tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

I don't pity women that marry dead beat men..anything their eye see na them sabi..make dem sha no stress their siblings wey dey work. Its either she doubles her hustle or suffer cos those guys no send u. Na those kin girls go dey disturb relatives for pikin school fees...stress their mama to take care of pikin while dey live their lives some even visit relatives house to steal rice.. beans garri...yam...plantain...eggs...noodles..senorita.. .plates...when thy should build themselves na deadbeat them dey follow

tensazangetsu20:


Omho you would think for a gender that has more to lose with regards to marriage and sex they will apply some logic to their decisions apparently they are loyal to their feelings. It's just the child I pity see how the kid was thrown away a one year old child.

The way you are sounding, as if the man flung the baby, like a log of wood

Persephone1:
Oh really? Now you categorizing the standard? So this one is first hand broke guy or second hand? You really do not have a point here. Her crime is chosing to be with someone she has feelings for?

I find it very sad that you can neglect a never do well who can't provide, protect and direct his family and still causes trouble but you clearly see a poor lady who is a victim of her feelings as the only one with issues. Do you hold same standard for men who choose boobs and bum over good virtues in women when their marriages go down the drain?

You are really not being fair right now!

There they go! Prime example of how this gender can never understand how to argue logically. Nowadays, I just keep my mouth shut and form dumb waiting for their unintelligent mystery to unravel through their mouths.

Adaisback:
I have said it before and am saying it again. I am all for those people they call simps. I want to marry a simp man. Am beautiful and won't allow one yeye man to lay his filthy fingers on me. Team simps
If you are a simp, am all for you biko. Even if you no sabi do, no yawa, I go dey do the do and we will communicate effectively and that will make our relationship an everlasting one

I am a simp

Adaisback:
I have said it before and am saying it again. I am all for those people they call simps. I want to marry a simp man. Am beautiful and won't allow one yeye man to lay his filthy fingers on me. Team simps
If you are a simp, am all for you biko. Even if you no sabi do, no yawa, I go dey do the do and we will communicate effectively and that will make our relationship an everlasting one

it’s actually a Simp that will beat you because he’s emotionally unstable 🤣😂😂 . A Proper Man will just Dismiss you if you misbehave and on top of that a proper man will have a job or a skill he’s actively engaged in. It’s only Simps that beat women so I wish you the best Simp you can find 👌🏾

thesicilian:
Are the women themselves different from deadbeats? Birds of a feather flock together

tensazangetsu20:


LoL I live in a ghetto so I gets to see a lot of shit . Omho this one isn't building. This one no go school, no get job no get skills. Wetin you wan build.

Bros, how did you know this guy has no skill and nothing to build? Have you ever had a talk/discussion with him? Do you know what's going on in his life? If you care and are really bothered, go talk to him as a man and find out how you can help him, rather than disturbing with this crab.
I come in peace oo.

Persephone1:
Thank you for this question!

Any sane individual will ask this and not blame an already distressed woman for sticking with someone she loves.

Love is a crime for Most Nigerians ooo

Stop saying wat u don't know

OP you should have gone to settle their matter instead of coming here with other people's matter. Every cloud has its own silver lining. I won't judge until I hear from both the husband and wife oo. OP mind your business.

Persephone1:
When Women get intimate with broke guys, "All women knowingly follow deadbeats Men."
When women get intimate with rich men, Women are gold- digging materialistic leeches. You all should pick a stand!

Aside the hasty generalization, here you are insinuating that women should date or marry only logically (calculatively) without heeding to "wants, desires, feelings or attraction". This is coming from one who will still call any woman who does that a gold digger.

The problem with you lot is you only judge women by your standard . If you were to be on equal level with the said man, you would have blamed the irresponsible and ungrateful husband but because you are not it is the woman that is responsible for settling for less.

All of you will be alright las las

It's really difficult being a woman, especially on Nairaland.

Persephone1:
When Women get intimate with broke guys, "All women knowingly follow deadbeats Men."
When women get intimate with rich men, Women are gold- digging materialistic leeches. You all should pick a stand!

Aside the hasty generalization, here you are insinuating that women should date or marry only logically (calculatively) without heeding to "wants, desires, feelings or attraction". This is coming from one who will still call any woman who does that a gold digger.

The problem with you lot is you only judge women by your standard . If you were to be on equal level with the said man, you would have blamed the irresponsible and ungrateful husband but because you are not it is the woman that is responsible for settling for less.

All of you will be alright las las

Not supporting the woman or the man but I like the way your mind works.. cheers

Dshocker:


My brother nothing confuses a woman more than a dick of a broke man.

Most poor or broke guy's dick can make a woman reach orgasm.

They compensate for the lack of cash with their dičk. A broke guy can fučk to the heavens lol. And some women love that a lot.

pocohantas:
I thought women shouldn’t marry for money?
I thought women should build with men.

No be the building be this? If their fights disturb you too much, give them building materials.

How you take get this kind neighbour, Tetanus?

Madam, try to be reasonable.

No real guy supports a deadbeat guy. Every man, rich or poor, has a duty to provide for his family. Yes, his woman can contribute or step in during difficult times.

