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Foxyn:
IMO, I don't think the Op was ungrateful. Glance through the whole comments again. He appreciated what his helper did.

Really ? OK oh , I hear.


@abescom please I beg on his behalf kindly forgive and forget .

abescom:
yes, my name is Abiodun. Hence Abbey.

na my sis name be dat abbeycity,pls forgive & forget

I was jaw-dropped while reading Op's later comments. Surprising! Abescom, forgive him biko

BentiBenti:
I'm very sorry sir, I felt so bad seeing people calling me a scammer. Not like they questioned my claims like you wrote up there, but they abused and insulted me by calling me a scammer. A reasonable person would've just simply remind me of the promise I made earlier rather than jumping to start accusing me of robbing you in disguise. Go back to the comments that followed my own after I thanked you and you'll see where my anger rose from. I didn't have anything to hide from you, just that I was very busy trying to tidy up my things and my work was not even helping matters. That was why I delayed, not like I forgot. The truth is, I was just angry and I'm sorry I couldn't control my anger. That is the worst thing I hate in my life, for someone to accuse me of what I've not done.. Even my mum knows the kind of anger I normally exhibit. But apart from that, I'm a very respectful & a jovial person you'll ever come across in your life. Accept my apology sir, you've done so much for you to dislike me. I know I don't deserve anything from you, but just forgive me on this one. So many things on my mind now.. It's not easy to be an orphan and I'm fighting in every possible means to succeed in life. I apologize once again to each an everyone here I had problems with, forgive and forget.. And also be always reasonable enough before you jump to conclude on matters you know notin of

I'm sorry

It is normal for people to call you a scammer on this forum owing to past experiences. Your attitude before and after you got help from @abescom kinda proves that you may be one too. Obviously, the least logical thing to do after receiving help is to send a snapshot of the mattrass and receipt. By now,you ought to have known that people will always throw stones at you and spite you,so why and how you lost your cool and spewed all those bile,how you transitioned from "mister cool guy" to ... still suprises me. Anyways,sort your emotions out so it doesnt deprive you of golden opportunities in the future. You owe all those people you insulted an apology and then you must try to win back the trust of your helper( not in anticipation of further help,but just to set the records straight.) Dont dish out insults at me,I mean no harm,okay?

Preetiex:
na my sis name be dat abbeycity,pls forgive & forget

me I have forgiven and moved on. I am sure I have spent x3 or even more of 19k between Saturday and now.

Was just disappointed at the attitude. But very happy GOD used me to help him. He seems genuine but with a piss poor attitude.

abescom:
me I have forgiven and moved on. I am sure I have spent x3 or even more of 19k between Saturday and now.

Was just disappointed at the attitude. But very happy GOD used me to help him. He seems genuine but with a piss poor attitude.

Eeseun

BentiBenti:
I'm very sorry sir, I felt so bad seeing people calling me a scammer. Not like they questioned my claims like you wrote up there, but they abused and insulted me by calling me a scammer. A reasonable person would've just simply remind me of the promise I made earlier rather than jumping to start accusing me of robbing you in disguise. Go back to the comments that followed my own after I thanked you and you'll see where my anger rose from. I didn't have anything to hide from you, just that I was very busy trying to tidy up my things and my work was not even helping matters. That was why I delayed, not like I forgot. The truth is, I was just angry and I'm sorry I couldn't control my anger. That is the worst thing I hate in my life, for someone to accuse me of what I've not done.. Even my mum knows the kind of anger I normally exhibit. But apart from that, I'm a very respectful & a jovial person you'll ever come across in your life. Accept my apology sir, you've done so much for you to dislike me. I know I don't deserve anything from you, but just forgive me on this one. So many things on my mind now.. It's not easy to be an orphan and I'm fighting in every possible means to succeed in life. I apologize once again to each an everyone here I had problems with, forgive and forget.. And also be always reasonable enough before you jump to conclude on matters you know notin of

I'm sorry

1. I feel your pain. People accusing someone wrongly can really piss a genuine needy person off. It makes you feel humiliated and angry so I get where you're coming from.

A lot of people come online to dump their frustrations on others and use language they normally wouldn't use in real life. And then they expect you to not react violently when they spew rubbish. As far as I'm concerned your angry reaction was not too out of place, however you did a very big no-no by showing that anger to abescom in one of your responses. For the fact that he was the one that helped you, you should have respected that and held your peace.

@abescom, like others have said, kindly forgive this fellow and move on. You provided help for someone in need and the Cosmos will definitely reward you.



2. Op, in your apology you mentioned that even your mom knows the kind of anger you have. In a later paragraph you mentioned that you are an orphan. An orphan is someone that doesn't have any parents. Care to explain that?

P.S, I'm not judging either way, a lot of people are finding things hard in this economic recession, if you spiced up your story a bit to garner more sympathy no qualms. But saying your parents are dead if they're not, well, that's some serious stuff right there.

abescom:
me I have forgiven and moved on. I am sure I have spent x3 or even more of 19k between Saturday and now.

Was just disappointed at the attitude. But very happy GOD used me to help him. He seems genuine but with a piss poor attitude.

God bless you. That is the spirit of love.

Prognose:
1. I feel your pain. People accusing someone wrongly can really piss a genuine needy person off. It makes you feel humiliated and angry so I get where you're coming from.

