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vislabraye:
There could be a plethora of reasons. All the ladies are in the same Church. That looks like its not going to work cos they may have heard about you, in one way or the other.
It could be your body language, the way you approach or what you say.
Probably the ladies feel they are out of your league. Ladies feel this way sometimes.
I guess you should try else where.

hmm..

Hullcity:
It could be because U are going for the younger once . 18 -24. Dat age bracket is too picky. Y not try going for mir matured ladies , 26-30

honestly that is the age bracket that I wanted

Marc3500:
I don't believe you have this qualities and girls will still be rejecting if you need help u need to be brutally honest with urself and nairaland is not the best place to come for dating advice

U said u make 500k monthly and girls still reject you u said u are good-looking and girls no dey look urside Omo na lie oo
I no believe

If you have this qualities and u have no bitches Omo it means ur self esteem is low and u don't have a social life
Are you always indoors do u have an interesting personality coz is not all about looks and money because money can't buy love
Are you a virgin,do you have friends have u been in a serious relationship how interesting is ur social group all these are questions u should ask urself ok
Because I've seen loosers get laid Even an introverted person like me still gets laid once in a while hmmm
Bro work on urself oo

I don't really go out like that though majorly to church and I wasn't even thinking maybe is because of age because I approach girls in there 20's mostly

KillahPriest:
asking if you're "too intimidating" shows you have a touch of arrogance in your character which is a huge turn off for women as it's a close companion of immaturity, boastfulness and emotional abuse. This is just my analysis and I may be wrong but going by what I've observed, I suggest you genuinely learn to be humble and start your dating pursuits in a company neutral location maybe a gym or another branch of your church. Don't show yourself or brag even jokingly. Just remain friendly with all and if there's one you like, focus on her alone and invite her out to lunch or a drink across the road after fellowship or workers meeting etc. Don't say anything about relationship o but once in a while, press her airtime of 1k or 2k and be observing her to see her deeper qualities and if she passes your test, get her a small gift like a perfume or tshirt. Something thoughtful but doesn't say romance while she gets comfortable being around you. You can say "I went shopping and thought this would look nice on you" THEN if you guys are still comfortable around each other, you can invite her for a friend's occasion. If she passes their test, casually invite her to that of your family's. Buy her aso ebi and give her money for tailor.
You have to go about love the old school way instead of like a Hot rabbit which they'll see easily. Let me know if you need more expo

more expo bro

Kaido:
How do you walk or carry yourself?
Women can smell a man that lacks confidence. Build your confidence. If you the type that flaunts cash stop it.

Church is not the only place to find a wife.
Learn to converse intellecting with ladies without even collecting numbers.
Stop telling women they look beautiful but instead compliment their hair, clothes..."you smell so good."

I work with confidence, I'm fit , maybe because I don't joke around too much

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Honestly, if this dude is not lying then there's something fundamentally wrong with him.🥱

I'm not lying bro this what I faced

koladata:
maybe you are short

I don't have up to 40 characters

I'M NOT SHORT I'M 5'11












Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.
This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.

Helpout12345:
I don't believe you are good looking, reserved and make 500k naira monthly in Nigerian economy today and all girls are rejecting you.

YEs bro i don't knw wat I'm doing wrong honestly bro

Two girls still rejected me today, so I’m even thinking if I should ask one of them what the problem is.”

Please I really need genuine advice.

I’ve collected the numbers of more than 12 girls in my church — and every single one rejected me. Not even friendship, just straight rejection.

I know I’m not bad-looking — I’d rate myself above 7/10, no exaggeration. I dress well, I keep myself neat, I have curly hair and a good physique. I also earn over ₦500k monthly, so money is not my problem.

I don’t even live in the city — just a town here in the Southwest — by local standards, I know I’m doing well for my age.

I’ll be 30 next month, and honestly, I’m mentally tired. I’ve never even had a serious relationship — marriage talk is far.

The funny part is, I don’t even talk too much in church. I’m not loud, but when I try to approach someone, it never works out.

Please, I really want to know — what could be my problem?


I’ll appreciate real advice, please no insults. 🙏

Thank you all.


CAN I BE TOO INTIMIDATING?

obinna58:
What exactly do you want, you can get pussie with money

You need to figure out what you want first, free pussie or is it love

PLS READ AGAIN SIR

I'm a 28-year-old guy. I've worked on myself a lot and can easily pass for a Nollywood actor. The face, the height, the athletically fitted military stature, the V-shape, the broad shoulders, the lips, the walking steps—all complete the picture of a guy. Yet, I still find it too difficult to attract a girl easily. I'm not the type who can pursue a girl, please don't tell me to be social because I can't even make friends with these girls—they avoid too much familiarity with me. Mind you, I stay in one of the towns in the southwest. Please help, I'm getting depressed.