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Amotolongbo:
That is a nice step to start with.

All the best bro

Thanks sis.

Colb461:
lolx..u harsh oh

Too harsh and blunt, i was expecting some encouragement

MJBOLT:

get ready to be billed

Sameazy15:
Mofoti get ready for billing

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I’ll deny her, even Jesus was denied.

Have always been a shy guy and a keyboard warrior when it comes to asking women out. Face 2 face I can’t do nothing.

So last night i tore my own fears apart, i asked a gal out, she replied nicely and got her number.

Choi so he easy like this, have always been damn scared of rejection all time!

I agree with you, no doubt.

Deborah98:
No man is an island dear,you may think you've made the right decision but I tell it's not worth it,there are still good people out there who can and will help you achieve your goals if only you look closer...

Thank you, i still appreciate and took somethings from what you said. All Good.

Friends and society made me Depressed a long while ago, but i got out of it.

squash47:
I have gone through your other posts, guy to be sincere, you're suffering from lonliness, indecisiveness, boredom and lack of happiness.

That's why you're just taking decision up and down.

Sometimes eh, when you're not happy, you will make some choices and you will think that they are right for you.

Unfortunately , it's your present state of mind that's motivating the choices you're making.


When your state of mind changes, your decisions will change.

My advice, look for new set of friends and try to be happy.


Life without friends is full of lonliness.


Very soon now, you will be heading towards depression that's if you're not currently depressed already.

Proper thanks to everyone.. I appreciate.

Lol a world where people assume Nice People for Fools or weakness.
No friends and have stopped being nice.

I miss myself, the feeling of having higher influence over my decisions and actions.

So, carry yourself and your friends away, I don’t want any of them

squash47:
Make I hear word. If you're a nice person, all your friends will miss you if you divorce them but as it appears now, no one misses you or will even miss you.

And you're disappointed. That's why you're posting it here, announcing it so that you will get people to support your abnormal decision.

Thank you for this. Appreciate.

WoundedLamb:
That's a good decision. Try to live it as much as you proclaim it even when it seems hard. Good luck.

You sef.

GeneralKoko:
God will bless you for this decision
You go florish

You claim to know people like me. Funny enough, it’s people like you i ran away from. You don’t know me.!

squash47:
Talk true, u didn't divorce ur friends, they left you because of ur bad character.

I.know people like u

Yes at 22, i divorced my friends, fully focused on myself henceforth.
No more distractions from friends and their activities.

All sins are forgiven... it takes a lot to turn back from Old ways. Someone should call righteousness for me.

husleo360:
Nemesis!!!!!

Well to my own definition.
A responsible adult.
Taking responsibilities for my own words & actions.
These days, i live on my own values and rules.
My responsibility as nothing to do with not smoking or drinking...but I don’t do any of that anymore.

WoundedLamb:
Nice, really nice.

Just curious bro, how do you define a responsible adult? What exactly makes you one? I know you said you are not cunning but then not being cunning only makes you a good person. There are many young people out there who aren't cunning. So I'd love to know what made you take to the internet this day to announce your yourself as a responsible adult. Like I said, just curious.

Glad you consider being responsible worthwhile.

That’ll be nice.

JumpByte:
Good. Come and engage in writing mentorship and build yourself for a better tomorrow

Thank you for this Bro, i must confess, it hasn’t been easy but we keep getting stronger day by day.

Peteru1st:
make sure you stay strong and don't look back. at 22, you still do have a long way to go. be strong bro!!

Started youth exuberant activities at 18 and stopped 20. Became a responsible adult at 21. Now I’m 22, what’s up? Are my sins forgiven?
Looking forward to a better life.
I don’t engage in any cunny or risky schemes anymore.

Thank you very much. These Advise worth millions of dollars.

Lordmykel:
you are young but won't remain so forever. know that people who are old and some who have died were once 22, have at the back of your mind that someday your time will come, so live life well.

Think deeply especially about the future, this is the period you should plan your future. remember if you fail to plan early, you plan to fail early.

Quest for knowledge, read books, read history as this will give you the knowledge of men of older generations combining it with the knowledge of your generation, you will be outstanding among your peers and this will also give you foresight, a very necessary attribute for growth and success.

have at the back of your mind that "fools also grow old". it is a norm in our African society to listen and obey all that elders say. but I tell you, elders are not always right, believe in yourself, trust your instincts and follow your heart, Learn from your parents and other people's mistakes, make your own mistakes and correct them, gather experience, you'll need them.

Observe judgements and adapt to positive change. e.g, they the older generation believes men are superior to women, but your generation Comes with equality. be intelligent, never forget that The illiterates of the 21st century are not those who can not read and write but those who is not able to learn, unlearn and relearn new things.

Don't do drugs, Alcohol inclusive it may ruin you. say no to cultism and other social vices. he who lives by the sword, dies by the sword.

never make women or a woman your priority, the women in your generation feel they are entitled to men's money, they are a liability for a young man who wants to grow. yes the cravings for sex will be there but realize that self-control is a gift 98% of your generation peers do not posses. stand out.

if you want to grow, realise that girls/women are only wants, they are not needs, your needs are education, food, shelter and clothing.. if you are not independent enough to get these needs for yourself then forget wants, you'll get your wants when you have your needs.

have an aim, pursue a goal, discover yourself now that you are still young, take positive risks else you'll regret when you get older.

dismiss the get rich quick syndrome, take care to only make money LEGITIMATELY, don't trick people to get favours, don't scam people of their money. yes your mates will be living large and soft lives, trust me illegally gotten money does not last. learn from Hushpuppi's story.

spend more time being productive than on social media. social media is addictive, never let it control you. spend more time reading news, spend time on discovery and reseaching on the internet.

if you are in the University, study hard, it's just 4 - 6 years of study after that you can flex your whole life, the sacrifice is worth it. School is not scam like your mates say, if school was a scam then millions would not be applying for jamb yearly.

You will always enjoy your life later, you still have time, but at 22 never miss that rare opportunity to lay a good foundation for your future. pay now, play later.

be a gentleman, always smile, help people, help make the world a better place and the sky will be your starting point and the ends of space your limit. ♥

Awaiting replies.

Mean and true advice for a 22yr old?
Thank you.

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Advise about life, adulthood and finance