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We Need A Way Out As A Family by reallouis: 5:00pm On May 17
Dear Nairalanders please help us find a way out!
As a father of 7 beautiful children,age 16+ below working as a security guard and also doing clothes laundry whenever am off work, struggling to put just food on the table have become a battle that i have fought and finally i see myself being havily depressed. I see my life reducing everyday! I have spoken out to people i have confidence and those that i don't, and even went to the extent of kneeing to some and the end is promise and letter a gift of 5 or 10k or a custard paint of rice and beans and it ends.
For now Education for this children are Zero
Our Shelter, housing is Zero
The children now look malnourished
Please NL since 2016 I lost my part-time job and business my life and family have reduced to depression.
Please is there any Government agency or NGO that can take care of the children and help them attend school! Or help in any way!
Please your matured advice and wisdom are welcome. Email realsaintlouis984@gmail.com
Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by afribabe: 5:06pm On May 17
Are they all your biological children??

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by Mindlog: 5:37pm On May 17
Giving birth to children, you have no concrete means of providing for, is sheer wickedness. angry

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by ednut1(m): 6:13pm On May 17
7 children while been broke. U are mad

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by Xpeerence: 6:52pm On May 17
Booking space

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by Maxxim: 7:43pm On May 17
Damn 7 children

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by superCleanworks(m): 3:48am On May 18
reallouis:
the end is promise and letter a gift of 5 or 10k or a custard paint of rice and beans and it ends.

you want it to be a continuous process before?
😂🤣🤣🤣

7 children. you try well well.

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by superCleanworks(m): 3:52am On May 18
Maxxim:
Damn 7 children

if you check well the guy man is still nacking this rainy season.

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by Yashita: 4:28am On May 18
reallouis:
Dear Nairalanders please help us find a way out!
As a father of 7 beautiful children,age 16+ below working as a security guard and also doing clothes laundry whenever am off work, struggling to put just food on the table have become a battle that i have fought and finally i see myself being havily depressed. I see my life reducing everyday! I have spoken out to people i have confidence and those that i don't, and even went to the extent of kneeing to some and the end is promise and letter a gift of 5 or 10k or a custard paint of rice and beans and it ends.
For now Education for this children are Zero
Our Shelter, housing is Zero
The children now look malnourished
Please NL since 2016 I lost my part-time job and business my life and family have reduced to depression.
Please is there any Government agency or NGO that can take care of the children and help them attend school! Or help in any way!
Please your matured advice and wisdom are welcome. Email realsaintlouis984@gmail.com

How old is your last child?

Your first child at 16 is eligible to work unrestricted in Nigeria, so let him find a job or learn a skill.

But na humans dey do themselves sha.

You started having kids in 2007, since then you'd tell us you weren't aware of birth control. See as you dip your created family into poverty because you like s*x too much.

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by Sapasenator: 7:18am On May 18
I pity the innocent children that were birthed by reckless and irresponsible adults who are incapable of rational decision making.

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by reallouis: 11:19am On May 19
You guys are doing well!
Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by reallouis: 12:17pm On May 19
In life we all find ourselves in one problem/challenge or the other, and i think the reasons for the problems/challenges is for man to long for the Almighty.
We are all beggars, we beg God Almighty everyday and sometimes we depends on our fellow man.
I think you guys can do better!
Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by Mindlog: 12:28pm On May 19
reallouis:
In life we all find ourselves in one problem/challenge or the other, and i think the reasons for the problems/challenges is for man to long for the Almighty.
We are all beggars, we beg God Almighty everyday and sometimes we depends on our fellow man.
I think you guys can do better!

First do better for your children and stop birthing children you have no stable means of providing for.

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by frozen70(f): 1:03pm On May 19
reallouis:
Dear Nairalanders please help us find a way out!
As a father of 7 beautiful children,age 16+ below working as a security guard and also doing clothes laundry whenever am off work, struggling to put just food on the table have become a battle that i have fought and finally i see myself being havily depressed. I see my life reducing everyday! I have spoken out to people i have confidence and those that i don't, and even went to the extent of kneeing to some and the end is promise and letter a gift of 5 or 10k or a custard paint of rice and beans and it ends.
For now Education for this children are Zero
Our Shelter, housing is Zero
The children now look malnourished
Please NL since 2016 I lost my part-time job and business my life and family have reduced to depression.
Please is there any Government agency or NGO that can take care of the children and help them attend school! Or help in any way!
Please your matured advice and wisdom are welcome. Email realsaintlouis984@gmail.com

You birthed 7 children with no reasonable source of income when the economy has been bad since over 20yrs

You have to just use your dick to do whatever you think even if uts means using it for rituals, so that you can use the proceed to raise them, since your dick is the only functional body part.

What kind of help do you think you can get here

Is it someone that stopped at three children so that he can afford to raise them, that will now have pity on you to assist you?

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Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by Yashita: 1:13pm On May 19
reallouis:
In life we all find ourselves in one problem/challenge or the other, and i think the reasons for the problems/challenges is for man to long for the Almighty.
We are all beggars, we beg God Almighty everyday and sometimes we depends on our fellow man.
I think you guys can do better!

cheesy see pity party. Stop depending on your fellow man. Your fellow man has his own problems too. You need to do better for yourself and your 7 children
Re: We Need A Way Out As A Family by reallouis: 2:44pm On May 19
Honestly am not asking for pity! If not that i lost my business and my job and things turn out so bad,most especially the economy, but however I believe that this condition will not last forever.even in depression my Hope, Faith and spirit are strong!

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