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On Heat Or Starved? by bamboke(f): 2:31pm On Apr 05, 2007
i met a guy thru a friend of mine,when i chatted with him online at work and for like two weeks we talked both on phone and thru chatting.he started making advances at me,wanting to meet me at all cost.until i gave in to meeting him at an eatry.we talked and then he was bent on doing another date.wat do i do?wat if he asks me to come over to know his place?
the thing i know about guys is dat once you are in their territory,they would want to ask you to go out with him,saying that you both have a chemistry.
A diversion,a guy you said yes to.and that very day,wants to stick his tongue down ur throat.is dat the way it is with guys?and is that guy not even sex starved or on heat to want to grind into you in the processing of kissing his new girl.does it make any sense to go into this relationship or stay out of it? angry
Re: On Heat Or Starved? by adeboo(f): 4:30pm On Apr 05, 2007
Well, i think you shouldnt do anything you arent comfortable doin.

If its a guy you know you like or you wont mind dating - then meet up with him in a public place until u feel comfortable enough to meet him in his house or maybe yours.

Dont be pressured into doing anything, move at your own pace and dont let anyone rush you.

And if he isnt someone you really wanna be with then turn down his advances - ther is no point in givig him the come on if you not interested.

End of.
Re: On Heat Or Starved? by abstarr(m): 4:36pm On Apr 05, 2007
its ur call sweetcakes!

If u feel like a "spur of the moment" thing - GO FOR IT!

If u don't - DON'T

Simple as that
Re: On Heat Or Starved? by Maneater1(f): 5:14pm On Apr 05, 2007
Lol. grin
Re: On Heat Or Starved? by wirewire(m): 12:18pm On May 16, 2012
some girls alwayz have in mind that when eva a guy makes advances to you,its all about licking into them and other shits like that. with this negative tot in their mind,they will not have an open mind to start and enjoy any relationship. when dating with an open mind,having fun might come in unplanned,if you are active enjoy,if you are not abstain. before any of this can take place,both parties would at least like themselves.
Re: On Heat Or Starved? by Rocktation(f): 3:05pm On May 16, 2012
I understand. But a kiss is truly imperative for taking a relationship a good deal further. And yes, one might be ready to plunge but not necessarily want to go all the way in the beginning. So, short of slapping the craving out of his mouth when you both are at it and you want it to stop when he doesn't, ignore the pressures (boys will be boys) and stay out of his place until you know his person well enough to dispel your fears, and embrace all that an average relationship brings.

P.S: It's not impossible to kiss you in public though, if he really puts his back into it. Lol.
Re: On Heat Or Starved? by omega25red(m): 3:13pm On May 16, 2012
bamboke: i met a guy thru a friend of mine,when i chatted with him online at work and for like two weeks we talked both on phone and thru chatting.he started making advances at me,wanting to meet me at all cost.until i gave in to meeting him at an eatry.we talked and then he was bent on doing another date.[b]wat do i do?[/b]wat if he asks me to come over to know his place?
the thing i know about guys is dat once you are in their territory,they would want to ask you to go out with him,saying that you both have a chemistry.
A diversion,a guy you said yes to.and that very day,wants to stick his tongue down ur throat.is dat the way it is with guys?and is that guy not even sex starved or on heat to want to grind into you in the processing of kissing his new girl.does it make any sense to go into this relationship or stay out of it? angry
What do you do?
What you do is open your mouth and talk about what your expectations are. If you sit down at a table to eat with a guy on a date, what do you talk about? do you just sit there eating or you expect that man to dictate the whole outing? you should be asking questions as to what the guy is looking for and telling him what you are looking for. Also talking about how you want to wait to have se+ or even talking about your past relationships.
Re: On Heat Or Starved? by LogicMind: 7:50pm On May 16, 2012
the best thing to do is invite him to your place and as soon as he comes through the door, put his joyous stick in your mouth. swallow the akamu while smiling at him and tell him you forgot you have somewhere important to go to, that you will see him later.
if he calls you back, JACKPOT.
if he doesn't, then you have had and enjoyed a wonderful experience most girls could only fantasize about.
Re: On Heat Or Starved? by Iyalola19: 2:17am On May 17, 2012
bamboke: i met a guy thru a friend of mine,when i chatted with him online at work and for like two weeks we talked both on phone and thru chatting.he started making advances at me,wanting to meet me at all cost.until i gave in to meeting him at an eatry.we talked and then he was bent on doing another date.wat do i do?wat if he asks me to come over to know his place?
the thing i know about guys is dat once you are in their territory,they would want to ask you to go out with him,saying that you both have a chemistry.
A diversion,a guy you said yes to.and that very day,wants to stick his tongue down ur throat.is dat the way it is with guys?and is that guy not even sex starved or on heat to want to grind into you in the processing of kissing his new girl.does it make any sense to go into this relationship or stay out of it? angry

olodo asking a girl on another date does not mean he would invite u to his place
see what is in your dirty mind
so amusement park no dey for lagos to visit again?
women blame men for everything
shey d guy done ask u for kiss or to come to his house
see how you r jumping the gun like be be scout
see what he has in mind first sister before u conclude
stop acting like baby angry

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