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PresidObi:
A woman who had a tear will be experiencing pains around the healed area for some more months and even up to year after childbirth. Pay me for medical counselling.

No I'm not gonna pay you. Hospital ain't far away and gynecologist won't charge more than 1k

pocohantas:
I guess this is why some people recommend marrying a virgin. An untouched man.
Make them no tear your episiotomy.

Your message is clear and understood. Could you kindly make a more meaningful contribution? I might be able to pick something useful from whatever you share.

Good evening moms and dads reading this. My son is 10 months old. During childbirth, my wife had a small tear since it was her first delivery and the baby weighed 4.7kg. Fast forward to yesterday, we were making love. I remembered how I used to explore with my ex, so I decided to try something similar with my wife.

I laid her on her back and lifted her legs wide up in the air. Right away, she warned me not to forget she had a tear during childbirth just 10 months ago. But I didn’t listen. I went ahead. During the act, even though she was wet and dripping, it felt like she was just enduring it.

Afterwards, she complained that I may have pushed too deep, possibly into her womb, and she felt pain while cleaning up. I checked but didn’t notice any visible damage or looseness. My concern now is.. could I have hurt her or reopened the tear?

Secondly, despite how wet she gets, it still feels tight and shallow. How can I help make it wider and deeper so we can both enjoy our sex life more? Thank you!