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| I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Paulayor: 10:07am On May 16 |
Guys, please I need your advice. I met my current girlfriend through my mom. She is the daughter of my mom's old time school mate. I didn't really fancy her that much but my mom encouraged me to chase after her. Now, i've grown to love her a lot. All seemed fine, but she seems quite not fully into me. A few hours ago, a friend of mine drew my attention to a video online, and guess what- they are discussing a letter from someone who sounds very much like my girl. She's 29, I met her through her mom at a shopping mall on christmas eve. She did her masters in the US and had an ex (in the US) who she's broken up with. Her name starts with a T, just like the name in the letter. I had even suggested we have a formal introduction next month similar to what the girl in the letter is asking. What are the chances? I am now scared my girlfriend doesnt really like me and just with me because our moms are schoolmates. Or am I being just paranoid? Please listen to this letter and tell me if I should be worried? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1PfwSndiS4 And if it's truly her, should I confront her? Should I discuss first with my mom? |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by julietozy: 11:03am On May 16 |
Paulayor: It's best to just ask her if it's her. Somethings are best not buried. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Asavivian: 11:08am On May 16 |
julietozy: he should speak to his mom first and show her the video. Whether he likes it or not, the parents are in this mess now |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Nkemjoan1a: 11:18am On May 16 |
Paulayor: you're just paranoid. |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Paulayor: 11:54am On May 16 |
Nkemjoan1a: I'm not. There's more details I can provide here but i don't want to cast her publicly. Also, I really care for her. I just want to be sure I'm not the cleanup guy whose is being settled with because her first choice turned her down. |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Tidal23: 12:11pm On May 16 |
I suggest Just playfully ask her and see how she reacts |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Paulayor: 1:37pm On May 16 |
Tidal23: I feel quite awkward bringing it up because once I do, i'm fairly certain my mom will hear about it. I want to get evidence before i confront her. |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by dkidd: 1:49pm On May 16 |
Mthceeew... Oga go gather much evidence before u do the needful. |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by udede(m): 2:27pm On May 16 |
You really need a heart to heart talk with her. This is not something to handle with guesses |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Asavivian: 2:33pm On May 16 |
udede: and you think the girl will come clean?  He is the backup plan and the girl likely is concerned because of their mother's close relationship.... |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by udede(m): 2:37pm On May 16 |
Asavivian:the involvement of the parents is the reason why they need to talk because there is need to stop the wrong expectations from the parents as the relationship is not on the right direction. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by 1000Capacity: 3:01pm On May 16 |
Be bold and ask straight forward questions |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Paulayor: 3:05pm On May 16 |
udede: |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Asavivian: 3:07pm On May 16 |
1000Capacity: He needs to talk to his mom first. His mother can discuss the matter lowkey with the girl's mother to know if there's anything to be worried about. As it stands, he cannot break off things without tangible proof. If he brings it up with the girl, she most likely will lie to him. na my gender. na wetin we dey do. Almost all girls nowadays double dates especially if the other guy is abroad. then they keep a bobo in nigeria for backup just in case abroad guy fcuks up |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by pryme(m): 3:21pm On May 16 |
Paulayor: If you are scared of losing her, not only have you lost her, you have also lost your ability to set boundaries. If this is indeed true how will you put a stop to it when you have lost your balls to make tough decisions (because you are scared she may not like it and that will make her leave). You will never command respect from a woman when you make them feel they are not disposable if they step out of line. You can man up and confront her about it, if she confirms it and don't care what you think (cos she may have sensed you are a biitch ) you tell her you wish her well and break up the relationship. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Eunoiaa(f): 4:00pm On May 16 |
Feels like a thread of alternates responding to themselves. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by meobizy(f): 7:13pm On May 16 |
Eunoiaa:Welcome to Nairaland. Many children here are autistic. Posting comments is their only means of communicating with the outside world. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by YorubaLord: 10:01pm On May 16 |
You should go and do her laundry, make her hair, clean her room and keep begging / worshipping her. OK? Foolish man!  |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by GreenDee(f): 10:38pm On May 16 |
When you start having doubts walk away 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by kevwemike: 3:59am On May 17 |
Let her be, she never get sense, have plans B |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by KingLennon(m): 6:41am On May 17 |
SIMPson disease is worse than covid19  .....Our men are turning into women |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by FRANCISTOWN: 7:39am On May 17 |
Paulayor:If it roared like a lion, walked like a lion and hunted like a lion. It is definitely a lion. |
| Re: I Think My 29 YO Girlfriend Is Still In Love With Her Ex. What Do I Do? by Sanmel(f): 7:48am On May 17 |
meobizy:   |
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