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--- by nice4life: 11:21pm On Aug 04, 2012
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Re: --- by donlet(m): 11:32pm On Aug 04, 2012
Just be yourself and find a hobby. Although you have to give her enough attention, too much of everything is not good.
Re: --- by omega25red(m): 11:36pm On Aug 04, 2012
how long have you known each other? how old is the relationship? and how long have you been engadged?
Re: --- by Tolaaaaannni(f): 11:41pm On Aug 04, 2012
Oh there are lots of things you can do, Like for example you can find a job, if you already have a job, you can get a hobby, if you already have a hobby, you can hang out with friends, and if you don't have any friends, then you can make friends.

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Re: --- by nice4life: 11:42pm On Aug 04, 2012
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Re: --- by nice4life: 11:42pm On Aug 04, 2012
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Re: --- by Tolaaaaannni(f): 11:43pm On Aug 04, 2012
nice4life: we have known each other for almost a year now. She's been very good and I have no reason to doubt her.But why is that I get sick if I dont hear from her for 24hrs expecially when she is unreachable?
^ It probably means that you are in love with her dude.
Re: --- by nice4life: 11:43pm On Aug 04, 2012
Tolaaaaannni: Oh there are lots of things you can do, Like for example you can find a job, if you already have a job, you can get a hobby, if you already have a hobby, you can hang out with friends, and if you don't have any friends, then you can make friends.

I have a job, a very demanding one at that.I dont usually have this problem during week days but weekend is my trouble.
Re: --- by tellwisdom: 11:53pm On Aug 04, 2012
U never start undecided undecided
Re: --- by omega25red(m): 12:30am On Aug 05, 2012
nice4life: we have known each other for almost a year now. She's been very good and I have no reason to doubt her.But why is that I get sick if I dont hear from her for 24hrs expecially when she is unreachable?
how is she your fiancee in less than a year of knowing each other?

anyway what you are experiencing is love/insecurity/honeymoon phase. Not to be gloomy but that feeling eventually goes away

love- you haven't even made a year so the relationship is still fresh and new

insecurity- this person who you are willing to give yourself to and share your life with is not picking up the phone. immediately you wonder if she is with someone else if she was in a car accident, if she is angry at you etc. you obviously love her more than she loves you (it swings the other way eventually)

honeymoon phase- new relationships go through this phase of no fighting lovey dovey crap. it eventually goes away when you get used to each other and you start noticcing things you can't stand about her.
Re: --- by BecaciaBarbie(f): 12:42am On Aug 05, 2012
Its okay to feel dat way...bt seriously dude, take it really slow. I know u wna call her, txt her, see her, u think abt her every secs, etc bt u need to control ur feelings if not u gna choke her nd wen u do...it might b too late! Make her feel dis same way abt u too...reduce d calls nd sms, i know its hard bt u gotta try. Spend mre time wid peepz nd spend less time alone, nd wen u r at wrk...plz concentrate.

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Re: --- by nice4life: 12:51am On Aug 05, 2012
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Re: --- by Nobody: 2:59am On Aug 05, 2012
Tolaaaaannni: Oh there are lots of things you can do, Like for example you can find a job, if you already have a job, you can get a hobby, if you already have a hobby, you can hang out with friends, and if you don't have any friends, then you can make friends.

lol
Re: --- by NerdyPoet(m): 3:29am On Aug 05, 2012
nice4life: we have known each other for almost a year now. She's been very good and I have no reason to doubt her.But why is that I get sick if I dont hear from her for 24hrs expecially when she is unreachable?
Kai! Na only for nollywood i dey see this kain 'jazz' oooo ...
Errm bro what kind of vegetables did you eat? And have you started washing 'pan.ts' yet?
If you havent started showing these symptoms above, wait till you start showing them then we will readily help ya.
Until then,... Continue 'chopping' vegetables...

Cheers grin grin grin
Re: --- by Nobody: 7:44am On Aug 05, 2012
nice4life: As soon as I hear her voice I will just be fine, can't really explain it.
lol....@post i guess she is your first gf/love. It's nt a bad thing that you just can't control how you feel about her, it happens at one point in our relationships bt with time you wil learn to control what you feel.
Re: --- by Nobody: 7:57am On Aug 05, 2012
omega25red: how is she your fiancee in less than a year of knowing each other?

anyway what you are experiencing is love/insecurity/honeymoon phase. Not to be gloomy but that feeling eventually goes away

love- you haven't even made a year so the relationship is still fresh and new

insecurity- this person who you are willing to give yourself to and share your life with is not picking up the phone. immediately you wonder if she is with someone else if she was in a car accident, if she is angry at you etc. you obviously love her more than she loves you (it swings the other way eventually)

honeymoon phase- new relationships go through this phase of no fighting lovey dovey crap. it eventually goes away when you get used to each other and you start noticcing things you can't stand about her.

