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Since creation women have always been a source of wonder ; a cluster of varying emotions and the quickness at which the emotions change leave men bewildered. It's a lost cause trying to understand how women work but there's one thing men have come to know, that a girl has two types of "stop",the fake "stop" and the real "stop".
The fake stop that means try on a little more and the real stop that doesnt need explaining, but how do you tell the difference? Remember when I said women leave men bewildered? Yeah.

There's no way to really know when it's real a stop or a fake one particularly.
Women are that stingy with giving useful tips, maybe they like boys making a mess of themselves for the fun of it , but there is a faction of girls who try to make the difference with persistence. A persistent stop is a real stop. Other girls choose more violent techniques, a real stop has to be accompanied with some measure of embarrassing moments for the boy.
But what do boys think?
Some come out honest enough to say it's a trial and error, for women are hard to understand and Others claim it's all down to her attitude that accompanies the rejection. If she acts, talks like she doesn't want you then it's best to drink water and mind your business and there's a last group that just accepts the "stop" be it real or fake. They don't have time for stress , they live by the philosophy of "there are too many fishes in the river".
In the end, I think it's all down to whatever works for you,be it patience, tenacity or brutal honesty as long as everyone's happy.