A man is not serious, not willing to work, not willing to learn a skill, which man will advise his sister or female friend to have a baby with such a guy? How do you build an irresponsible person?

Your desire to always antagonise men doesn't make your arguments sound reasonable.

Even if the guy described by OP is my brother, he still doesn't have any business getting a girl preggy and a relative of mine who would open her legs for him to be preggy deserves her burden.

Nothing confuses a woman like a broke man with a good dick

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

It doesn't matter handsome or ugly, but most ugly guys will want to sacrifice, so he can flaunt the beautiful wife around. I know an ugly lady that got married to a very handsome fair guy, even her son de give her joy. But this man refused to work. This lady became very old and tattered. He said to the lady, " I thought your parents will help me that's y I married you, how can a handsome bobo marry a very ugly lady for free". That was when the lady decided to leave the marriage and de family sponsored her n her son to Canada.
If you are a lady who want fine kid, just carry belle

Don't tell her the truth'' biko

Nonexisting1:
This so where you've failed it. Simps are the ones beating your asses. Real redpillers never lay hands on girls, there are many ways to punish a rat.

Dshocker:


My brother nothing confuses a woman more than a dick of a broke man.

Most poor or broke guy's dick can make a woman reach orgasm.

Preach it bro, preach it!

It's common sense, at least even if the money isnt there he shud have prospects.. not with a man without any potentials or prospects.. use ur head dont justify ur self entitlement mentality here

pocohantas:
I thought women shouldn’t marry for money?
I thought women should build with men.

No be the building be this? If their fights disturb you too much, give them building materials.

How you take get this kind neighbour, Tetanus?

If you don't know
...A town hall is a balablu

Persephone1:
When Women get intimate with broke guys, "All women knowingly follow deadbeats Men."
When women get intimate with rich men, Women are gold- digging materialistic leeches. You all should pick a stand!

Aside the hasty generalization, here you are insinuating that women should date or marry only logically (calculatively) without heeding to "wants, desires, feelings or attraction". This is coming from one who will still call any woman who does that a gold digger.

The problem with you lot is you only judge women by your standard . If you were to be on equal level with the said man, you would have blamed the irresponsible and ungrateful husband but because you are not it is the woman that is responsible for settling for less.

All of you will be alright las las

Are you saying you will also put your life at risk for Passion and feelings that can be unstable? Living dangerously cos of sexual feelings and desires with no secured future no matter how little? I give up on you already [sup][/sup]

pocohantas:
I thought women shouldn’t marry for money?
I thought women should build with men.

No be the building be this? If their fights disturb you too much, give them building materials.

How you take get this kind neighbour, Tetanus?

What is there to build with someone unwilling to even work or learn a skill? I don't get

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

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Some young ladies (also young men) still fail to realize that handsome or cute ends at 25 tops. Beyond 25, a supposedly handsome man who doesn't provide values financially is a thrash. Procreate with him and you get yourself a deadbeat, low-life loser. A Ned Nwoko will steal and marry the beautiful girlfriend while the man is busy doing pink lips and forming Mr. Handsome.

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Like doing Yahoo is more honorable.

tensazangetsu20:


This one doesn't even do Yahoo. Like he has no skill at all, no education nothing no handwork.

Adaisback:
I will advise my sisters here to start going for simps o. Don't let one broke ass kill you in the name of red pillers. Don't you see that the name sound more like dead killers. Many of our married sisters that died vis domestic violence, na red pillers dem marry o. Save your life now and say no to red killers.

You see the problem about simping
It might look like what women want but the reality of it is, you guys still get tired or bored of such simp at some point in time.

If there's anything I Experienced first hand, women are smart and do so well at taking advantage of things. Hence why a simp is damned in a woman's hand cos she's gon take advantage of it at some point.

Talking bout this ain't coming from an angle of having dated women but more like having spent a whole lot of my life around them. Mumxxy, sisters, oga wife when I been dhe do boy for Onitsha, etc.

Same time, this !diot laying hands on a woman na the real definition of simp. Can't work, can't provide, can't do fatherly duties, but can boast of having lots of sexual partner.

More reason why a woman gets blamed more, the girl experiencing this saw everything before marriage but she still go.

Harsh truth is most women don't really know what they want. Y'all always get to deny this at some point but it keeps playing out everytime.

Women dhe see vision. Like God gift una that sense of knowing what could possibly turn out in a man's life at some point but majority chose to focus on what's present at the moment and end up with the wrong decisions.

Women fall for a fine guy who dressed up in his best cloth on that day he approach and wu her,she agree,dating follow ,better 1 hrs sex happen belle enter, before her eye clear,that is the end of the story

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

That is what women deserve

Don't pity her
They like bad boys with no job

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

You know so much about your neighbor’s husband to the extend that you can write a book about him.

Adaisback:
I have said it before and am saying it again. I am all for those people they call simps. I want to marry a simp man. Am beautiful and won't allow one yeye man to lay his filthy fingers on me. Team simps
If you are a simp, am all for you biko. Even if you no sabi do, no yawa, I go dey do the do and we will communicate effectively and that will make our relationship an everlasting one

I am not a simp but I will never hit you

So let's start