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Bro... Nothing happened. I am still who I am.
I have learnt not to be cheap to them girls...

I just play with them but not take any1 serious. I came back from NYSC camp few days earlier, but didnt go home straight.
I stormed my area on Val's day, had no place to go, called a girl in my area whom I harsly speak to and we went out... Bought her their usual ijekuje... And she went home. Till date, she is still surprise.

I just play with them these days and not take them serious.

pleep: [size=15pt]@2sexy what happend to you? [/size]

Yeah... Right.

She lost and she's aware of that.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Some people do not know nor value what they have until it's gone. Males and females inclusive.

There is a girl out there who would value you if you treat her the way you treated your ex. Your ex lost out. It is her loss, not yours. Don't lose out on a good girl because of a dumb ex. [/color]

Okay... Agreed! Thanks and I also became way better than she left me.

She don even beg me sef... Okay you win.
Point of correction, I do flirt with them girls but dont take any of them serious...

My rule is: I will give you what you give me and it's been cool ever since.

Sexkillz you are more stronger but me, I know my weak point and I can be very emotional. If doing it this way will keep me safe, I have no choice...

But OP, shine your eyes. Just bury that nice guy for the one that seem serious.

That still does not mean girls within that age bracket don't want fun... You can help them with what they want lol.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]My ex broke up with me after 6 years in the relationship and after cheating. You won't even see me talking about her nor crying. The time I'll use in discussing what she did blah blah, how I'll become bad blah blah, how other girls will pay blah blah is more than enough time to achieve better things and move ahead. I shake my head when supposed men say that A GIRL made them change from good guys to bad guys. . .

It's below pathetic.

I actually became a better person after she left so if I'm to say anything to her, its "thank you for leaving". [/color]

It is all about 'who go eat who'?

Most of these girls think they are smart and they will play you when you least expect it...

I have learnt my lesson, albeit the hard way. I don't wanna be the meal to the next girl.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]You are still too hurt to see the truth. Those are words spoken by angry men. My ex has no monopoly over my life. She's gone and gone.

Do not judge the next girl by the way your ex acted, nor by what angry men say. They could hinder you from finding true happiness. [/color]

Na condition make crayfish bend...

I tried being nice and it didn't work . So what do you expect when all the bad guys they chop and clean mouth?

The more I am honest, the more I look silly to these girls.

My ex said and I quote: ' ...is it when I am married that will have the experience?'

Think about that... You may not fall into these category but majority do.

Caracta: All of you...

For your mind you think say you make sense... Let me tell you, I am the rarest kind any girl in these generation will hardly find and I am proud of who I am. Those who are close to me are aware of this...


We are talking about reality please bury your sermon!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Take this advice at your own peril.

People with this mentality are never truly happy and they spoil good things with their supposed righteous anger. They'll spoil a perfect relationship because they are still hurt from their ex and would want to pay an innocent girl for the mistakes of another.

At a point in their lives, they get confused and tired of being bad, but then, they now have to pay retribution for the heartbreaks and sorrow they caused an innocent girl. Revenge is a vicious cycle that leaves both parties hurt. If you say you have gotten over an ex, you wouldn't allow whatever she does, or did, affect your present state of mind.

I love myself. [/color]

OP, this is the real truth. Many will not admit to it here on Nairaland but I can assure you, they are very much guilty of this.

Take pleep's advice and have a heartbreak free relationship.

And never stick to one girl... Always have a back up because there is a missing screw,nut and bolt in their head. Their madness is like weather, unpredictable which can come at anytime.

This is how I have been living my life. When one mess up, I focus attention to another... Though sex isnt the my priority but I just love the fun and fvck those who think they have anything to offer me when they don't.

The way I look at girls these days is like an insipid food! Yuck!

pleep: The ladies dont want to take advice, dont worry about them bro.

You have to realize that at this age, girls mainly want fun.. weather that bites them in the butt in the future doesnt matter.

So be the fun guy... get a motercycle be a bad boy etc etc and get pussy like a pro When its time to settle down, find you a nice 18 yr old virgin and call it a day

Bros, I (2sexy) got your email.

You are right... Now, let me tell you the truth: girls within the age of that girl in your OP are hungry for adventure. They still wanna fvck around, have fun and you were trying to deprive her of desires which would have also been fuelled by what she has been hearing from fellow girls in her hostel.

Truth be told, that was how my ex went on and today she regret every bit. Over 80% of Naija girls fall into this category I tell you. Never try to pin anyone down by being honest. The more you try to do that, the more you look like a fool to them. After they have explored and have had all the fun fucccking several d!cks, they start looking for Mr. Nice guy to marry them . My ex did and may thunder strike her... When I am done with her, in her next life, she will never toy with nice guys.

Henceforth, just go in for the fun and nothing more. Fvck them silly and don't bring your emotions into what you do with them.

WackyJ1: some guys are actually very nice guys deep down inside but they have decided to give girls what they want and turn to bad guys. with right girl and time, the nice side may resurface

My ex is petite and a monster...

Caracta: Chei! So you don't mind. Scary ish if you ask me. I hope you are strong enough to withstand the torture. Some petite girls are deadly!

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