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Yes, everybody as some hypocritical traits in them..but yet they judge others bcus their hypocrisy is different.


Take a look at Uni Graduates... they feel more Human than illiterates or drop-outs(even when we know that everybody’s realities differs).... so they treat the unlucky ones like trash and slaves or subordinates. Status Play


Take a look at The Elites.... they feel more Human than the poor masses....nigeria is a big case study...i came from a poor neighborhood, but the rich among us comport themselves and treat the poor as lowlifes and must be distanced from. Money Play


Take a look at Religious leaders... every sunday sermon always preaching what they can’t practice themselves. The well-to-do(rich class) in the churches are segregated from the middle and the lower class.(sitting arrangements, high regard etcs. Are we not supposed to be Equal in God’s Eyes?


Most people say our Leaders are heartless and oppressors but they themselves are not different, they won’t waste no time to oppress people they feel are Minors. Bloody hypocrites.


There are so many more that I can’t list. Thank you.

CosmicPhoenix:

how is this story romantic or romance related ehn?

Bluezy13:
Young man!

This is romance section.

My mistake.

Many Nigerian Phone repairers are very cruel, later they will say it only govt's that's evil, corrupt and incompetent.
I gave this engineer my spare phone for charging port repair, took him 3 days to fix it. I asked do I need to pay upfront to make the repair faster, he declined.
So after fixing, I went home and to start using it, figured out he didn't screw-drive the little screws well. Got upsets about that, I tried to play music, my speaker was sounding like a bad replaced speaker.

I feel so bad tonight, why are these people so heartless, it's not fair. I have decided not to take my phone there again and smiled like nothing happened.
They call him Alfa that's what I fell for. I thought he was gonna be good and honest.

StandardJohn:
Because they've been brainwashed.

Lol hahaha.

paulolee:
baaed on thier perspective of life...they do think thier riches is in heaven..,..jus free them abeg

Sure, but they should stop hating on successful people.

I need answers

At 22, so I figured out that many poor people are in love with poverty.
They find solace in bible quotes like vanity upon vanity instead of them to take their life seriously and be financially Okay!

But No they’re in love with poverty.

Aboks:
Like dis oluku

So accurate

bong4:
The day the Husband takes up his spiritual responsibility, his wife will look up to him rather than the "Pastor". Every man is the Pastor of his home. The home is the first church before any other place. The wife and the children should be able to see that their father/husband is capable of taking all their challenges to God in prayer!

The same goes to the children who will always remark, "My aunty said..." ie referring to their teachers in school. It should rather be "My father said..." or "My mother said...."

That's not so in Nigerian home, besides so many men are occupied with work and wealth creation for their family.
A man that works Mon-Fri can't be so spiritual as you assume in Nigeria, so that doesn't mean married women should put their Pastors above their Husband's.

Remember you can't please women, and also pastor wives cheats too.

At 22yrs of my life, I have witnessed women respecting, and regarding their Pastor more than their Husband’s who married them, and provide basic things of Life.
Even our so called men of God are not left behind, some even prey of the married women weakness. (Take a look at the Ghana Pastor who murdered his Wife, I know some women in his church would hold him to high regards than their husbands at home)

I've come into conclusion that, any day I find out my future wife gives more regards to her pastor than me, that is the day she'll marry her pastor, and also bundle her way out of my life.

I'm not only talking about an Abusive Household, even a home that is peaceful.. Women why give more regards to your pastor than your Husband?

Zzor:
I hope you don't loose focus at 22 since you are hell bent on destroying your 22.You need a serious slap to reset your brain

Lol this my sugar mama, I go still patronize you, no worry.

CosmicPhoenix:

stop lying to yourself,men care to know if their GFs is cheating or not,no man wants to date a public toilet.

We care but I don't give a damn..

donbachi:
Until she infects u with HIV..na dat time u go know wetin u do ur sef.

How many Nigerian men both married and students have been infected with HIV. If I go by your assumption, then 70% of women should be HIV positive.

Thanks to early exposure to red pill knowledge about women.
I really don't care if she’s cheating on me with other guys, i understand it's part of ”female nature”

For me now, she can cheats with her boss or driver as long as ”She’s a focused and stay true to the purpose .... ”Make ourselves richer and successful”

That's all, other things are secondary and tertiary...

stanliwise:
Yeah but don’t fret, stay vigilant.

Thanks man, wise man indeed.

stanliwise:
outsmarting people in social settings is not an easy skill, so don’t stick with any rule. I encourage people to learn solid social skill to improve social health.
Although the reverse seem to be the case, the moment a person notice he is more socially aware and intelligent than his/her neighbor, the next thing is to play social games since he/she knows he will emerge winner.
A coworker intimidating another worker, the confident boys intimidate the low self esteem student, 419 outsmart JJC, The quick finger snatch the phone of the slow passerby. Internet fraudster outsmart his client, A pretty girl manipulate men to pay her bills, An handsome guy manipulate naive ladies with vein promises

Power play everywhere. But sometimes it is avoidable but the gains would never allow people to take their eyes off power play and social manipulations

A very broad example. It's so rare not to see people playing some sort of games. Very rare.

stanliwise:
48 Laws of power is for power play, the knowledge are necessary Incase you are in a place where leadership means deceit and treachery.

True, there's power play everywhere, even in my family, and extended. It's been a lotta deceit and treachery.

Chii59:
Never let on as much as you know.
It's best not to act smart most times.

Learnt that late, but I'm glad I did.

JasperVII:
You should.

