heartofcity12:
One of their “hustles” in acquiring iPhones..

Smartb0y:

Marriage is scam in this century.

Learn or get burned.

Most men sacrifice just end up in the trash can.

Chai, life's not balanced at all.

Smartb0y:

I guess it's safe to say simps are not mentally stable🤣

Guess that's why they literally kill their long term investment when it backfires against them.

Smartb0y:


Someone's serious girlfriend 🤣.

Nigerian girls hypergamy is maximally charged 🤣

heartofcity12:
Don’t pedestalize

Uptheante:

This seems entirely true on paper, but in reality, women also Bleep those considered to be below them in status.
For example, a rich man's wife bleeping her gateman or driver, without her husband's notice.
Meanwhile, the rich husband with high status may be denied sex by her or he gets it from her reluctantly

I don't know if this picture I've painted invalidates or makes your assertion not to be entirely true.

Can you pls explain why this scenario happen?

heartofcity12:
It’s genuine high interest or nothing #trp

heartofcity12:
Apt 💯

Uptheante:

This seems entirely true on paper, but in reality, women also Bleep those considered to be below them in status.
For example, a rich man's wife bleeping her gateman or driver, without her husband's notice.
Meanwhile, the rich husband with high status may be denied sex by her or he gets it from her reluctantly

I don't know if this picture I've painted

invalidates or makes your assertion not to be entirely true.

Can you pls explain why this scenario happen?

Smartb0y:

Bro the game is way deeper than that.

Women want both security and fun.

They always want to eat their cake and have it.

Not many men fall into the niche of having both the good and bad characteristics.
It's mostly either one or the other.

So women being women will always crave that bad guy once she's settled down.

Understand that most married women are bored and miserable. That's why they cheat alot.

You don't hear news about married women as much as men cuz they're supposed to be responsible in marriage else they lose their security/comfort.

She might secretly crave that bad young broke guy for fun because she already has security.

She doesn't need security from the broke guy just fun.

No man wants a slut for a wife,no man ever wants to share the Pvssy,hence why women hide and do their shit codedly else it's back to square one.

There's nothing a woman does that's not beneficial to her.

Philosopher1979:


Paternity fraud will expose all that nonsense. Honestly there is something wrong with this gender on a general level. I sometimes I don't blame bad boys for maltreatingbthem. They seem superficial, childish, selfish and average.
They deserved the bad boy that maltreatment them as they can be narcissistic

Martinez39s:
I always tell guys to stop upgrading women and investing so much in them and their growth all in the name of romantic relationship. Women are not good investments in this regard, deal with it. Leave her at the level you found her, e her why; take what you want and shift her aside, simple. What men are usually looking for in relationships can be gotten without relationship so why single out one woman, accord more regard to her by committing to her, invest and spend on her and start doing serious boyfriend-girlfriend stuff for many months or few years? Kilode? What special and meaningful thing men usually think they have in relationships are usually lies, assumptions, illusions, blissful ignorance or overrated śhits.

That's just my take. I am mostly referring to conventional romantic relationships.

Martinez39s:
Exactly!

A particular redpiller of YouTube once told a story of how he lost his job back then because during break, he drove all the way to fuçk a particular girl and arrived late at work. It is sexual incontinence that will make a lecturer put himself in a sex-for-mark scandal and tarnish his image all because of five-minute pleasure. Let's not talk about how many pastors it has put in trouble. I could write much more, but let me stop here.

It will always pass. Most times a lady is sexy and hot to a man just because the man is heavily barraged by konji. It after the sexual encounter that he experiences post-nut clarity and he realizes what a foòl he has been. Most times, the fantasy you have built up in your head about a lady and the assumptions you've made about how good you will enjoy her in bed is never met in reality; it is then men think "it wasn't as good as I hoped", "her puśsy stinks", "she is actually lazy in bed", "her pùssy isn't as tight as I thought", etc.

No one should be fooled that a man must release. No one should be fooled that it is impossible to effortlessly subdue your urges. I used to think like this, but I have proven myself wrong with practice. There is nothing there, the urges come and go.

heartofcity12:
Lol..

heartofcity12:
It’s funny how they think every man is interested in them..

heartofcity12:
It’s funny how they think every man is interested in them..

