advanceDNA:
Werey ..whats wrong with u women and over entitlement

.oloshó dey form love and monogamy with client sugar daddy....

What did u think was going to happen with AA sugar daddy?? Will he adopt u ??

EreluRoz:
Stop being quick to call her olosho, the sugar daddy deceived her. Most of these married men are very sweet talkers and if you are not careful you'll fall helplessly in love with them. She made a mistake sha

CSBN:
I need your advice on how to pay this man back. I am 30 years old now, I started dating this married man 4 years ago when I was 26, at first he told me that he was divorced, so that was the more reason why I accepted him. About two years later, I found out that he was still with his wife.
So, I confronted him, but he apologized with an iPhone 13 and promised not to let his wife know about our affair. This man has been really helpful to me, he takes care of all my needs. All this while he begged me not to date anybody apart from him, that he will provide everything that other men will give me.
Although, he has kept to his words. I don't lack anything at all. But something happened recently, and I cried my eyes out. Last weekend when he came over to my place, that was when he told me his intention to relocate outside Nigeria with his family permanently, their papers are ready, and I need to move on with my life, and look for a man because he wouldn't want his attention to be divided anymore, he needs to focus on his family. These were his words to me. After that, he sent me one million naira as a payoff.
I feel really hurt because all these years I never dated anyone else not even a single male friend. Where do I start from to start looking for a boyfriend that will take me seriously? Baba, I feel used, I was very very faithful to him...
I am thinking of reaching out to his wife because I took her number from his phone long ago. Or use a parody account to chat her up on Facebook.
- What do you think?
- Please what do I do?

EreluRoz:
Stop being quick to call her olosho, the sugar daddy deceived her. Most of these married men are very sweet talkers and if you are not careful you'll fall helplessly in love with them. She made a mistake sha

martinmiller:
In my Ex voice: married men know how to take care of women 💃

Me: what do you mean?
Ex: He spends lavishly on me and begs me with gifts

Me: what is your goal, do you want to marry him?
Ex: I'm sure he will marry me, the wife resides in the US with kids.

Me: what are you contributing to his growth?
Ex: hmm, nothing asides from sex, I cook and run errands sometimes to but his a lover fogerrit.

Me: do you love him?
Ex: yes I do/I'm sure he loves me too

Me: the truth is he doesn't love you, his only using you, wake up.
Ex: that's not true, he promises to take me abroad and also open a shop for me.

You see this female factor they are the most confusing gender I have ever seen. All this brouhaha, lovey-dovey usually ends in premium tears. Now she's 38, used and dump. What next?

MrBrownJay1:


- you guys had a deal...he did his part and you did yours. why you now suddenly want to scatter his marriage?
- how you want to look for a BF to take you seriously when you've allowed a married man to use you like a useless 2nd hand car?
- when he was heating on his wife with you and taking care of you, you had no problems, but now you wanna call his wife? do you even know how stupid you sound? this wife will tell you to fukc off (and she will be right because you are only mad because he finally got rid of you)

many of you low life deluded women (who are side hookups but want to act as if you were the wife) allow some yeye h0rny deceitful man to use and abuse you because of Iphone 13 and upkeep, and think you are clever, while its the rich married ignoramus that is winning, not you. if you were ever worthy in his eyes, he would have done you right (aka divorce his wife and make a lifetime commitment towards you by MARRYING YOU

Gerrard59:
She is clearly not the bright type. The bright ones satisfy the man, earn a good income and while at it, get married to an ignorant young man AND keep the sugar daddy in the loop for side income and sex. The ones who don't get married early enough ensure the sugar daddy takes total care of their needs and sponsors their siblings in either education or business and if they wish to relocate, the sugar daddy funds the entire process. Those who decide not to relocate get dem daddies to purchase properties, cars and other investments in their own names. The ones who don't want to get married now retire as feminazis on TwitterNG where they abuse younger men who are working on themselves while recruiting younger girls on the side and pimping to wealthier men.

The OP is clearly not the bright type. As for telling his wife, that is even more foolish as no sane black African woman married to a wealthy man will let go of him simply because he cheated. In fact, she expects him to have fun with younger girls as she most likely instituted a sex timetable for the wealthy man, while she focuses on spending his money and taking care of the children.

EreluRoz:
Very dangerous to fall in love with a married man. Learn to create very strict boundaries when dealing with a married man else you may helplessly fall in love with them kos some of them have this sweet mouth and maturity to capture your heart and if you don't do the needful on time so kpe otilor.

Follow him abroad 😂

EreluRoz:
Stop being quick to call her olosho, the sugar daddy deceived her. Most of these married men are very sweet talkers and if you are not careful you'll fall helplessly in love with them. She made a mistake sha

CSBN:
I need your advice on how to pay this man back. I am 30 years old now, I started dating this married man 4 years ago when I was 26, at first he told me that he was divorced, so that was the more reason why I accepted him. About two years later, I found out that he was still with his wife.

So, I confronted him, but he apologized with an iPhone 13 and promised not to let his wife know about our affair. This man has been really helpful to me, he takes care of all my needs. All this while he begged me not to date anybody apart from him, that he will provide everything that other men will give me.

Although, he has kept to his words. I don't lack anything at all. But something happened recently, and I cried my eyes out. Last weekend when he came over to my place, that was when he told me his intention to relocate outside Nigeria with his family permanently, their papers are ready, and I need to move on with my life, and look for a man because he wouldn't want his attention to be divided anymore, he needs to focus on his family. These were his words to me. After that, he sent me one million naira as a payoff.

I feel really hurt because all these years I never dated anyone else not even a single male friend. Where do I start from to start looking for a boyfriend that will take me seriously? Baba, I feel used, I was very very faithful to him...

I am thinking of reaching out to his wife because I took her number from his phone long ago. Or use a parody account to chat her up on Facebook.

What do you think?

Please what do I do?

Cizarr:
This one is a thief...na that greediness go render her single for life

advanceDNA:
Werey ..whats wrong with u women and over entitlement

.oloshó dey form love and monogamy with client sugar daddy....

What did u think was going to happen with a sugar daddy?? Will he adopt u ??