i have been thinking of the above question. please you view

NO STIs Seriously though in this age of STIs (_{especially HIV})(^{Yes HIV is still alive and kicking}) no one should be playing around.

free from STDs

All of ya'l got that right

The benefit i see in staying with one partner is the safety of having ^{and enjoying} unprotected sex without the fear of STIs. Pregnancy is an issue that does not scare me cos am ready to raise a kid

And dont you want to settle? Jumping around with different partners like a he-goat is no good you need someone you can build something with thats my personal opinion to the question.

LadyT:

And dont you want to settle? Jumping around with different partners like a he-goat is no good you need someone you can build something with thats my personal opinion to the question.

Babyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy where u been all these while

1. Peace of Mind.

@ Topic. .from my experience, NONE!!

Just be safe and don't get caught

posakosa:



1. Peace of Mind.

Gba! Chop knuckle

I don tire for woman wahala

If you ever get HIV you'll know exactly who gave you so you can stab him in his sleep.

^^


you can stop playing silly games like playing "hard to get"

MUZBO:

If you ever get HIV you'll know exactly who gave you so you can stab him in his sleep.

hahahahahahhahahahaha!

Ibkaye love, werrin, werrin,

Hey hey hey

Rogo:

i have been thinking of the above question. please you view

u will stay away from tomuch responsibilities
esp. for unstingy guys

It would help reduce the risks of contacting sexually transmitted diseases.

And also keeping to one partner makes you responsible; people won’t see you as a womanizer or a flirt.

do you really have to ask this question

FollyPIMPing this question sef fits you!

Im good darling!

Staying with one partner, doesn't necessary mean that you are free from STDs/STIs, you get whatever that partner gets/has if you have unprotected sex. Secondly, you can't be sure that the other partner is only having sex with you, at which you might think you're sex is safe, but in reality you are sleeping with all the other men and women that person has slept with, because their STDs/STIs will be transfered from them to you through your partner.

If both peopel are free from STDs/STIs and both are loyal then that is the only way to prevent their transfer, as for having no worries, that's also not completely true.

A lot of people have problems within their relationship, sexual and non-sexual.

Ebonyeyes:

NO STIs Seriously though in this age of STIs (_{especially HIV})(^{Yes HIV is still alive and kicking}) no one should be playing around.

sweetmum:

free from STDs

Are the two of you kiddin me?

Are you aware that there are other ways of contracting STI's apart from having sex?

OMO IBO:

Are the two of you kiddin me?

Are you aware that there are other ways of contracting STI's apart from having sex?

Yes sir but the major way of contacting it is through sex.

You'll get ur heart broken without someone else to turn to!!! Disadvantage!!!

A few to consider:

1)God's will, blessings as result
2)Reduced risk of STDs
3)Solidarity
4)Growth
5)Build trust with your partner
6)Pool financial resources

There are many benefits as someone mentioned the most important part for me is that spiritual connection, sharing your life with one partner and connection on an emotional, spiritual and physical level, through the core of your being.  That bond that fidelity and love brings is precious.  I have never wanted to have more than one partner in my life and love the idea of growing old with that man I fell in love with years and years ago. Unfortunately often we are not lucky enough to meet good people and hence you end up having more than one partner in your life.  Personally if I met someone good who I really loved and who loved me. I would marry them and be there for the rest of my life.  I have never cheated either so I only ever have one partner at one time.  I don't believe in cheating, I believe its a negative behaviour pattern which manifests due to poor self control and discipline.  If someone cheats on you its better to move on especially if they are a persistent cheater, if they cheat once in the marriage and relationship maybe you can forgive them but ultimately if they cheat they are devaluing your life as HIV is around and condoms break and are not always safely used so they are putting your life at risk as well as breaking your heart and spirit.  Having one partner is a great concept its the safest, healthiest, least stressful, most logical option in life.

Simply put, no diseases!!!!

Ebonyeyes:

NO STIs Seriously though in this age of STIs (_{especially HIV})(^{Yes HIV is still alive and kicking}) no one should be playing around.

Gbam

@ those saying no STDS, HIV. those are only wishful thinking. it only becomes a reality if the other person is faithful just as you are. so staying with one partner doesnt mean you're free all those, this is only possible when the other person is also faithful and more often than none, this not always the case. the other person could still secretly be cheating on you and still be claiming to be in a monogamous re/ship with you