Yes more interested than ever, since y’all recommended it.

stanliwise:
Depends on the context.
Always play the card that best represents your person.
In some cases it is good to play smart and look smart, in some cases it is not.
The crux of it is that you ensure people achieve your aim in the social setting in the easiest way.
Any sometimes easiest way means you might step on toes! But who cares

Thank you for this. Digested

Dpsychologist:
How to win and influence people is a very good book on that.

Also 48laws of power is necessary.

I read that book ”how to win & influence people” and it's a good book

Rgade:
True,as a young person, don't be too knowledgeable or smart for your age. Just be conventional.

Very true, had some experience that made felt this way.

Rgade:
True,as a young person, don't be too knowledgeable or smart for your age. Just be conventional.

For real, it's a blessing and curse too.

Dpsychologist:
You are unknowingly obeying the laws of power.

Lol wow, funny thing is I'm yet to read that book.

Yes at 22, I figured out feeling or claiming to be smart can really put you into serious problems among people.

People dislike other people who try to act or feel smart, they purposely try to test their level of smartness by causing lots of unnecessary dramas and barriers.

How true over there? These days i rather pretend to be a dummy while i outsmart people.

Chukwinks:
You are indeed an unapologetic hypocrite. its okay for you to be attracted to older men and desire to marry an old rich man like Ned. but it's wrong for a boy to be attracted to older women.

aunty your hypocrisy is the highest in the room

Help me tell her

Enifloxy:
The older a woman get the more mature she tends to act. I have been there b4, although I'm not married and not into any relationship I often find older girls more fun to be with. Majority of them have got a lot of experience in life and they seem fun to be with.

It's not all about sex when opposite sex move together most of the time is companionship. I cant move with a lady that has a shallow way of reasoning that's a huge turn off for me. So the OP maybe feels this way, never can tell!!!

This is so accurate, i feel the same way. They tend to have more experience is almost every area and less problematic. Lol

chocboi78:
oh sowi abt d cold..
I'm from enugu, but reside in abuja

Welldone mr Cold absorber

Dpsychologist:
Check your dressing. You probably dress like an uncle or you behave as such

Truth is, I behave more matured and experienced than my Age.. like a 27yr old i guess lol

Missyford31:
I just wanna know wen you're 23yrs lol

Lol when I’m 23yrs old, i should be having women in their 26-30yrs saying Hello to me.

lefulefu:
2 or 3 yrs older than you is still young nau.at least that one is still fresh has youth on her side.when u said older i was thinking u meant women who are 53yrs or 55 yrs older than you

My sister, you said the truth. Now I’m thinking of going for a lady about 30. It’s gonna be some mad escapades lol, and I’m ready for it

Kobicove:
I don't think an age gap of 3 years is much

I also don’t think so, but zzor won’t let me rest..

ovcwality:
op he said 3 years gap is small, maybe you try 6 years upward

May God help me on that escapades.

Zzor:
lol,hes a learner and an upcoming one

Yes, says a retired one.

Notatribalist:
why are you taking it personal? He never said he wanted to marry the ladies,beside he is only 22,he has a long way to ho..

Help me tell her o.

KAM3KAZI:
Same here bro, I find myself more attracted to ladies a little older than myself and I have only dated ladies older than myself

Grateful I’m not alone

seanwilliam:
Your own better oo...


U see me ehn, I dey like 35+ .... I'm attractive to 40+ pussy I like am no be small

See confession oh boy.

Missyford31:
Yeah 3 yrs is nothing. I dnt see y ppl make a big deal outta it. Even five to ten years is nothing really I dnt think. Anything over ten years wouldn't suit me tho

Hahaha
Let me start filling forms

Zzor:
Why would a yeye 22yr old be gigoloing up and down instead of achievement?

Lol stop hoeing around nairaland looking for rich old men.

Zzor:
Clap for yourself,be shining your teeth while you are being used and dumped,non of these ladies could even consider you for marriage but here you are ranting like an upcoming gigolo

Why would a 22yr old be thinking of marriage instead of achievement?

At 22, So i find myself more attractive to older ladies.
Have dated 3 ladies that were about 3yrs older than me. In fact older women always have a way of attracting me to them.

No regrets about them, they were good ladies and unfortunately they had to marry

Timewaster:
Asking number doesn't mean she won't reject u when u ask for something more

True, just practicing before I go for the babes i really like.

benzene00:
I don't understand

you asked her out,or asked for her number?

Asked her out and collected her number.

Kiddogarcia:
Bro congrat,but come and check siggy

I wished it was something tangible you congratulating me on.

ReluctantAdult:
At 22 I was already embroiled in a paternity war

I can’t imagine me been a father now. I’m still yet to explore the world

falcon01:
been good. have you changes or you still up with you wacky antics

Wacky antics like what?

Durentt:
Congrats. I hope you have a job at least though. If you looking for sth serious with her

Lmao. Why congrats? Is it an achievement ?
Yeah i do have a job and not looking for something serious, just testing my confidence.

Albertone:
What do they do inside a relationship sef

Play table tennis and soccer

Albertone:
Why are all your topics filled with at "22yrs"?
Even your moniker too is 22 yrs.What will happen to the moniker when you turn 23 and above?

Lol Trend, by 23, I’ll get a new account to start another chapter of my life.

paulolee:
na when thm bill ur life finish naim u go know the main reasons she agree, and dts simply bcox guys don de wiseup..

Nairalanders are very brutal and honest.

femi4:
Should we tell him?

Get ready to spend more

No plans on that.

condralbedez:
Hope you won't be acting like Ozo of BBN....all the best though

Who is Ozo, I don’t watch bbn or follow the trends