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I don't really know,but ever since our dad died and we packed to Ilorin,my younger sibs had gone lose,lack respect,not serious again,would prefer visiting our cousins often that @9 they were known in the neighbourhood,shouting in d house,abusing eachother aloud,fight &never want to do anything even for themself.
If i instruct them to do something,i end up doing it after,tho i believe in leading my example,whenever i beat dem,dey would report me 2our mum which i hate so much cause our mum would blame me again,so its being long i beat dem.
They lack alot talking about manners,they even joke,mock me,if i advice them. Am really ashamed of myself in D neighbourhood,only God knows what neighbours says abt us. Writting this now,am put 2tears,our mum is nt helping matters,i have being using 'style' 2tell her about these but i cant see any change.
I've told myself,when i go 2school(uni,next year) 2God i wouldn't come back Home,but deep in me,i dnt want 2take that step.
Please what should i do?,no insultin pls

Just concentrate on building ursef and making ursef a better person person, they'll see u and want to be like u

Awwww...baby boy. Well done.

I agree with lofty, better yourself while doing what you could for them. They would soon catch up.

Just focus on getting admission into the university and focus on getting out with a good grade so that you can help your mom carry the burden of your siblings.

As for your younger ones they'll come to respect you when they realize they are dependent on you for their own schooling.

Be strong for your mom and your siblings. You are the dad of the house now.

All the best.