how hard it is to find a loyal and trustworthy woman among Nigerian women

Dude stop being mean and difficult all the time. Free yourself, discuss and Play with her but set boundaries in order to avoid see finish.

No girl wants to be with a guy who's always mean , difficult and hard to her.

Shaa move on. I'm sure she has since found someone else. Girls still plenty outside

You claimed she's a guest here. Which sensible lady will read all those your dirty s3x escapades and still manage to continue relationship with you? You're not even loyal to yourself, parent and God yet you want a loyal lady to come settle down with a public driller. Shame 😕