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Re: ... by Purehuman(m): 12:47pm On Aug 15, 2015
Cutehector:
d guy is just foolish...it would hav been betta he gave her a mouth dan bang her and get her pregnant

Guy! Stop acting like a big boy, okay.

The whole event happened before she saw her flow, that means I didn't even know that she'll be bleeding that day, so calm down.

I'm not here to exchange words, just to clarify things with medical practitioners here.
Re: ... by edwife(f): 12:52pm On Aug 15, 2015
Purehuman:


I'm quite good with biology. And its very "rare" for something like that to happen. It is said, it is highly unlikely for pregnancy to occur. It is difficult for someone with that knowledge to accept the fact without asking pertinent questions.

It is rare but it does happen,what if she is among the rare ones?

No need for all this,go with her for a test to ascertain that she is truly pregnant then the next step will be DNA to establish the paternity.

My aunt bled all through her pregnancy,never missed a month until she was 6 months pregnant.

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Re: ... by Richy4(m): 1:02pm On Aug 15, 2015
Congratulations in advance sir.
Re: ... by Purehuman(m): 1:06pm On Aug 15, 2015
edwife:


It is rare but it does happen,what if she is among the rare ones?

No need for all this,go with her for a test to ascertain that she is truly pregnant then the next step will be DNA to establish the paternity.

My aunt bled all through her pregnancy,never missed a month until she was 6 months pregnant.

That's true, your aunt is a good example of a rare possibility.

The problem is that, we stay in different states and she doesn't want to come down to my place because she's busy with her own things.
Re: ... by freecocoa(f): 1:08pm On Aug 15, 2015
How hard is it to get to a lab and have a PT done? Na wa o.
Re: ... by freecocoa(f): 1:08pm On Aug 15, 2015
Purehuman:


That's true, your aunt is a good example of a rare possibility.

The problem is that, we stay in different states and she doesn't want to come down to my place because she's busy with her own things.
Then go to her place and have it done.
Re: ... by edwife(f): 1:09pm On Aug 15, 2015
Purehuman:


That's true, your aunt is a good example of a rare possibility.

The problem is that, we stay in different states and she doesn't want to come down to my place because she's busy with her own things.

Her own thing? Then she is not ready.

When she will be ready,she will have time to come but if you can go there and have it done for your own sanity please do.
Re: ... by sisisioge: 1:29pm On Aug 15, 2015
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Re: ... by Purehuman(m): 2:18pm On Aug 15, 2015
freecocoa:
Then go to her place and have it done.

To be candid, we stay really far from each other.

She stays in the north while I'm in Lagos. But I've tried to convince to do everything necessary to check if everything is alright and send me the result.
Re: ... by Jamean(f): 2:42pm On Aug 15, 2015
chymystique:


i checked his prev threads and I noticed him and his gf are having trust issues wrt other men he has being noticing in her life and from what he wrote it seems like the gf is having sex with some of those other dudes. my own be say if the gf is truly preg, he shld better make sure na him own the sperm wey make the preg occur.

I like to address certain issues from the root cause. When he suspected that she sleeps with other men why didn't back out rather than continue to bang. undecided

I guess the mentality of chop I chop.

Now he is questioning the paternity. I wonder what is becoming of this generation.

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Re: ... by Jamean(f): 2:47pm On Aug 15, 2015
Purehuman:


I am qualified to take care of the kids without any form of assistance. But the issue here is that, the possibility of me impregnating a woman that time is very low.

Which begs the question? Is there no hidden secret behind the whole story?

Keeping the baby isn't the problem.

Show us the certificate
Re: ... by Jamean(f): 2:52pm On Aug 15, 2015
Purehuman:


Guy! Stop acting like a big boy, okay.

The whole event happened before she saw her flow, that means I didn't even know that she'll be bleeding that day, so calm down.

I'm not here to exchange words, just to clarify things with medical practitioners here.

... and what happened when you knew You still swam in River Nile.

I think you are the one who should act like a man and take responsibility for your actions.

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Re: ... by cococandy(f): 3:20pm On Aug 15, 2015
Congratulations sir. smiley

If you're in doubt, why ask us? How can we help?