A lot of people come online to dump their frustrations on others and use language they normally wouldn't use in real life. And then they expect you to not react violently when they spew rubbish. As far as I'm concerned your angry reaction was not too out of place, however you did a very big no-no by showing that anger to abescom in one of your responses. For the fact that he was the one that helped you, you should have respected that and held your peace.

@abescom, like others have said, kindly forgive this fellow and move on. You provided help for someone in need and the Cosmos will definitely reward you.



2. Op, in your apology you mentioned that even your mom knows the kind of anger you have. In a later paragraph you mentioned that you are an orphan. An orphan is someone that doesn't have any parents. Care to explain that?

P.S, I'm not judging either way, a lot of people are finding things hard in this economic recession, if you spiced up your story a bit to garner more sympathy no qualms. But saying your parents are dead if they're not, well, that's some serious stuff right there.

thanks alot sir, I'm happy you understand what brought about my hedious act here. Well, my mum is alive o.. But I lost my dad. I'll say I made a mistake using the word "orphan" since I didn't have any right word to use there. Pls I don't want any sympathy from any one here.. I've gone so far in life to start crying over someone's head. I'm very pleased with the way you felt my pain.. Thanks

Juliearth:
It is normal for people to call you a scammer on this forum owing to past experiences. Your attitude before and after you got help from @abescom kinda proves that you may be one too. Obviously, the least logical thing to do after receiving help is to send a snapshot of the mattrass and receipt. By now,you ought to have known that people will always throw stones at you and spite you,so why and how you lost your cool and spewed all those bile,how you transitioned from "mister cool guy" to ... still suprises me. Anyways,sort your emotions out so it doesnt deprive you of golden opportunities in the future. You owe all those people you insulted an apology and then you must try to win back the trust of your helper( not in anticipation of further help,but just to set the records straight.) Dont dish out insults at me,I mean no harm,okay?

I made a mistake ma'am and I understand you clearly.

I'm sorry

abescom:
me I have forgiven and moved on. I am sure I have spent x3 or even more of 19k between Saturday and now.

Was just disappointed at the attitude. But very happy GOD used me to help him. He seems genuine but with a piss poor attitude.

ose o boss.. I dobale! But abeg no mind my attitude online boss! I'm a very cool person in reality and one can hardly see me with a frown face.. S'all cool.

Abescom thanks for helping the op,he seems genuine to me.meanwhile some people knows how to bring out the hidden innate demons in pipo by their toxic comments.

Op next time eeh,try to control your anger have a nice day

ahnie:
Abescom thanks for helping the op,he seems genuine to me.meanwhile some people knows how to bring out the hidden innate demons in pipo by their toxic comments.

Op next time eeh,try to control your anger have a nice day

thanks ma'am.. One love!

ahnie:
Abescom thanks for helping the op,he seems genuine to me.meanwhile some people knows how to bring out the hidden innate demons in pipo by their toxic comments.

Op next time eeh,try to control your anger have a nice day

How's your kid doing?

Prognose:
How's your kid doing?

they are flourishing...thnk

ahnie:
they are flourishing...thnk

I've been a fan of your thread for a while though never commented, good job you're doing there with your family. Keep it up.

Prognose:
I've been a fan of your thread for a while though never commented, good job you're doing there with your family. Keep it up.

I know always sees you reading it seriously like someone sitting for ICAN

ahnie:
I know always sees you reading it seriously like someone sitting for ICAN

Chei, they haff catch me

Seriously, your diary is akin to that of funke akindele's "Jenifa's diary". It's real and down to earth. Not at all pretentious. I can read it all day. You should consider approaching a good movie director

Prognose:



Chei, they haff catch me

Seriously, your diary is akin to that of funke akindele's "Jenifa's diary". It's real and down to earth. Not at all pretentious. I can read it all day. You should consider approaching a good movie director

Oshey...naim one madam de form foreign for my head say I spank my pikin,say she wantu arrest me.Damn I can lie to you that I ate fried rice while e be say Na fried dried garri garnished with burnt onion I eat.

Anyways oshey!!

ahnie:
Oshey...naim one madam de form foreign for my head say I spank my pikin,say she wantu arrest me.Damn I can lie to you that I ate fried rice while e be say Na fried dried garri garnished with burnt onion I eat.

Anyways oshey!!

Who be dat?

Me, I spank my younger ones too. Make I join you for the arrest.

Wait, is that why you deleted your posts?

Prognose:

Who be dat?

Me, I spank my younger ones too. Make I join you for the arrest.

Wait, is that why you deleted your posts?

mba....just felt like having my own space where I could really breathe freely.

ahnie:
mba....just felt like having my own space where I could really breathe freely.

It's alright.

I keep preaching it though, don't let what people say and do online affect you negatively especially if you are not doing anything wrong. There are a lot of pretenders here, a whole damn lot of them. They have no one to boost thier ego in the real world so they come to flex their muscles online. Don't let it affect you negatively.

I just checked on your diary and saw almost everything has been wiped. That was pure literature gold there, good enough to make into a tv series, seriously, I hope you kept a backup somewhere.

I know you love your kids and your man very much and anything you do for them (and to them(apart from breaking oga's neck )) is out of love. I have some Isoko and itsekiri sisters so I know how you girls roll .
Keep on being real sister.