Seconded. Absolutely on spot !
Re: --- by ifihearam: 8:00am On Aug 05, 2012
Na wa oooo....less than a year and she be ur fiancee and she doesn't call you?na only you dey call her? You never really start na die you dey so.
Re: --- by Nobody: 8:20am On Aug 05, 2012
Op relax, time will harden you.
Re: --- by Nobody: 9:39am On Aug 05, 2012
op, probabely you are been infatuated by a sterling quality or feature she possesses. Dont worry sooner than later,those trappings she evidently hypnotised you with shall diminish and then afterward logical reasoning will prevail to make you act sanely.
For now even the advices here wont change your mindset.

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Re: --- by pendo89(f): 9:48am On Aug 05, 2012
ok this is what,

next time you speak, record! talk all the sweet nothings and record.
that will save u lots of airtime.
Re: --- by Nobody: 10:00am On Aug 05, 2012
Over-pamper..
When she starts acting unfriendly now, u'll b crying...
U dun spoil her, even if u were on a risky journey... She'll not call to know if u ® still alive...



What u should do... Record ur fone conversations... And listen to dem in idle times.

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Re: --- by cindyrella(f): 10:11am On Aug 05, 2012
You need to visit a Babalawo fast!
Re: --- by greedie1(f): 10:27am On Aug 05, 2012
G.star:
Over-pamper..
When she starts acting unfriendly now, u'll b crying...
U dun spoil her, even if u were on a risky journey... She'll not call to know if u ® still alive...



What u should do... Record ur fone conversations... And listen to dem in idle times.
wow...i lyk dis, ll try it

@op, u ve to control ur feelings, if u dont she may start taking u 4 granted. Make her miss u as much as u miss her.
Re: --- by Nobody: 10:46am On Aug 05, 2012
gree-die:

wow...i lyk dis, ll try it

@op, u ve to control ur feelings, if u dont she may start taking u 4 granted. Make her miss u as much as u miss her.



smiley
Re: --- by Nobody: 10:51am On Aug 05, 2012
Wow incredible advices here, no wonder relationships keep failing..
@op
there is absolutely nothing wrong with the way u feel.
The question is, does she feel the same way about u
Love is a natural feeling sometimes it overwhelms us and make us look as if we are losing our minds, but then again that is the beauty of being in love. Take your time and enjoy the feelings, u will soon come back to reality,
But that doesn't mean u would stop being caring, it just means you would not feel sick even if u don't hear from her.
Again don't listen to folks who are trying to make u look stupid for being in love, they wish they were in your shoes.

And one thing is this, no matter how beautiful it is now, expect issues to arise, but be prepared to deal with them the best way u know how to.
Wish u and her all the best.
Re: --- by NwaTeacher1: 10:57am On Aug 05, 2012
Guy u should be very careful and know how to sort urslf out of dz problem. Ur in a very big problem because the worst thing that can happen in a man life is letting a woman know dat u can't do without her. She will test you and mess u up because no mata what, women are enemy to men. ADAM AND EVE 4 example. Amend ur ways guy and go on with ur life
Re: --- by ayobase(m): 5:25pm On Aug 05, 2012
Tolaaaaannni: Oh there are lots of things you can do, Like for example you can find a job, if you already have a job, you can get a hobby, if you already have a hobby, you can hang out with friends, and if you don't have any friends, then you can make friends.

''ti a ba so oko soja, ara ile eni lo nba''
So, u r in suport!
Re: --- by sucezTP(f): 5:26pm On Aug 05, 2012
Kingsleyinfo: Wow incredible advices here, no wonder relationships keep failing..
@op
there is absolutely nothing wrong with the way u feel.
The question is, does she feel the same way about u
Love is a natural feeling sometimes it overwhelms us and make us look as if we are losing our minds, but then again that is the beauty of being in love. Take your time and enjoy the feelings, u will soon come back to reality,
But that doesn't mean u would stop being caring, it just means you would not feel sick even if u don't hear from her.
Again don't listen to folks who are trying to make u look stupid for being in love, they wish they were in your shoes.

And one thing is this, no matter how beautiful it is now, expect issues to arise, but be prepared to deal with them the best way u know how to.
Wish u and her all the best.

Hmm, i will go with dse!
Re: --- by ayobase(m): 5:26pm On Aug 05, 2012
nice4life: we have known each other for almost a year now. She's been very good and I have no reason to doubt her.But why is that I get sick if I dont hear from her for 24hrs expecially when she is unreachable?

Do u wanna be sick?
Re: --- by ayobase(m): 5:27pm On Aug 05, 2012
tellwisdom: U never start undecided undecided

LOL!
So e dey happen to u too!
Re: --- by ayobase(m): 5:29pm On Aug 05, 2012
pendo89: ok this is what,

next time you speak, record! talk all the sweet nothings and record.
that will save u lots of airtime.

Wa sere.....just play d damn thing and ease the tension!
Hmmmm!

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