Tell her you have doubts and you want a paternity test done when the baby is born. C'est finis.
Re: ... by cococandy(f): 3:24pm On Aug 15, 2015
edwife:


It is rare but it does happen,what if she is among the rare ones?

No need for all this,go with her for a test to ascertain that she is truly pregnant then the next step will be DNA to establish the paternity.

My aunt bled all through her pregnancy,never missed a month until she was 6 months pregnant.

It's not even that rare like one in a thousand or so.
I've a friend here who found out she was four months pregnant when she went to get her contraceptive refill at the clinic and she has been having her periods all through.
Re: ... by Purehuman(m): 3:26pm On Aug 15, 2015
Jamean:


... and what happened when you knew You still swam in River Nile.

I think you are the one who should act like a man and take responsibility for your actions.

Do you understand english or you just want to antagonise me?

We did it before her period started. Am I woman who knows the calendar of a woman? Something was done some hours before bleeding started and you are raising dust.

Please, read before you start forming action lady.
Re: ... by Purehuman(m): 3:28pm On Aug 15, 2015
Jamean:

Show us the certificate
Please, can you leave me alone if you don't have anything meaningful to say?
I'm begging actually.
Re: ... by Purehuman(m): 3:33pm On Aug 15, 2015
cococandy:


It's not even that rare like one in a thousand or so.
I've a friend here who found out she was four months pregnant when she went to get her contraceptive refill at the clinic and she has been having her periods all through.

If the possibility of the result of an action is very low, then the certainty of the outcome have to be questioned.

Your friend had that issue doesn't mean its normal. So, she had to ask. I asked a doctor the possibility of it happening, it answered that I should be sure before taking any other action.

So, the way some ladies take issues without any form rational reasoning is baffling. Everything isn't a matter of emotions but we should add alittle bit of tact in them.
Re: ... by Ngokafor(f): 3:47pm On Aug 15, 2015
Purehuman:


If the possibility of the result of an action is very low, then the certainty of the outcome have to be questioned.

Your friend had that issue doesn't mean its normal. So, she had to ask. I asked a doctor the possibility of it happening, it answered that I should be sure before taking any other action.

So, the way some ladies take issues without any form rational reasoning is baffling. Everything isn't a matter of emotions but we should add alittle bit of tact in them.




...What exactly do you want from here??...i have to ask because your mind appears to be made up concerning your girlfriend.
.You are clearly in doubt here and hell bent on staying that way,so instead of arguing and getting all beligerent with strangers who are not the cause of your predicament,why dont you have a pregnancy test done first,then a DNA test later if your doubts about the paternity is still strong.
Re: ... by Sunehri145(f): 3:53pm On Aug 15, 2015
The pregnancy is not yours,dont allow her to cajole you into it.

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Re: ... by cococandy(f): 3:56pm On Aug 15, 2015
Which ladies are you referring to?

yes some women see their periods while still pregnant especially the first few months and it isn't that rare. She could have become pregnant from previous sex with you before the particular period that you are talking about.

like I told you before, tell her you want a paternity test when the child is born.

Without it, speculations can't help you get an answer.
Purehuman:


If the possibility of the result of an action is very low, then the certainty of the outcome have to be questioned.

Your friend had that issue doesn't mean its normal. So, she had to ask. I asked a doctor the possibility of it happening, it answered that I should be sure before taking any other action.

So, the way some ladies take issues without any form rational reasoning is baffling. Everything isn't a matter of emotions but we should add alittle bit of tact in them.
Re: ... by mikkyjagga1(m): 4:06pm On Aug 15, 2015
It's almost impossible bro, that period is even seen as a safe period!
Don't fall maga, bt alas ure a maga to be in a relationship with a girl u don't even trust, ws in ure shoes nd regretted it!

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Re: ... by chymystique(f): 4:09pm On Aug 15, 2015
Jamean:


I like to address certain issues from the root cause. When he suspected that she sleeps with other men why didn't back out rather than continue to bang. undecided

I guess the mentality of chop I chop.

Now he is questioning the paternity. I wonder what is becoming of this generation.


Lol... You mean gan! I think Purehuman bae has him wrapped round her finger and its clear he loves her very much. Some men are like that.. they know the truth but fear of hurt wont let them let go and well you are right, i guess he was cool as long as he keeps collecting his own share too from the national cake...

