I was thinking i will have the best yulitide by introducing my gf to my parents but it turned out to be the worst ever, what can i do?

Before you advise me, lemmie give a background of how it happened!!!
I met my gf jan 3rd this year, so far we've been good friends, infact she's my best friend, (my everything)
Am from a polygamous home of 5boys and girls, my father having 2wives was an issue to me from childhood and at several points i was alone seperated from the house cos they see me as being eccentric in the way i relate to other members of the house(dont drink and i dont womanise),
Dont get it twisted, its one big and united family, even our neighbours cant tell which child belongs to a particular woman cos the children were raised together by the two women without querells
I tried to be the best i can to make my relationship work and i felt since the relationship is matured, lemmie show her to my family instead of telling her, we planned getting married next year,
But she's mad at me right now cos am from a polygamous home!!!, though i felt i should show her instead of telling her and i did just that!!, i feel she's leaving, what can i do?

***memo to poster***
- try to date mature adults in the future.

btw: are you sure that the reason she is upset is because she found out you were from a polygamous home, rather than bringing her there unexpectedly?!

@MrBrownJA, she's very matured ooooooooo and very understandin,we both agreed to see my parents, i think she got upset cos she felt i didnt tell her b4 taking her home, hence the feeling that am hiding things from her!!!, she didnt say she's leaving yet buh, her reaction was strange and am feelin so bad

@iice, i didnt see it as an issue since i felt i will take her home to meet everybody!!!, what can i do to make her happy again She has been my best friend ever!

Surprises may be sweet somtimes n can also turn sour. Just try apologise 2 her 4 nt tellin her ahead.
If she remains adamant, there are more 2 it which u av 2 find out.

poster u r d immature person i see in dis story! Just by sayin u dnt see polygamy as an issue to tell ur gf beforehand is a signal that u will go d way of ur dad! No woman will ever ignore dat red flag! Its a bad move by u because some persons detest polygamy, u hear?

From what I read, The girl is 100 % mature while the poster is 0% mature, You are from polygamous family and you did not tell your girl before you let her show up, definitely you must have a lot of skeleton in your cupboard which nairalands will not even knows about. the best for the girl is to leave you and walk away for better man

@born2fuck, aint hiding anything oooooo,just wanna show her instead of telling her and dont get it twisted am not a womanizer, thanks for ur input @boyloaf, u no try ooooooo i didnt see it as bad because i dont have power to decide who my parents are, but power to choose how i want my family to be!!
@exponential, i will beg her, but i think she reason that its dangerous to come from such family!!

Me know how to handle women for real but one thing you can never take away from Nigeria women is the love for Money

Yemy Temmy:

@MrBrownJA, she's very matured ooooooooo and very understandin,we both agreed to see my parents, i think she got upset cos she felt i didnt tell her b4 taking her home, hence the feeling that am hiding things from her!!!, she didnt say she's leaving yet buh, her reaction was strange and am feelin so bad

bro, maturity would have her UNDERSTAND that you cant choose your family, and that however they are, it wont change for ONE INCH how you feel about her. also maturity would have her COMMUNICATE with you and DISCUSS the issue that is bothering her (like adults do)

she is definitely NOT "understanding" if she got upset because you didnt tell her about your family situation (her reaction IS a clear understanding why you couldnt tell her)

here is what people that LOVE their partner would have done: they would have simply told you that you should have been honest and not afraid about that fact because they love you and, so long as you are the way you are, its ALL GOOD!

iice:

Hmmm well that's a first.
Everything is an issue with us. Where are you from? What religion are you? What is your work? You see my drift? So it falls that you should have told her. Anyway, no use crying over spilled milk. Apologize to her and explain to her why you didn't tell her. It may sound silly to her but tell her that it didn't seem silly to you at that time but you never meant to keep anything away from her.