I'm sorry is so easy to write, hard to say, and incredibly painful to feel. Compared to feeling truly sorry, writing it and saying it looks & feels so inadequate.If I had never said I was sorry, and if I do not act as though I'm sorry in everyday life and especially how I treat you, writing this letter would mean nothing. In fact, under tose conditions, a mere letter would infuriate you.In light of all this, I am more than confident of the sorrow I feel, that it shows and I have to continue to tell you I am sorry. So hopefully this letter only reinforces what is continually being expressed. My ultimate goal is to make you know that I am sorry (although I could never fully show you), by the way I live.I'm sorry for so many things, I'm sorry for letting you down.

You beleived in me, I'm sorry for ruining your belief. For taking things that you were sure of , that I made you sure of, and turning them upside down.I'm sorry for killing your good friend. The guy you confided in. The man you could go and talk to about something that upset you. The one you would call on when no one else would do. The one youshared yourself with. The one you were a freind to. "I'm sorry" doesn;t come close to how I feel for changing "I do" to "I didn't". i'll be shedding tears in my grave that only God will see.

I know this because my sorrow has buried me six feet in a casket made of regret, in a box where light and air is no more. A prisioner of the past. And everyday I am there now, And God sees the tears. And everytime I take a peak out above the ground, I see a tombstone with your name on it. And the only thing worse than being where I am is knowing where you are and knowing that I put you there.I am sorry that I separted you from your friend, the one who loved you, was commited and dedicated to you. The one you were commited to and dedicated to. The one you stayed faithful to.I'm sorry the person who cared for me, the person I love, I hurt more than anyone I've ever hurt in the world. I'm sorry for every time during the day and night you think about what I've done. I'm sorry for every tear you shed because i never paid any anttenton to you, No matter what I now say and do, you know I let you down in the worst possible way. I'm sorry that there are no words to soothe your pain, no magic wand to change the past

I'm sorry that you ever have any thoughts at all that you are not the right woman for me. I hate that. I know they are very painful thoughts for you to have.I'm sorry I ever gave any hint or suggestion that I was interested in anything other than you.I'm sorry that I dug a hole and put you in it and took away your light and air. I'm sorry that I at least temporiraly ruined what we have,I'm sorry for the doubt you feel in everything I say or do. I'm sorry you dont feel confident or secure in a future. I'm sorry your not enjoying the simple pleasures you normally would, spending time enjoying thing you normally wouldI'm sorry for everyday of our lives that I wasn't a better man, that I didn't treat you right, didn't talk to you right, didn't uphold you,support you, lift you up, give you hope make you know how special you are, every day I didn't somehow inspire you by my deeds to be a better person yourself.

I'm sorry for every tim e I've ever hurt you. I'm sorry for not saying the right thing, thinking of you in little ways that would make you happy. I'm sorry for every moment you don't enjoy life because of the misery I've caused. I'm sorry, so sorry, for every moment you've had to feel, hurt, lonely, abandoned, crushed, defeted, lost, helpless, hopless, disgusted, discounted, forgotten, spit on, punched, kicked, laughed at, put down, beat up, broken, cheap, neglected, run over, spun around, disoriented, left out, depressed, sad, tearful, angry, bitter, etc

I'm sorry I borke my promise to you. I'm sorry I didn't do what I promised. I'm sorry I wasn't man enough, wasn't good enough, didn't have character enough, strength enough, courage enough, belief enough, perserverence enough to do the things I said I would. I'm sorry I've failed at being a friend, boyfirned,fiance and also an human being. I'm sorry when I wake up, when I work, when I play, when I eat, when I fast, when I pray, when I laugh, when I cry, when I'm alone, when I'm with you, when I talk, when I am silent. I'm sorry when I run, when I walk, rest, think, meditate, listen, understand, when I don't understand, when I hope, when I fear, when I'm in despair, when I'm uplifted, I am sorry when you do all these things, when you anthing, when you do nothing, I am sorry

I am sorry right now. I will be sorry tommorow and eferyday and night after tommorrow, through sunshine, rain, every season, every year, every moment, every breath, I will always be sorry until God Himslef wipes away every tear. I am sorry that if I run over a mountain, or wim an ocean, I can't change what I've done and what it's done to you, but i do know i can make amends and make things better and promise to keep and abide by the promises i already made to you as well as renew them to you

It's ok my dear .






TEMI where are you oooooo ?

eyah

O boy, you be devil?wetin u neva sori 4?i de fear o.

@yorke

not anywere near that all i she said i did was i didnt pay attention to her, as she haas been fighting for attention for 1month as she feels she is competing with a house project i we have at hand at the min.

