oga all I can see is you need a new gal and the stop beating around the bush. You no get friends or siblings to talk to.. lol

Emotions .

oga scantee compliments, this your madam wey you and am dey do long distance relationship just dey carry your heart play. please soft pedal oo
for the records am not saying long distance stuffs can't work cos me am into a working one but you have to reduce your commitment to it. besides you should be aware that there is no way she can't have male friends, those to whom you may notice their presence when you call. it takes maturity to act unperturbed when you notice that, cos at any male voice you hear and query she would always view you as insecure and would deal with you emotionally.
my bros we have talked a few times on Nairaland here on the business section and I tell you categorically that you are a nice person and a nice person like you shouldn't toy with his emotions cos whatever this babe dey do you now, expect it three times in marriage, can you take that ? are you sure it wouldn't affect your career ?
your happiness is your priority. shekena

9japrof:
oga scantee compliments, this your madam wey you and am dey do long distance relationship just dey carry your heart play. please soft pedal oo
for the records am not saying long distance stuffs can't work cos me am into a working one but you have to reduce your commitment to it. besides you should be aware that there is no way she can't have male friends, those to whom you may notice their presence when you call. it takes maturity to act unperturbed when you notice that, cos at any male voice you hear and query she would always view you as insecure and would deal with you emotionally.
my bros we have talked a few times on Nairaland here on the business section and I tell you categorically that you are a nice person and a nice person like you shouldn't toy with his emotions cos whatever this babe dey do you now, expect it three times in marriage, can you take that ? are you sure it wouldn't affect your career ?
your happiness is your priority. shekena

thanks bro much appreciated.

Odunharry:
oga all I can see is you need a new gal and the stop beating around the bush.
You no get friends or siblings to talk to.. lol

read my post well bro

davide470:
Your babe still dey NL ba?..

If she sees this, would she like it? or just assume na she open thread like this, what would you think?

No see can't see this thread.

I don't think your request is achievable. Womeen are emotional beings and so there's no way u will have dat kind of friendship with a girl and she will not develop feelings.

I suggest yo find another way to calm yourself when the need arises. I love novels, so when I am upset, I find a good novel and loose myself in it. Or, I look for good memories and relive them. These works perfectly for me. Find something you love doing and can relax you and do it when youu are upset.


You can't keep doing this when you eventually marry. It is emotional cheating. She should be able to calm you down or you calm yourself without endangering your relationship. Wish you the best.

scantee:
read my post well bro

I have.. what do you plan to achieve with that?

Odunharry:
I have.. what do you plan to achieve with that?

temporal happinez

scantee:
temporal happinez

You should go after Permanent happiness instead.

Annais:
I don't think your request is achievable. Womeen are emotional beings and so there's no way u will have dat kind of friendship with a girl and she will not develop feelings.

I suggest yo find another way to calm yourself when the need arises. I love novels, so when I am upset, I find a good novel and loose myself in it. Or, I look for good memories and relive them. These works perfectly for me. Find something you love doing and can relax you and do it when youu are upset.


You can't keep doing this when you eventually marry. It is emotional cheating. She should be able to calm you down or you calm yourself without endangering your relationship. Wish you the best.

thanks dear ur rit though, just dat is almost impossible for me to enjoy what i love doing like watching football when i am sad, in as much i understand ur point, datz why i said someone that can act professionally whom i can mostly discuss about politics, business and other social talk, no romantic talk, no whatsapp chat, more so we may never see each others pix.

scantee:
thanks dear ur rit though, just dat is almost impossible for me to enjoy what i love doing like watching football when i am sad, in as much i understand ur point, datz why i said someone that can act professionally whom i can mostly discuss about politics, business and other social talk, no romantic talk, no whatsapp chat, more so we may never see each others pix.

Ok. If you find someone like that, good for you. Just pray it doesn't become a problem in the future.

wroskian:

Mr Scantee, I think Annais made sense with her post. Develop another way of getting yourself back when your girl hurts you. Let's assume you are married either to the lady or someone else, would you look for a lady outside to "calm" you down whenever inevitable marital issues pops up? That could lead to cheating. You can't have a female call friend without her developing feelings for you along the line, not with your status.
CHEERS.

the truth is that we are not living together and i believe we can be able to sort out any of our differences if we are seeing each other face 2 face, believe me i can handle anyting that comes up, but in this case she is in different state, so anytime we had missunderstanding she will switch off her phone immediatly...closing the avenue for any means of settlement @ dat point, the suprising thing is that we hardly quarrel if we are together, but reverse is the case whenever we are apart.

scantee:
Hello house, this might sound wired but i am damm serious. I have a fiancee that enjoy getting me upset @times, though i do really love her, so i need a female call friend with a nice voice i can call when ever she gets me upset, note; i have female friends that i can actual call but most of them are crushing on me, so i don't want to create a room for them to come in.., i need some nuetral person with no emotion attached. 100% professional, prefferable intelligent/smart girl that are versatile with broad of things so we can have a lot to be discussing whenever the need arises. Please i don't need your whatsapp number because there will be no room for chatting. "YOUR BENEFIT" i will be sending you air time occationally, i will make sure you will never lack airtime and might be given you a gift periodically. Preffered age 22-100yrs old. Your location is not a problem. Note: my major reasons i am doing this is because i feel deeply hurt whenever she gets me upset and can't watch movies or football match but only wish to have someone to talk to. And mind you the call would'nt be often because i spend 60% of my time offshore. Just indicate ur in through a P.M. Pls before you shout scam check my post and threads on Nairaland and date of Reg.

