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I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 2:01pm On Feb 23, 2009
There is this one babe in my neighbourhood who recently turned 20. Tall dark intelligent and very pretty student of a higher institution, comfortable home.

I noticed she has been coming on to me for sometime now. Calls text messages and stuff.Yours sincerely is a real life hyena, now tamed by career pursuit and family but a hyena nonetheless. I have never had it with someone with such a wide age margin-completely uncharted territory for me.We have an outing planned for today and it is mutually agreed that there will be no first date bullshit.

All senior bros familiar with this scenario are free to share.For the self righteous, please remember there is a religious section.Thank you.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by tpia: 4:06pm On Feb 23, 2009
when you're 45 she'll be 26.

carry on and rock her world while you can.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 5:57pm On Feb 23, 2009
tpia:

when you're 45 she'll be 26.
carry on and rock her world while you can.
And when I am 50 she will be 31 and so on and so forth. Such things dont readily come to mind.In any case then she will probably be married by someone who equally appreciates her.

She is the one rocking my world now since I started paying attention and stopped thinking of her as a confused presumptive teenager.I once dated her aunt's best friend who is now happily married and in her early 30's.Somehow I have been able to keep down that little voice that kept saying 'here you go again-making a fool of yourself'.

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Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by touchmeder: 6:12pm On Feb 23, 2009
I noticed she has been coming on to me for sometime now. Calls text messages and stuff.Yours sincerely is a real life hyena, now tamed by career pursuit and family but a hyena nonetheless. I have never had it with someone with such a wide age margin-completely uncharted territory for me.We have an outing planned for today and it is mutually agreed that there will be no first date bullshit.

Ar u a married man?
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by touchmeder: 6:17pm On Feb 23, 2009
halt the insult first. @poster answer me first
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 6:20pm On Feb 23, 2009
Hollysmile:

When u become 200 she'll be how many? Poster, u're an idiot! Why not use ur own daughter!
Yes the NL goons are here. They are neither male nor female just anonymous internet cafe scum learning to write in English

touchmeder:

Ar u a married man?
You voice heavy stuff my friend. Married and man. I thought I was clear enough. Anyway, very much so.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by arramyjay: 6:24pm On Feb 23, 2009
If you like her and she likes you then it is fine.Good luck.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by uyimen: 6:29pm On Feb 23, 2009
Dont insult anyone pls.
If you are serious wit her as i.e you want to marry her,nothing bad o! But if you just want to flirt wit her for sex,then it would be shameful becos she is far too young. If not for d nigeria factor you are old enough to be her father.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by touchmeder: 6:34pm On Feb 23, 2009
You voice heavy stuff my friend. Married and man. I thought I was clear enough. Anyway, very much so

na for hia i nor gree oh. if u were not i would have said sure, cos she's old enuf to know what she wants.she's up for it and so are you. But ure a married man, u should know better. sad too bad
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 6:34pm On Feb 23, 2009
arramyjay:

If you like her and she likes you then it is fine.Good luck.
There is no doubt the attraction is mutual. On my side, I can say I do like her person and that is getting even stronger by the day. On her side may be the attraction is the fact that she thinks I am successful and maybe different from others.In terms of personality, if you know me you will agree it takes quite a lot of effort to like someone like me.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by dani1luv: 6:37pm On Feb 23, 2009
There is this one babe in my neighbourhood who recently turned 20. Tall dark intelligent and very pretty student of a higher institution, comfortable home.

I noticed she has been coming on to me for sometime now. Calls text messages and stuff.Yours sincerely is a real life hyena, now tamed by career pursuit and family but a hyena nonetheless. I have never had it with someone with such a wide age margin-completely uncharted territory for me.We have an outing planned for today and it is mutually agreed that there will be no first date bullshit.

All senior bros familiar with this scenario are free to share.For the self righteous, please remember there is a religious section.Thank you

when you're 45 she'll be 26.

carry on and rock her world while you can.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by Hauwa1: 6:41pm On Feb 23, 2009
you are married, what do you want again? shocked shocked shocked.

a tight pu**y?

leave the small girl alone and face your wife and kids!
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 6:43pm On Feb 23, 2009
uyimen:

Dont insult anyone pls.
If you are serious wit her as i.e you want to marry her,nothing bad o! But if you just want to flirt wit her for sex,then it would be shameful becos she is far too young. If not for d nigeria factor you are old enough to be her father.

There is sth uniquely different about this relationship. I did not initiate it but when it started, I liked it.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by tope2000(f): 6:46pm On Feb 23, 2009
Kini big deal as long as u r not playing her undecided
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by dani1luv: 6:48pm On Feb 23, 2009
tope2000:

Kini big deal as long as u r not playing her undecided
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by RichyBlacK(m): 6:52pm On Feb 23, 2009
@poster,

I have no problem with the 19-year age gap. It's absolutely fine, as long as it is mutual. A girl at 2o is an adult.