Martinez39s:
Unfortunately, many men will never learn. They think having millions of dollars is the cure all to every issue they could have with women from approaching women to having sex with any women they want to winning women's hearts and loyalty. What a grim misapprehension.
— Johnny Depp got burnt with Amber Heard (despite evidence coming out that Amber was the abuser, the media remains silent, Amber is still treated as the victim, and nothing has been done to recoup the damages done to Johnny by Amber's false accusations);
— Brad Pitt's riches didn't spear him;
— 52 year old Pamela Anderson, an advocate of men and four time divorcee with children, recently got married to 72 year old rich man Jon Peters after proposing to the rich simp foolish enough to wife a 50+ post wall thot. After 12 days, she ended the marriage when the simp paid off her $200,000 debt;
— Did Prince Harry's wealth make him alpha?

I could list many cases of brutal divorce rape among celebrities. Having money does not make one alpha. Riches just makes one a target. Riches makes one tantamount to a winning mega lottery ticket in the eyes of these höes. Many rich men's wife are cheating on them with the gate man, driver, his friends, brothers, strangers etc. Many rich men are raising kids that ain't theirs. Many rich simps are marrying used up products and single mothers. Being rich won't spare anyone from female nature and the blue pill mindset. Good luck to those that think riches will make them alpha. Many rich men are disgraceful simps.

ubunja:
the more brutal you are with women they more they come to you. Because as much as love is about romance and all that sweet stuff, the pussy only gets wet when dealing with a cold motherfucker. Be cold. You'll never starve for sex. Be romantic and you'll be friendzoned. Girls want romance but when they wanna marry but they wanna marry when they're done with the fvckers.

Stay sharp. Stay cold. Stay winning.

Martinez39s:

^{NB: my write-up applies especially to spinning plates and maintaining rotation; you know, when it is all about lust and fùcks. To a good extent, it can also be applied to serious relationships and marriage since your respect, your frame and sexual attraction from your woman are important components of the dynamics.}

I might want to add some clarification for the sake of discussion. First of all, I COULD BE WRONG, sajmark was probably not referring to marriage; you know most people, even I, in this country use "relationship" and "marriage" differently. Na so e be for naija and some parts of the world even though marriage is also a relationship. That being said, l move to want to duscuss.

If you have been simping (especially big-time simping) to a woman; if you have been a confirmed beta to a woman; if you have defied certain red pill principles to the detriment of her attraction towards you (eg crying, telling her your emotional problems); and she has "seen you finish," your simp/beta status is indelibly registered in her psyche. It will be impossible for her to perceive you as an alpha again and yield positively to your red pill/alpha moves. When you try to make alpha moves, she sees you as a beta who is acting a borrowed script and trying to be what you are not; as a result, she will perceive that you are manipulatively playing a game on her or, precisely put, trying to play a smart one on her and cross your boundaries. Your new efforts will fail for two simple reasons:

(1)  Your past beta self has become your identity and innate personality to her so that it now comes across as unbelievable and fake when you gyrate like an alpha and make red pill/alpha moves. She won't buy it. You are forever a turn-off. You simply can't command from her the respect, willing compliance, genuine desire (aka lust), and sexual openness an alpha commands. This is why in order to experience profound and maximum success in your new red pill awareness in all these aspects, starting afresh is your best and easiest option. If you apply red pill newly with that female you have done all those beta, simpish and nonredpill stuffs for and it is not working, move along and don't stress yourself. Women plenty.

(2) Female ego naturally won't condone succumbing to what she perceives as tricks and fakery coming from a man she perceives as a simp and beta in and out. Women take glory in playing the simp/beta, not the other way round. Women are wired to only willingly succumb and yield sexually to the man who she thinks is naturally an alpha, a man who naturally "gets it" and who she thinks have alpha/red pill sharpness and qualities in his DNA and isn't faking it. This can be called a natural feminine fantasy since no man is natural endowed with red pill awareness at birth and such has to be acquired with experience and exposure. As a result of this, women will willingly give the pùssy to, yield to and break rules for the alpha guy in whom she has seen no traces simping and weakness. He, unlike the beta and simp, gets the utmost sexual openness and her hòe side without much effort and spending a penny... genuine desire (aka unalloyed lust). This is why first impression matters and would set the tone of the encounter. This is why in order to experience profound and maximum success in your new red pill awareness, starting afresh is your best option.

