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Hmmmn,i could feel your pain/emotions through your words. I believe in GOD,but i wont tell you the normal "GOD HAS A PURPOSE FOR THIS",cos you are in pains right now,and your emotions have clouded you.. But with time,you will realise it..
Pls dont take your life oh,cos he will still move on with his life,and you are history.
You see,in life,everybody doesn't necessarily get what they desire,cos that desire might lead to their utter downfall or other dear consequences..
I will advice you to cry cry cry cry cry,cos crying will bring out all the pains in you.. I may sound heartless or wateva,but i advice you to please cry till you feel like crying no more. Note: It will get to a point where tears will stop rolling down your cheeks.When you get there,it means that your pain is reducing.Now,try to force yourself to cry,tears may not roll down,cos your body has decided that it has nothing to cry about. Strange,but it works for me..
Now,ask yourself this question "Didn't i survive before he came into my life"? If your answer is no,then i suspect you and that guy to be a "siamese twin".. You survived before him,and will survive after him..
If a big wound can heal with time,why shouldn't you get over him with time. Life has taught me that we humans are specially designed,We can survive without what we think we cant live without.(pls think about this).. Let me use NYSC as an example.. Many corpers who were internet champions,who couldn't survive without internet for a day,still admitted that the time thhey spent in those villages were one of their best moments in life.. How did it happen? I thought internet was like food to them? That's life for you..
Many who couldn't live without "TV",cold water,vitafoam bed,and other things,still felt happy in those villages.. In essence,i am just trying to tell you that with time,you will be surprised that you are still happy,or even happier without him. That's life for you....
Lastly,just try to google or search anywhere about other people who encountered similar or worst relationship saga and see if they died,moved on,or are happier today.. Just wait,you may even come across someone on nairaland who experienced similar or worst than you.. Ask them if thay died,or if their life was ruined up till this day.
Like my friend will say"who no go,no go know",Meaning------- if you hear another persons problem,you will thank GOD for "enjoyment"...
I always say "where your own end,na dere anoda person own begin"..
@op,you will survive weda you like it or not...
MODs PLS PUT THIS ON FRONTPAGE!!
@op,if they refuse to put it on Front page,change the title of your thread to "I HAVE ONLY TWO DAYS TO LIVE,I'M DYING SLOWLY"...
Sorry guys, for the long post and grammatical blunders as well...

youll be fine...if i give you my own story ... it will shock you so be calm

We AS don suffer o. Chai!