When you were doing it were you drunk? Now you are coming to say sorry!

@ujujoan

i wasnt drunk. dere is distance btw us as am currently rounding up my studies in uk, and working at same time as well as trying to complete a house project that we are both going to live in. so dont cruicify me abeg.

you murderd person? chineke i fear o wetin be this please go and report yourself and hand yourself over to the police abi i no read am right?

NL na joke land ooo.

@Whiterose which one be police matter for this one? oh boy, good you know how to say sorry because sorry seems to be a very hard word and make sure say na genuine sorry oh,no be the one when you go say finish,run back to your vomit like Dog.

@Temi sorry hen,I plead with this guy oh!

@uju, please get a life! since u are so good at pointing out how much men suck, why dont you get married to a female?

@poster although we dont know the gravity of your mistake, the real deal will be to never ever let yourself make this same mistake again.you seem like a good person, and i would hate that she looks @ ur mistake and overlooks your personality.take kia of ur woman, she's all u've got.

sorry isnt goin to change anything is it the damage is already done!

whiteroses:

you murderd person? chineke i fear o wetin be this please go and report yourself and hand yourself over to the police abi i no read am right?

The poster already has a sory trust fund running for him. All the sorrys he will ever need has already been said.

@OP

What if ur TEMI says NO?_{painful truth!}. . .What next?

sorry isnt goin to change anything is it   the damage is already done[/font]!  

Oyinbo to se pencil lo se erazer. the damage can still be corrected jare.

Temi abeg no vex jare

@poster

Well written if they are really ur words and you are not coping/pasting for us

@Topic
Is Temi here on nairaland? if so i hope she reads and accept your sorry
otherwise, am wondering if u wnat us to take msg to her wherever she is.

ok ohhhhhhhhhh

this poster is looking for sympathy, a poser, talking about him being in UK, buinding a house etc, to what end is all this if i may ask? You repeated the word "I'm sorry" several times yet never explained what you actually did wrong, all this so that the soft hearted ladies on here would actually class you as a real man, one who knows how to use the word sorry! schewwwwwwwwwwwww abeg go drink water

Reminds me of the book So Long A Letter by Mariam Ba.

Hmm, this threat at the home page

guy what did u do?

to those that share my plight thanks

to those that want to know wot i did, i didnt, kill or cheat or do anything unheard of, all i did was neglect her for 1month and kept talking about something else withouth caring how she felt or was doing. up to the extent she told me she had a headache and i said ok and forgot to say sorry because i am occupied with sumthing else.

and yes there are true words which i wrote myself, not looking for sympathy neither am i looking for support or trying to play cool. she comes on here sometimes and am using every means possible to say sorry to her.  since i cant look at her and tell her face 2 face in person. 

when you love someone so much that you will do anything and everything for them and he/she is also willing to do eanything for you. when you hurt their feelings no amount of words can be enough to say ow sorry you are which is my case.

u b aye, y d axeman?

@just1

which kind question be dat naaa. abeg ooo. na username be dat oo

Abegiii!maq we hear word for hia!First off,please modify ur topic,i have seen several blunders on here but  'Sincerely apologies' is totally unacceptable.I'l get back to this issue when i have the time to read thru ur epistle

@cold

we all make mistakes while typing. especially with a clouded mind. thanks for your observation.

semid4lyfe:

Reminds me of the book So Long A Letter by Mariam Ba.

I read that when I was young.

@ axeman: Guy, I didn't bother to read ur epistle, but from the inference I've drawn from replies, u seem to be saying sorry a lot without really shedding light on what went down, although I believe I saw neglect on ur part as one of the reasons why u're having issues with ur babe.

My advice is. . . change ur attitude and while u are @ it change that silly username! What kinda responsible guy goes around bearing axeman

e don do now. oya sorry you are forgiven.

spoilt:

e don do now. oya sorry you are forgiven.

dont mind the guy he's looking 4 attention/sympathy, just read his reason for sayng sorry 1 million time, very petty,

@kenny g

if i needed attention i have better ways of getting it. as i said i dont need sympathy or asking for any from shallow minded individuals like you.  notwithstanding thanks for taking time to reply.

@positivity

thats actually a memorable name i could think of at when i signed up on nairaland.  but the name has nothing to do with my character.

Wat stops u from saying sorry on a face 2 face level. if i were 2 b d woman, dis is totally unacceptable. so try again.

@ poster ,sorry to say but u are one of those on NL that bores me with ur pointless NOVEL.