Scenario:

Boy A and Girl A have been together for months. Girl D is interested in Boy A. She flirts, says she likes him, etc, even though she knows he's taken. Boy A repeatedly tells Girl D he's not interested as he's in love with Girl A and has no intentions of leaving her for anyone. Girl D continues to be playful and flirt, until Boy D, Boy A's best friend, comes along. Now, she's flirting with Boy D, says she likes him, etc. Boy D is single, oblivious, and, as a result, is becoming interested in Girl D.

With this information, what are your impressions of Girl D? Would you tell Boy D about Girl D's track record? What's terrible is that Boy D is a responsible young man who shuns wild girls in hopes of finding a genuine, sincere woman.

Imagine if things even go far between Boy D and Girl D. People would obviously ask how they met. "Oh, she was into my best friend but he was taken so she settled for me" lol. Thoughts?

*yawns*

If it were me, I would not tell Boy D anything because girl D girl D might be wild and crazy, but she seems like a girl who once is drawn towards someone would not let that person go instantly. She might not necessarily be a who-re just because she wanted to break up a relationship, she just knows goes for what she wants

Want to test her ''love",

simply set up a boy F to seemingly draw her attention of boy D
Have boy D observe the ensuing tango.

For all u know, she may genuinely like boy D, n not fall foul.

girl D tried her luck with boy A but it didnt catch.
Boy A doesnt have to tell boy D anything.boy D should be able to take care of himself.
Let people make their own mistakes.it should not be boy A's headache.

boy A + girl A = boy D + girl D. No difference!

slimyem:
girl D tried her luck with boy A but it didnt catch.
Boy A doesnt have to tell boy D anything.boy D should be able to take care of himself.
Let people make their own mistakes.it should not be boy A's headache.

Yes, it shouldn't be his headache, but I think it would be awkward. It would be for me, if I were a guy. A girl that was once all over me is now with my best friend? Ew lol. To me, it seems like she wants any dude that looks her way. It could even be her attempting to get closer to the boy she couldn't have in the first place. A girl that's willing to break up a relationship can't be trusted in my book.

I like their names, very cool
like someone said, it depends on how close boy A and boy D are. but if I was boy A, I would talk to girl D First to figure out her intentions and warn her about boy Ds! if I'm convinced she's ok, I'll leave it at that, else I guess I'll have to warn boy D, that is if we are close. if we weren't close none of this would happen.
you can call me boy Z, cos that kinda rhymes with jay Z

i say let them be

ogugua88:

Yes, it shouldn't be his headache, but I think it would be awkward. It would be for me, if I were a guy. A girl that was once all over me is now with my best friend? Ew lol. To me, it seems like she wants any dude that looks her way. It could even be her attempting to get closer to the boy she couldn't have in the first place. A girl that's willing to break up a relationship can't be trusted in my book.

What happened to being happy for your friend? As long as she has not behaved in an unbecoming way towards your friend it should not be a problem. He should even be happy that she is off his back

lol lemmie try to understand in a simple way.

BA + GA = BGA
BGA + GD = BGAGD = Crowd.

BGAGD - GD = BGA = GD + BD = GBD

BGA = GBD.

I dont see any problem. cz only time will test if its of convinience. And who knows,convinience could turn genuine. it only provides an opportunity to meet.

Omo see equations

More like genetics in Biology

what happened to looking out for a buddie?

My thoughts exactly!!!!!!

He's concerned that his friend may fall into the laps of a delilah.
He tells his friend of her previous dalliance at the peril of losing the their friendship n friend still having a failed relationship.

So set her up to determine if she's really changed, never know.

Wish we all had friends watching our backs like u.

The guy does not have to say isht. He should just watch out and see if the girl is showing tendencies of Naughtiness. Remember the OP did not say the girl was flirty just that she liked Boy A and she wanted him and so when Boy D came, she decided to go for the next best thing

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IbroSaunks:
what happened to looking out for a buddie?

Bros that's exactly what I've been wondering. The comments have been surprising but cool nonetheless. I guess "Bros before Hos" holds in yankee only lol.

Mynd_44:
The guy does not have to say isht. He should just watch out and see if the girl is showing tendencies of Naughtiness. Remember the OP did not say the girl was flirty just that she liked Boy A and she wanted him and so when Boy D came, she decided to go for the next best thing

She's very flirtatious. One week she's all over guy A. Now she's telling guy D she needs someone to hold her at night lol.

doe-eyed:
My thoughts exactly!!!!!!

He's concerned that his friend may fall into the laps of a delilah.
He tells his friend of her previous dalliance at the peril of losing the their friendship n friend still having a failed relationship.

So set her up to determine if she's really changed, never know.

Wish we all had friends watching our backs like u.

Inlight of recent evidence, I change my view on girl D. Boy A should tell girl D

slimyem:

girl D tried her luck with boy A but it didnt catch.
Boy A doesnt have to tell boy D anything.boy D should be able to take care of himself.
Let people make their own mistakes.it should not be boy A's headache.

What if Boy D (Mr. Responsible)was your brother? Would you let him go out with, and probably marry the cheerful giver (girl D) so he can learn from his mistakes? And by the time he learns from his mistakes, don't you think you would have succeeded in reducing the number of responsible 9ja men that our 9ja sisters are so desperately searching for?

this thread makes me laugh,

abcde, they are grownups. let them handle

slimyem:

girl D tried her luck with boy A but it didnt catch.
Boy A doesnt have to tell boy D anything.boy D should be able to take care of himself.
Let people make their own mistakes.it should not be boy A's headache.

Agreed!

pendo89:

this thread makes me laugh,

abcde, they are grownups. let them handle

Speak for yourself ooo. Most NLers are less than 12 years old

lol