Good morning family

I'm going to be short and brief, I have this lady I'm dating from a Yoruba land (I'm idoma).
The girl is what I've prayed for all this while. But I have a problem with her background.

A father is recently conferred with the title of *oba isegun* of their land. I'm really scared of this title cos it means more of babalawo thing to me.

All I've ever prayed for is a very soft life and to lead my descendant into righteous path (trying to avoid a dark world for me and my descendant).

Can anyone with detail traditional understanding explain into detail and with all honesty what the title means pls?

I don't want to make a mistake I will leave to regret

Thank you

Go with your instinct. You do not need some battles in your life.