Remember, only alphas can succeed with alpha moves. Betas can't get away with or succeed in making alpha moves; they will meet failure and stiff resistance from females who have seen them as betas.

My point in (2) is the reason why some guys would have noticed something: when you are running game on women and things are going smoothly, everything goes south when she discovers that you are watching and reading red pill contents and materials. In her mind, she is like "He is probably a beta and not a born alpha who naturally "gets it, hence he depends on online help and tricks from others to teach it game and manly frame. He has probably been tricking me and faking it all along and he isn't a natural alpha." She would lose interest rather than risk being a "victim" of the tricks and fakery of a beta and simp; she wouldn't risk it or give you benefit of doubt as her ego is at stake.

This is why many redpillers will advice you to never tell a female you are gaming that you are learning and consuming red pill contents and materials (online or offline). Don't let her see you reading or watching them or find out by any means that you are consuming them. Seal your mouth from using terms that shows your are learning of consuming red pill. Hide your red pill books and sources. Instead, be silent about your red pill awareness and let your actions speak for you from the first impression so that it looks as if they come naturally to you. This will make things easier for you and, sometimes, even less likely for her to intercept, anticipate or be aware of what is going on while she is focused on dealing with the alpha. She won't fear any beta tricks since she thinks you are a natural and she will drop her guard and yield

Let's say you have read the The 48 Laws of Power. Someone who has read The 48 Laws of Power ....

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Martinez39s:
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Let's say you have read the The 48 Laws of Power. Someone who has read The 48 Laws of Power will have success implementing what he has read against others and even against you to some extent if you are unaware of his knowledge (sometimes we losen up and don't always analyse, read meaning into and suspect everything; and we don't remember vividly all we've read). However when that person tells you he/she has read the book, you become alert and might find yourself reading meanings in his/her action to see where he/she is possibly applying these laws... and you wouldn't want to fall for his/her "tricks (who would?). If the person has been pulling such moves on or plans to pull such, you are more likely to notice it. You see him/her in a slightly more machiavellian light than before, unlike when you thought he/she was a bit clueless and being honest in some of their actions. Sometimes, even when they are not pulling any "tricks" from that book and doing things honestly, you are still reading certain unnecessary intents to their actions and speeches. This analogy shows you additional effects (additional to the previous paragraph) of letting a woman know your source.

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The notable exceptions to my write-up are as follows:
(1) if she has no other options and your association with her is very beneficial (especially financially), you can leverage on this to make some rules and put her bullcraps in check. However, she will yield unwillingly because it ensures the benefits, but her pùssy won't get wet for you ever again. Showing her sexual best to you and doing the nasty stuffs —that she would have willing done to the alpha— will be unavailable to you; you are a turn-off.

If left to her, she would have distanced herself from you sexually and still want the benefits. The difference between you and the perceived natural alpha is that she yields to him of her own accord and readily makes herself available because he inspires genuine desire and her feelings are involved. Your leverage (the benefits) can only go so far.  Genuine desire can't be negotiated. To experience profound and maximum success in your new red pill awareness IN ALL ASPECTS, starting afresh is the only way.

(2) If you made all these mistakes as a little kid in school and many years elasped before you met again; you can create a new impression. If the simping was minimal and wasn't a big-time, blatant mistake, the better chances you have at correcting them.
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I am not advocating divorce or the dissolution of your relationship. I am just reporting on how I see things. Even in marriage and relationships, there are things that you do that will irreversibly damage sexual attraction from your woman and level of respect as a alpha; despite this, relationships and marriages still continue despite the damaged because of financial benefits from the man, investments, convenience and diminished options. Heck, even betas are married to women who don't find them attractive and worthy of respect, but they move along because he has the benefits she married him for. A lot of husbands have lasting marriages, but they will never get to the sexual results and unalloyed lust from their wives that an alpha has gotten and can get from her. A woman's heart and pùssy can desire someone else, but she will endure a lifelong marriage if it benefits her.

I am just reporting as I know things are.

I welcome counter opinions; let's compare notes. I am forever opening to learning and reorientation.

CaveAdullam:


Women's pride lies in the number of attention they receive from men.