Immaturity at it's peak.

Champella:


Is she a Luis Suarez that is always disturbing central defenders with his movement on and off the ball?


Kid Sister is fine though.


But boss, you no do me well o. Since i don dey warm up for touchline you no gree put me for even 5-a-side.

scantee:
bro i still have u in my formation for our next match, just dat dis new government just made the away match tough for nw, 2016 will be full of home matches, u will score goals before end of 10 matches.

I cant wait to see the day someone will come here to testify the grace of God in the area of employment through Mr. Scantee.

permanentgrace:




I cant wait to see the day someone will come here to testify the grace of God in the area of employment through Mr. Scantee.

could you please stop this ur madness on my threads? Gush! Gush!!

@Mod you can take down (Lock) the thread now, it has served itz purpose. Thanx

scantee:
could you please stop this ur madness on my threads? Gush! Gush!!

Oga, this will never stop until i or someone else testify getting a job from. You cant come to nairaland and stay all through promising us jobs and no one gets it from you. This should be a challenge to you.

Btw, happy new year.

permanentgrace:


Oga, this will never stop until i or someone else testify getting a job from. You cant come to nairaland and stay all through promising us jobs and no one gets it from you. This should be a challenge to you.

Btw, happy new year.

i understand ur tricks but it can't work and it can never make me divulge their users IDz here, i have over grown taken praises frm men, so needless of me telling them to speak out, why not become a contractor instead and join the contractors lounge thread for contracter partnership instead, than moving around looking for free job, i doubt if any thinking person would ever employ you with such mentality. Enjoy d new year.

scantee:
i understand ur tricks but it can't work and it can never make me divulge their users IDz here, i have over grown taken praises frm men, so needless of me telling them to speak out, why not become a contractor instead and join the contractors lounge thread for contracter partnership instead, than moving around looking for free job, i doubt if any thinking person would ever employ you with such mentality. Enjoy d new year.

So what do you feel like now? A semi god? Whose best bet is to promise jobs and cant fulfill even one?

Annais:
I don't think your request is achievable. Womeen are emotional beings and so there's no way u will have dat kind of friendship with a girl and she will not develop feelings.

I suggest yo find another way to calm yourself when the need arises. I love novels, so when I am upset, I find a good novel and loose myself in it. Or, I look for good memories and relive them. These works perfectly for me. Find something you love doing and can relax you and do it when youu are upset.


You can't keep doing this when you eventually marry. It is emotional cheating. She should be able to calm you down or you calm yourself without endangering your relationship. Wish you the best.

Dis na better talk. You have brain!

y not have a discussion with ur woman abt it dan looking 4 a woman 2 serve as a shoulder 2 lean on? Dr s every possibility of u having a crush on d so called 'call friend' which u don't want 2 happen. tins like ds might make u still flirt after marriage, speaking up 2 her s d best... happy new year 2 u

scantee I sent u a mail ,pls i need to discuss sometin very important with you. u can call my no 08037377258 .

vaniesexy:
scantee I sent u a mail ,pls i need to discuss sometin very important with you. u can call my no 08037377258 .

sorry i did'nt get ur mail, hope i am safe?

Hope solution to ur challenge av been found bro?

nop d most important fin is dat we hope u av married dat ur fiancée and stop d call gal stuff

refiner:
nop d most important fin is dat we hope u av married dat ur fiancée and stop d call gal stuff

lol,dts op choice

enkayhope:
Hope solution to ur challenge av been found bro?

no we are on temporal break up..

refiner:
nop d most important fin is dat we hope u av married dat ur fiancée and stop d call gal stuff

abeg refine ur statement well a bit

scantee:
abeg refine ur statement well a bit

y nt help me to refine it a bit

scantee:
Hello house, this might sound wired but i am damm serious. I have a fiancee that enjoy getting me upset @times, though i do really love her, so i need a female call friend with a nice voice i can call when ever she gets me upset, note; i have female friends that i can actual call but most of them are crushing on me, so i don't want to create a room for them to come in.., i need some nuetral person with no emotion attached. 100% professional, prefferable intelligent/smart girl that are versatile with broad of things so we can have a lot to be discussing whenever the need arises. Please i don't need your whatsapp number because there will be no room for chatting. "YOUR BENEFIT" i will be sending you air time occationally, i will make sure you will never lack airtime and might be given you a gift periodically. Preffered age 22-100yrs old. Your location is not a problem. Note: my major reasons i am doing this is because i feel deeply hurt whenever she gets me upset and can't watch movies or football match but only wish to have someone to talk to. And mind you the call would'nt be often because i spend 60% of my time offshore. Just indicate ur in through a P.M. Pls before you shout scam check my post and threads on Nairaland and date of Reg.

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