₦airaland Forum

The use of the word “guy” is popular among the Nigerian folks. It has different meanings attributed to it. Some Nigerians defines a guy as someone who is rude, a bad boy, a cheat, street –dude, a womanizer, a drug addict, a chain smoker and lots more.

Some Nigerian folks tend to distant themselves from you because they feel you aren’t guy enough for cheap reasons attributed to crazy lifestyle. Drum rolls please…Who is a guy?

A real guy is a responsible gentleman that is humble, reserved and God-fearing. He is not an impostor. He is genuine and well-behaved.
A guy is not a chain smoker or a drunk who feels that his life depends on smoking and drinking alcohol. A guy is not a womanizer. He does not change and use girls like clothes after sex. A real guy has value and he respect ladies. He is not a heart breaker.

A real guy is not a cheat, a scammer or a criminal. He does not steal from others, in the name of getting rich. A guy is focused and zealous
towards achieving great things in future. He is not a liability to the society. He does not cheat in exams in the name of getting good grades.

A guy is a scholar and a life saver. He is a hope giver not a career killer. Joining some deadly cults does not make you a guy. A guy is a leader and a role model.
Please share your thoughts.

Na anybody be guy, even girls self na guy, so its either a bad guy or a good guy

In the words of the faceless man from game of thrones and arya stark . a guy is no body