1. I have observed that women these days will not hesitate to give out their numbers to guys because they see these guys as potential recruits into their hordes of chasers. The only way to sit on top of their list is if from the beginning you already titillated her hypergamy, acted as some interesting movie about to happen, and show intentions of spoiling her with fun and excitement. On a general note, these women just feel like veterans of war because men do chase them.

2. The good side to these chasers is that they are not after defending or protecting her but to fvck her like other men and move on. But the downside is that these guys end up throwing their time, energy, attention, and resources down the drain to please her; some end up being friend-zoned, some manipulated and others jettisoned along the way.

3. If we should observe this photo clearly, there is a higher probability that the man feeding her with his cum/seeds is not on that list, the guys on that list are just chasers wanting their fill. Let's go a little bit deeper:

A. All women have that one specific man they love with all their heart, with all their might, with all their mind, and with all their life. The funniest thing is that this man can either be rich or poor, but take it that every woman has that particular man she wants to spend her life with.

B. Despite the aforementioned, she may still cheat on that man she claimed she loves so dearly. However, whomever she cheats with is her golden calf and not her god (take the Israelites of the Bible as an example).

That's why a woman will still stay congealed to her broke boyfriend while leeching on a 7+ figure earning dude. Alright, it is hypergamy.

However, a man should know that if her woman behaves like this, it is not love but a lustful passion - Job's wife. Because like Job in the Holy Bible, true love endures pains, agony, wilderness, stress, darkness, and despondency and in the end comes out refined. True love is Sarah, following Abraham through thick and thin. True love is Job staying faithful to his God. Or, the disciples of Christ staying faithful to the gospel even unto martyrdom.

4. This myriad of attention from men makes them feel a sense of worth, howbeit, one is based on nothing and no achievement save beauty and physique. Their ego and entitlement mentality increases along this line because they feel that if they truly have nothing to offer why are men queuing up in their numbers just to have them? This is what I call the attention deceit: thinking you are important because of the circle of attraction towards you which is way similar to the Dunning-Kruger effect.

5. It is this attention deceit that has kept women where they are and not any patriarchal oppression. Being associated with a king doesn't make you king, queens are not kings. These women think they are like men or even better than men because men chase them 24/7 unrelenting - testosterone doing nature's work to the detriment of men who can't simply place their hands on their libido.

6. There is no possible way this rabbit hole can't lead us to CHOSEN VS COLD APPROACH. We are here again. If she chose you she won't list you among the numbers of tasty men who want a drip of her pvssy juice. She will want to protect you and her interest. Notwithstanding, with a good game, cold approaching can segregate you from the hordes.

7. Summarily, any woman that act this way, telling the world of the number of men that chase her (it may even be that some of these men just want to help her/friendship) is truly deluded, and has a low sense of worth, and should not be taken seriously. She's but for sexual gratification.

On the other hand, guys should calm down and look out for girls that show genuine interest in them, even if it is just 1 girl in a year or two...forget beauty and class, I know you will be judged by the kind of woman you are with especially when it comes to beauty and class, but women are lurking around to have you. Use these women as samples to experiment and understand women and up your game/life from there. She may even up her game because she wants to secure you.

The time you will use in chasing women around should be saved in doing something more productive. It is only through genuine interest a man can understand how far a woman can go when she's crazy in love. Dealing with the wrong women or chasing women all-around has its potential lessons, however, it comes with painful stings and is not enjoyable.

Without further ado: DAY 164, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Genuine desire.

Cc. AIhabaze, food is ready. Yummy!

ubunja:
they're fighting for their interests. For to acknowledge the red pill will mean they must stop being hoes, in other words they must say NO to casual sex with multiple men. Thats a tall order. Women love sex.
What men must do is we must double our efforts to make sure none of our gender is exploited. This is the very meaning of the gender war.

Dealing with hoes is not wrong but committing to hoes is wrong. You can't be paying top dollar for something trashy jerks have been getting for free for a decade.If only the average man can see the shenanigans the average girl gets up to between the ages of 17 and 27ish, guys wouldn't be too quick to dismiss our message of being selective.
Anyone who has gone to college or university knows what girls get up to while their male coursemates are struggling to get even a proper GF.

Smartb0y:

Very delusional gender.

Their narcissistic nature doesn't allow them see their own shortcomings.