However, it really troubles me that you're already married. shocked

It is neither fair to your wife nor fair to this young lady; somebody will get hurt and it may very well be you.

I know it's difficult to resist those beautiful and young damsels sometimes but you have to just let this infatuation run its course, and it will, without doing anything boneheaded.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by tope2000(f): 6:53pm On Feb 23, 2009
RichyBlacK:

@poster,

I have no problem with the 19-year age gap. It's absolutely fine, as long as it is mutual. A girl at 2o is an adult.

However, it really troubles me that you're already married. shocked
It is neither fair to your wife nor fair to this young lady; somebody will get hurt and it may very well be you.

I know it's difficult to resist those beautiful and young damsels sometimes but you have to just let this infatuation run its course, and it will, without doing anything boneheaded.

Huh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Hes married shocked shocked
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by RichyBlacK(m): 6:55pm On Feb 23, 2009
tope2000:

Kini big deal as long as u r not playing her undecided

How can you respond like this when a married man is deliberately going outside of his home to 'enjoy' a 20-year old neighbor?
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by RichyBlacK(m): 6:55pm On Feb 23, 2009
tope2000:

Huh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Hes married shocked shocked

Yes he is!!!
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by Archilles(m): 6:57pm On Feb 23, 2009
If u werent married, i would hv said no big deal since no guy can say he wants to marry a gal on their first date. But u r married and single guys like myself feel cheated when u deprive us the company of single chics. You see, we cant go after married ladies and the single ones are being gradually coerced by the married guys. Life harsh ooo.  undecided
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 6:58pm On Feb 23, 2009
*Hauwa*:

you are married, what do you want again? shocked shocked shocked.

a tight pu**y?

leave the small girl alone and face your wife and kids!

Hauwa how old are you.25? Dont delude yourself by thinking that your pussy is tighter than that of a 30yr old. Ok?
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by tope2000(f): 6:58pm On Feb 23, 2009
RichyBlacK:

How can you respond like this when a married man is deliberately going outside of his home to 'enjoy' a 20-year old neighbor?



I didnt know he is married shocked shocked

@OP
Leave the poor girl alone angry angry
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by dani1luv: 6:59pm On Feb 23, 2009
@ Sweet pain
Is he Married undecided
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 7:02pm On Feb 23, 2009
St Richyblack NL's holyman who is a parmanent resident in sexuality and romance, I didnt exactly have you in mind when I started this thread.

Archilles:

If u werent married, i would hv said no big deal since no guy can say he wants to marry a gal on their first date. But u r married and [b]single guys like myself feel cheated when u deprive us the company of single chics. [/b]You see, we cant go after married ladies and the single ones are being gradually coerced by the married guys. Life harsh ooo.  undecided

I can accommodate just one school boy. Not more.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by Hauwa1: 7:04pm On Feb 23, 2009
wink this is abt you grin

a teenager is pushing forward your hard ons eh grin.

if your eyes is leading you to sin, pluck it out wink.

wink
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by dani1luv: 7:06pm On Feb 23, 2009
This is getting interesting

I just love this section grin
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by smurf1(f): 7:06pm On Feb 23, 2009
Don't see anything wrong wiff it oohh, afterall, age ain't noffin' but a #, there you have it, follow your heart!! wink
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by tpia: 7:07pm On Feb 23, 2009
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Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by debosky(m): 7:08pm On Feb 23, 2009
No insults please - else BAN!  grin

The OP is being open with his intentions, so it is left to both him and the girl to consider the (potential) consequences of their actions and act accordingly.

I don't think you should do it, but you seem carried away by the 'thrill of discovery' or 'uncharted territory'. I would focus on rekindling love with my wife (if it has died down) instead of chasing another girl, whatever her age. But then again, I'm me and you're you.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by Hauwa1: 7:09pm On Feb 23, 2009
pls before you post, read well. the guy is married let's not encourage him to shag a 20 years old when he has a family of his own.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by dani1luv: 7:11pm On Feb 23, 2009
debosky:

No insults please - else BAN! grin

The OP is being open with his intentions, so it is left to both him and the girl to consider the (potential) consequences of their actions and act accordingly.

I don't think you should do it, but you seem carried away by the 'thrill of discovery' or 'uncharted territory'. I would focus on rekindling love with my wife (if it has died down) instead of chasing another girl, whatever her age. But then again, I'm me and you're you.

lol; See your yeye head na now you know you go just come;

come see sumtyn
grin cheesy
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-237995.64.html#msg3505109 grin grin
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 7:11pm On Feb 23, 2009
tpia:

@ OP

if you're married and posting this kind of topic then you no well.

Take my comment however you will.
agbaya.

Playing to the gallery are we? Anyway I have a date to keep. All you haters keep hating.

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