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Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Kobojunkie: 4:58pm On May 17 |
IDERAWOLE:HUH? 🤔🤔🤔 2. She should know what to do as in she should join the 10s of millions of women equally married to cheating husbands who make up the vast majority in your churches in prayer and fasting rituals, many of whom have been at this ritual for well over a decade or more of their married lives? Is that what it is she should know to do? Some of you are just plain wicked and have yet to even realize your wickedness! |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by cjudy(m): 4:59pm On May 17 |
1Sharon:You’re not married stay off the topic. Continue with your girlfriends and leave married people alone. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Kobojunkie: 5:01pm On May 17 |
Undaunted11:Even worse when you realize that all the time you had been basking in ecstasy, it was just you being ignorantly foolish. Life ehn! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by RenaissanceGuy: 5:05pm On May 17 |
sacajawea:Yes . |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by nathyx(m): 5:06pm On May 17 |
Men of today are like He- goats going about mee mee looking for hole to put prick. Ewww it disgusts me. Some foolish He-goats are busy commenting "One toto no dey belleful man" so your life should be kept at stake because of one He-goat of a man?? What if the He- goat goes out and brings one deadly sexual transmitted disease and passes it to you. That means automatically you both are dead all because of the He-goat called man of a husband. Divorce him!!! Let him go on gallivanting from one hole to another since thats his destiny |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Amumaigwe: 5:11pm On May 17 |
Calvary247: Cheat back na. As if you are not cheating already. Get caught and be thrown out. Keep challenging him and wonder why he is seeking peace elsewhere. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Kobojunkie: 5:12pm On May 17 |
nathyx:In that case, it ain't the he-goat alone to blame. His wife at home who sits back and copes with him allowed the community dick of a he-goat to boink her already emotionally and psychologically damaged self after it all. Remember, it takes two to boink and since wifey is playing the coping wife, it makes sense that she would equally wish to cope with the STD her husband brings home as well. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by 1Sharon(f): 5:12pm On May 17 |
cjudy: Yes I know I'm not married. That's why I asked you. What will be your advise to the OP? |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by luminouz(m): 5:14pm On May 17 |
Mariangeles:K |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by NairaMaster1(m): 5:24pm On May 17 |
Calvary247: Be wise. Cheating Cheating Cheating. Polygamy is in the Bible and Koran. Be wise. No better husbands. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by CaptainJune: 5:25pm On May 17 |
Kobicove: Does playing his role as a husband include infecting her with diseases gotten from his girlfriend(s)? Should she look away even when her health is in red danger from his actions? |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Kobojunkie: 5:27pm On May 17 |
CaptainJune:OP already confesses to being emotionally and psychologically traumatized by it all. Who tell you say na when her physical health go follow too she go get sense? |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by weslay: 5:31pm On May 17 |
immortalcrown: 💯 She should Just give him a condom and ensure she protect herself as well. Some men will use their own hands to destroy their family. I remember a case where the man got his wife and her infant child infected. The trio died leaving their older son alone to suffer in this sinful world. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Kobojunkie: 5:34pm On May 17 |
weslay:Interesting!! She couldn't get him to stop cheating, but somehow she can get him to use protection every time he thinks to mount her after his side chicks have many brushed off his advances? Brilliant. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by CaptainJune: 5:35pm On May 17 |
Kobojunkie: I think Op should call the people the man respects so they can weigh in on the issue and hopefully fashion a lasting solution. She shouldn't rashly leave her marriage when she can still salvage it, but she must never have sex with him until he proves he is disease free. Her situation calls for wisdom and patience. It is said that he who comes to equity must come with clean hands. I commend her for not paying him back in kind. She may not know how that decision has saved her from a world of pain and regrets. Let her do what she can. If all else fails she can seek separation from him (not divorce) for the sake of her mental and physical health. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Kobojunkie: 5:41pm On May 17 |
CaptainJune:If OP's opinion, the one who is the wife in the marriage, is worth absolutely nothing to the man, what does it matter if the man listens to others outside of the marriage that he supposedly respects? Marriage is between a man and a woman. Once one of the partners no longer respects the opinion of the other partner in the marriage— there is no agreement between the two —, is it still a marriage then? 2. How did you determine that she can salvage the marriage though? The man does not respect her and OP admits to already being emotionally and psychologically traumatized by the experience in marriage. Maybe she is disease-free, but is that the measure as far as whether the marriage is salvageable or not? 3. So, divorce is never to be considered even after she has ascertained that the man has completely abandoned her in marriage? Why is that? |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 5:42pm On May 17 |