A guy that can never and will never be interested in you, you're there hyping yourself

ubunja:
yes, men can turn down sex due to self-control and morality issues. That's commendable. The "but" here is that no man must think doing so has a bearing on how women view him. As concerning value and worth.
Because at the end how it plays out is That pucc you're passing on to appear special/different from other men, the lady is just going to take it to another guy! Usually some guy who's always available for quick cheap no-stress sex. Some guys just make it so hard and complicated to give them sex girls simply stop offering.

I'm sure we've all heard of a situation where some morally upright gentleman of a guy had a lady always visiting him acting funny for him but the guy was always "controlling" himself until the lady gave up, stopped visiting and somehow ended up getting pregnant for some clown.
What the gentleman did is really not playing hard to get in the dating sense, he just missed opportunities.

Okay let's switch genders for better clarity.

How does a woman play hard to get?

We go back to the foundation of male/female dynamics: Men love sex, Women love money. Men want sex, Women want money.

A woman then plays hard to get by being stingy with SEX. Cause sex is what men want.
While a man plays hard to get by being stingy with LOVE aka commitment, cause that's what women want.

A man doesn't play hard to get by refusing sex just as a woman doesn't play hard to get by refusing love/commitment/money. A man takes the sex but refuses to give the woman that one thing she wants (love/commitment/money) -that's him playing hard to get. Because until a man is in love or committed the woman hasn't actually got him.

Same way,,, a woman takes the love, commitment and money that's offered to her but denies men that one thing they all want: sex. Cause until a woman has given a man sex, the man hasn't actually got anything worthwhile from the woman. He hasn't yet "got" the woman.
The moment of truth for women is when a man finally commits. And the moment of truth for men is when a woman finally gives sex.

If you're a woman it doesn't matter if Davido or Chris Brown wants to sleep with you. What matters is Do they want to commit?Do they want to marry you? That's the question cause that's what really determines your worth IN THEIR EYES. Being good enough for sex is inferior. Being good enough to committment is superior. Its when a man commits that you have got got him.

That's why when a woman cheats a man's first question is "Did you sleep with him?" Cause for men there's nothing serious until sex happens.
And when a man cheats women's first question is "Do you love her?" Cause women understands that men will fucc anything, its when a man commits that things become serious.

Men and women are looking at sex and love from opposing sides, so what they value, what they see as valuable, is also opposed.

When a girl tells her friends "Moses loves me!" What do the friends ask? They ask, "What has he done for you?!"
Meanwhile, if a guy tells his friends, "Dorothy loves me!" They're going to ask "Did she let you smash?"

Which is to say, A woman can't say "Moses loves me cause he had sex with me". Not really, cause sex is not something men control. Just as a man can't say,"Dorothy loves me cause she bought me this and that". Cause a womans commitment is worthless. As long as he hasn't smashed Dorothy, his friends can't really be convinced Dorothy loves him. Cause the only thing of value Dorothy has is the pucc. Until she puts that on the table, she's holding back.

All this is to illustrate both men and women understand the "moment of Truth" concerning each gender. A woman can't use commitment to show a guy she loves him, just as much as a man can't use sex to show a woman he loves her. Women express love by sex, men express love by commitment. Hence that woman who's hard to fucc is the woman everyone fights for cause she has value.Just like that man who's hard to commit is the man everyone fights for cause he has value.
Which brings us full circle back to the virgin and the Bad boy as the most valuable in the dating field.

Martinez39s:
Exactly!

A particular redpiller of YouTube once told a story of how he lost his job back then because during break, he drove all the way to fuçk a particular girl and arrived late at work. It is sexual incontinence that will make a lecturer put himself in a sex-for-mark scandal and tarnish his image all because of five-minute pleasure. Let's not talk about how many pastors it has put in trouble. I could write much more, but let me stop here.

It will always pass. Most times a lady is sexy and hot to a man just because the man is heavily barraged by konji. It after the sexual encounter that he experiences post-nut clarity and he realizes what a foòl he has been. Most times, the fantasy you have built up in your head about a lady and the assumptions you've made about how good you will enjoy her in bed is never met in reality; it is then men think "it wasn't as good as I hoped", "her puśsy stinks", "she is actually lazy in bed", "her pùssy isn't as tight as I thought", etc.

No one should be fooled that a man must release. No one should be fooled that it is impossible to effortlessly subdue your urges. I used to think like this, but I have proven myself wrong with practice. There is nothing there, the urges come and go.