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ZIMDRILL:
you are right in your view

but lets stick to the question asked, is it a sin to masturbate with your wise our a phone ?

Lets look it from this point, is ok to talk about sex with your wife over the phone ? the most answer is Yes so what different does it make when you masturbate with your wife ?

Remember the main reason masturbation is a sin is simply because you would be thinking of someone who is not your wife hence its a sin to sexually admire someone

In this case he is touching himeself live on video with his wife is that sin --- i choose not to use the word masturbating because its his wife

Well I'm not in the position to say it's a sin or not.
But from point you raised "thinking of someone who is not your wife hence its a sin to sexually fantastic someone". It will eventually lead to sin on the man's part. He will become used to masturbation especially when the wife is not around, he will easily or start fantasizing and masturbating to the mental image of other women he finds attractive. (It's inevitable). Unknowingly he will also induct his wife into the ability of masturbating.
The story won't end well for married couples.

Lol, whether masturbation is a sin or not, It has a lot of subtle effects on you, especially when you become addicted (If you know how addictive it is, you will run from it), it leaves subconscious programs on your mind, such that you gradually lose control and act compulsively when triggered. It drains mental energies and affects your actual sexual performance.

When supplemented with porn, it becomes extremely detrimental to mental well-being, productivity and others. It creates certain neurological pathways in the brain and messes up your dopamine system.

Say No to masturbation
Say No to Porn

Even if ​you must masturbate, let it be rare. Avoid PORN, avoid sexual fantasies.
Don't be an addict.

God created Man and Woman, and even the institution of marriage to satisfy their sexual needs, Not to masturbate or watch porn, fill your brain with fantasies and like a zombie.