Calvary247: I'm going to be very practical with you. I have few questions before proceeding. 1) Apart from philandering, is he a good husband? Does he provide, lead and protect the home? 2) Is he a good father? Does a he provide for the kids, and discipline them as a father figure? 3) Is he violent, uncultured and a drunk? |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by lymelyte(m): 5:45pm On May 17 |
okoroemeka:well said my broda |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Biggers82(m): 5:48pm On May 17 |
Cheat if you want but if you don't want to do that allow the man to do what makes him happy for Men Cheating is not a Crime Men has ever right to Cheat but Women don't. Reason is Because Men Are Polygamous in Nature pls allow him to enjoy life. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Mckraz01: 5:59pm On May 17 |
Calvary247: Try these three things Seduction Total Submission Don't stress him financially. If he still continues it means two things from my perspective: Either you did sth that made him to live his life or he's being influenced somewhere. What do I know anyway.... Kuku carry family enter the matter. This is bigger than us |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by femi4: 6:05pm On May 17 |
Calvary247:Unfortunately, there is no solution to it. You can only reduce it by draining him sex wise before he goes out. That way, the urge to sex with another woman out there will reduce 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by flokii: 6:05pm On May 17 |
@OP You most likely got carried away by his sweet mouth and lavish spending.. you must have been seeing signs that the guy you were courting is a lover of women but you chose to ignore. Sorry o, but people like that who cheat hardly change.. If your mom is not that old, such a man can sleep with her and zip his mouth. If you decide to divorce, na small small boys go dey pass you around. Married men too will come and have their share from your cookie jar. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Elusive001: 6:07pm On May 17 |
IDERAWOLE: I agree with you. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Adaisback(f): 6:07pm On May 17 |
Calvary247:listen to me carefully. Don't ever beg him again. Infact start living a quiet and mysterious life. Ignore him to the core. Start taking very good care of yourself. Dress sweetly. If you have a high voice, my sister is time to start using very low and sweet voice. Pretend as if you are not pained. Keep respecting him, cook and serve him his food on time. Never cheat back , it's belittling At night, dress sexily , make friends, good friends that you can chat with. My sister, take your phone and start chatting with these friends of yours. While doing so, laugh loudly and make comments like, don't you know am married, thanks for saying am beautiful etc, do this for two weeks and come back , let me give you more tips. Before I go, I hope you are tight , wet nd sweet down there? Do you moan or you are the quiet type. Pls dear, be mysterious e.g always be tight, next time for action, my sister be slimy, next one again do pussy locking ( Kegel) while at it. Brb |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by BigBashiru: 6:10pm On May 17 |
Calvary247: Did ur husband chop u in ur prime or u gave urself for free to different boyfriends and only got married at 35? Expecting ur husband to only be chopping leftovers? Does that sound fair to you? Is it fair to be stuck with someone in physical decline when you never would hv given him the time of the day. So long as he treats you well, is a good husband and father just let him be and hv his fun |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by buJu234: 6:28pm On May 17 |
unfortuately as an Nigerian woman based in Nigeria, its a taboo for your gender to cheat after marriage. because ur man pays the bills including taking care of u. kpele for that. why not jst buy some condom for protection, advice him to do it far from the family houz and lastly remove ur mind. or better still tell him to send u and the kids abroad. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by BigYash: 6:43pm On May 17 |
You want to take advice from bitter people.. You want to crash your marriage all by yourself.. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Badmashiii: 6:48pm On May 17 |
Sandralight: So in your self-delusions men and women are the same? Smh. I'm really grateful to you oh lord for making me a MAN. And one of the exclusive right you have given me for being a MAN is to proudly have lots of sexual options,because of fun and easing of stress. Whether married or not it's our birth-right as men to have as much sexual options as we desire,and even flaunt it. If you don't like it you can go to hell. |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by komzy589(m): 6:58pm On May 17 |
Kobojunkie:Unfortunately the implications are different for men. It is not the only one though; responsibilities and so many other things are not the same as it is with women. Many will imply that society made it so, but is it really society! The reality is that one stands a good chance of missing out if one goes against the norm. I know of men that believe they will only get married when they find a woman who’s ready to share equal marital responsibilities. They are still waiting. That’s what happens when one goes against the tide. Society didn’t make it so. It is just the model. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Kobojunkie: 7:04pm On May 17 |
komzy589:Stop using my mention to continue this yammering abeg! 🤔 None of this directly addresses any of the concerns raised in my previous post so why tag me in this? So, what gives? |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by Pootle: 7:05pm On May 17 |
fyzaila: eagle eyes 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Cope With Cheating Husband? by cjudy(m): 7:05pm On May 17 |
1Sharon:She have family, she gat in-laws. She should go and report and seek a possible solution to her problem. Nairaland is not a marriage class. |
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