I understand OP is worried but he should calm down till proper test is done and result seen before taking action. The only prob be say what if she is truly preg and OP after catering for the medical bills discovers the baby aint his... chai!

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Re: ... by edwife(f): 4:26pm On Aug 15, 2015
cococandy:


It's not even that rare like one in a thousand or so.
I've a friend here who found out she was four months pregnant when she went to get her contraceptive refill at the clinic and she has been having her periods all through.

Yes in have heard quite a lot of theses incidences,especially women who are on contraception for so long.

@Op no need to try justify every posts anymore,i think you got the picture.Go for a pregnancy test then after the birth of the child do a paternity test.
Re: ... by edwife(f): 4:26pm On Aug 15, 2015
cococandy:


It's not even that rare like one in a thousand or so.
I've a friend here who found out she was four months pregnant when she went to get her contraceptive refill at the clinic and she has been having her periods all through.

Yes in have heard quite a lot of theses incidence,especially women who are on contraception for so long.

@Op no need to try justify every posts anymore,i think you got the picture.Go for a pregnancy test then after the birth of the child do a paternity test.
Re: ... by sugah: 5:09pm On Aug 15, 2015
Purehuman how sure are you that the bleeding she saw was her monthly cycle? Some women bleed during ovulation. And before you come to counter this by saying its rare, you should know no two women are alike.

So you just have to support her until the baby comes and you do a paternity test.

*updated * someone's comment prompted me to check your other posts and iv gotten some info about your gal.
My dear you are in a 'situationship'. Definitely not a relationship. Your gal is probably not pregnant and if she is, the baby is probably not yours.
Re: ... by tpiander: 5:23pm On Aug 15, 2015
Purehuman:
I had sex with my woman when she was in period with protection but unfortunately, the protection tore when we were at it.

She called me some days back and said she is pregnant. The problem is that, we had sex on the first day of her period which means she isn't close to her ovulation period. The other two times we had sex, which were the first and second days after her period, the protection we used were still intact. No form of tear.

I tried to get my head through the possibility of her being pregnant because the information I got from a doctor friend is that its nearly impossible. Being that, ovulation takes place between 11 to 19days after her period.

I know that I don't know much about these things but I feel uncomfortable with it.

Okay, let me clear the air here. I didn't do it when she has started her period. I really meant the day it started. We did it few hours before she started bleeding.

yes, the baby is yours.

are you wondering if it belongs to someone else?


didnt read the whole thing, but if you sleep with your wife and a baby comes 7 to nine months later, then its yours.

if you have doubts then stop engaging in illicit sex.
Re: ... by Nobody: 6:01pm On Aug 15, 2015
Mr man shine your eyes,don't let anyone cajole you into something you will forever regret...it even good this happened before marriage or child birth....from your write-up I think I have to blame your woman,you even tried in your part,you used condom...she was so stupid not to know the exact day or period of her cycle....and for her to start giving excuse why she can't come down to run a test says a lot....


You know what to do,don't even allow her to conduct the test alone,you guys should do it together and monitor it.....
Re: ... by GodnGold: 6:53pm On Aug 15, 2015
bobo,antenatal card=2500.folder=1000.consultation=5000.drugs=3500/month.Lets take it from here.Biology ko;taking care ni!
Re: ... by DFemaleBoss(f): 7:08pm On Aug 15, 2015
You people should cut the guy some slack!
It's very rare for one to conceive during their period so he's very right to have his doubts.
Oga go for DNA, don't let that girl "maga" you grin
Re: ... by tare22(m): 7:50pm On Aug 15, 2015
I don't think she is your woman.. Cos if she is... U would have understood are hormonal system.... And I also think she is a young lad... Cos if she is not she also would have known how her Anatomy functions..
Re: ... by samtol4(m): 9:03pm On Aug 15, 2015
@OP ....Go pray for forgiveness of sin and SELF CONTROL .What kind of sex do u ve with a woman in her period bleeding?Rubbish and Irritating
Re: ... by thelish(f): 9:32pm On Aug 15, 2015
Don't tell me you are still in a relationship with the girl that introduced you as a cousin to her cultist boyfriend. After all the advice?

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